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bad inluence or not?
my best friend who i have gotten to kno this school year. has been geting into alot of trouble with her pranets lately and is now sexually active. she barely hangs out wit us at school cuz she is too busy making out with difrernt boys and we don't ever go out to like the movies cuz she is having sex with them (diferent boi per night)..my friends n i are debating if we should tel her off that she is a bad influence and our true feelings towards her but we don't know if thaT would be right to do...we are confused..help us out.
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The only way she can be a bad influence is if you follow in her footstpes and since you all can see obviously that she is wrong by her ways than you aren't following her and you shouldn't; you have your own minds so no she is not a bad influence. She just is just displaying bad choices and behavior right now that is only hurting her. Right now you should try to get throuh to her and alarm her of the mistakes she is making. Let her know you guys are important to and you want to see a little more of her spend a little more time with her and tell her all the bad points about what she is doing such as stds,pregnancy, and humiliation. Don't desert her and don't judge her be her best friend and if she can't give you the same thing back then maybe you should cut ties with her.
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Well it sounds like you need to tell her off cause it sounds like she has no interest of being you friend anymore so I would tell her off and say whats got into you and I'm sure she will probably fill guilt. Well I hope this helps.
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I think you should just grow apart from her. You don't seem too interested in her, and she doesn't seem too interested in you, so just let it go. Talk to her on occasion, but keep it light. You know how there are some people who you talk to, but not enough to actually call them friends? Treat her like one of them. If she confronts you, tell her that you have different interests. Also, tell her how you don't really like how she's acting, so you don't want to be that great friends with her anymore.
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Maybe she is having some problems or something. Maybe she feels insecure and thinks she will just take the easy way of making friends, by having sex with them. You should really talk to her, but yes, she is a bad influence and I do NOT encourage you to follow in her footsteps. Tell her how you feel about what she is doing, and if she doesn't care, forget about her. Hope I helped.
xo.Stephanie
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i wouldn't tell her she is a bad influence because that could really hurt her feelings, i would sit her down and talk to her about STD's. there are a lot of STD's out there and some of them are life threatenting or non-curable. alos if she gets preganant she is going to ruin the rest of her life. make sure she knows this
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