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My name is Stephanie, I am still trying to figure myself out.

I am not a very simple person. I confuse myself. I love people. I love making and having friends. I adore my family. I hate missing family functions. As much as I like people, I am not very good with them. I am overly-critical, overly-sensitive, overly-serious and overly-suspisious in most situations. I don't trust people. I over-react, though my intentions are good, things always turn out bad. When I realize I have done something wrong, I don't sleep until I have fixed it, or at least said i'm sorry. My best friend is Renata. She used to live here, but she moved to NC last summer. I think I am misunderstood, and that people who DON'T know me, have their idea of what/who I am, and are wrong. I am fairly emotional and sometimes I think I am smiling, but I am really not. I love school. Well, at least the social aspect of it. I don't care much for the learning. It used to come easy. I struggle a bit now. Highschool is overwealming, tiring, and dissapointing, but at the same time I love it. I love the season of Winter. But my favorite month is September. September is beautful.

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E-mail: woaitbestephanie@aim.com
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Location: Rhode Island
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Age: 14
AIM: WoaItBeStephanie
Member Since: December 28, 2006
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Last Update: May 16, 2007
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i need help trying to get you to like me. youre pretty cute and id love to go out with you. call meh 440-9007

I hate you scott.
=]
Here's some advice.
Go kill yourself.

xo. Stephanie

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My name is alex. i want a new screen name with my name in it. can anybody think of anything clever?

You can so something fun like

Alex Says

or

An IM from Alex

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do you kiss a boy?!

ITS RLLY IMPORTANT

Emily you are GHEY!.
xo. Stephanie

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S0o0o0o0o, der isz dis boii ii lyk, & ii dunn0 if he b lykin' meh bacKk. we talKk onlyne al0t, & ii maybii wanna ask hym 2 freshman/s0phm0r3. buh we barely c each othuh, & we've 0nlii talKk3d iin pers0n onc3. h0w shood ii get hym 2 lyk meh?

Well, maybe the way you type is turning him off. Because I know, if I were him, I wouldn't be interested in anything that types LiiKe DiSs. But you should just be your lovely self. And he will love you lots and be your babee boii 22 fo'. =)
xo. Stephanie

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Where can I get long tube socks
that are white with a stripe color at the top?

I need stores, not online places.

:) Thanks!

Bobs.

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all my friends hate me im a just ugly goth =(

I'm sure that's not true. If they are your friends, I doubt they hate you.
xo.Stephanie

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Whats a good colonge (sorry not sure how to spell that) to buy a guy ? not more then 40 dollars though ? and where can i find it ?
THANKS :]

Abercrombie fierce. That stuff is SO good.
xo. Stephanie

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Okay I have this guy that I truely love and he knows that i love him but at the same time he has a girlfriend and it doesnt look like they are going to break up at any point in time but he also seems to flirt with me continuly on and on everyday! When Im walking in the halls at school he will automatically give me a hug and speak to me no matter who sees! What should I do because I pray every night that they would break up and I could have him all to myself! So what should I do?

Just watch out. This could potentially turn into a bad situation. If he were to be alone with you, he could easily cheat on his girlfriend and use you to get action. I've seen this happen before. So be careful.
xo. Stephanie

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on myspace bands. do like there "people" like publicists et cetera go on the bands profile??? because i didnt think the band members would have time too. but im not sure so THANKS FOR YOUR ANSWERS!

Well i'm pretty sure it all depends on the band. Myspace music sites can be made by ANYONE, so if the band isn't very famous, then it's most likely the actual band checking the mail and stuff. But big band might have people who check them, because they probably get a lot of comments. Hope I helped.
xo. Stephanie.

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I want to add a caption under my pictures on Myspace. I tried using every link from Imageshack & Tinypic, but nothing seems to be working. How do I do this? It is really frustrating me.

Thanks.

Use this code. And put the url in in between the quotes. It it doesn't fit, rename the file to a shorter name, which will shorten the URL. Hope I helped.
xo. Stephanie

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i have a playing test in band tomorrow for school and i have a question

when theres a note... is the key signature (flat or sharp) supposed to go in FRONT of the note? or BEHIND the note?

and how do you play a B# on a clarinet??

The key signature sign goes in front of the note. And you can look up a fingering chart on google. I play the clarinet too! Hope I helped.
xo.Stephanie

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Okay i really want that emo look. Can anybody help me? I am male, 14, and 6feet tell. thanks a ton

Tight girls jeans, black tee-shirts, studded belt, long straight black hair that covers one eye. Simple as that. I hope I helped.
xo.Stephanie

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ok i used to have this really cool myspace layout... then i took a bunch of these survey thingys and put them on there and now my layout is just plain and white. so thinking one of my friends with acsess to my myspace had taken my layout away for some reason, i went on pyzam to find a different one. i tried to put the code in for that one, and nothing showed up, it was just white. i want to know whats going on with my myspace. please help me
much luv,
emi

I am guessing one of the survey codes messed it up. Try deleting EVERYTHING and then putting on the layout. Just save the codes on microsoft word and put them back one at a time. Make sure you save the changes and view your profile after you put each thing back on. Then if it messes up, get rid of whatever you last put on. Sometimes the easiest way to make a myspace work right is to just start over. Good luck. Hope I helped.
xo.Stephanie

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16/f
Firstly, I am Catholic. In the bible it says it is a sin to sleep with a man that you are not married with. I have a boyfriend, and once in awhile I will sleep over at his house and we will sleep in the same bed. WE DO NOT HAVE SEX, but we "sleep" together. So, is it considered a sin to do this because he is not my husband? I am just really confused.

No. The term "sleeping" with someone, means to have sex with them. The act of having sex should only be done in the comfort of a marriage where you are ready to welcome in the possibility of a baby, because that's really what it's for. It sounds to me like you're not doing anything wrong. Just be careful. Hope I helped.
xo.Stephanie.

PS: I am Catholic too!

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well my cousin is going to middle school this year and all her friends are going even her crush but her crush has a gf and she thinks in middle school she'll forget about him but she really likes him and all her friends say oh they are going to break up in middle school cause they are going to like someone else blah blah blah anyone she got convice that its going to happen i told her in middle school she'll meet other guys but she dosent belive me what should i do

Just keep up the good encouragment. Spend a lot of time with her so she doesn't get sad and lonely. But once she gets there, she will probably adjust and meet tons of other guys. Good luck. Hope I helped.
xo.Stephanie.

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ok so the other day me and my boyfriend were kinda arguing about why i get mad and he said he doesnt know why i get mad because he never does anything wrong. i answered back by saying you have to do something wrong or else i wouldnt get mad. so my bf thinks hes mr.perfect and he NEVERRRRR does anything wrong. so i got mad. again. haha was it ok to be mad eventho i know im right because everyone does something wrong at somepoint in their lives but he insists that hes never done anything wrong... ahhhh i hateitttt haha but do i have the right to be mad? i mean im right. right. noones perfect!

Well don't be mad if you don't have a real reason. This will just annoy him and make him not want to be around him. Maybe try and be more kind and gentle with him rather than exploding for no reason. Hope I helped.
xo.Stephanie

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do tampons always break your hymen [considering it wasnt broken before]?

No. Using a tampon is not having sex.

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15/F
I have dated this boy on and off since the fourth grade. He was my first everything. Well we were together for 6 months and I broke up with him, but I still have strong feelings for him. Sometimes I think he has feelings for me but I don't know. So 2 weeks ago he came over and we started makingout but thats it then this weekend he came over (our parents are best friends) and he didnt say anything to me. He got me something for valentines but I havent gotten it yet because it snowed and I didn't see him. I can't read him because he always says he loves me but says he doesn't want a girlfriend. Does he mean he likes me and really doesn't want a girlfriend or what is he doing? Please help
Thanks in advance!!!!!!!!

I hate to be a downer, but the situation might not look too good. The same thing happened to a good friend of mine. A guy she knew for a real long time, randomly decided to tell her he loved her. But then she moved and a bunch of crap happened, and it turned oyut he was only telling her that to get in her pants. Maybe he is just looking for a friendship with benefits, guys are like that sometimes. But I could be wrong. Maybe he is just afraid of commitment. just be careful, and don't let him use you. Hope I helped.

xo.Stephanie

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my best friend who i have gotten to kno this school year. has been geting into alot of trouble with her pranets lately and is now sexually active. she barely hangs out wit us at school cuz she is too busy making out with difrernt boys and we don't ever go out to like the movies cuz she is having sex with them (diferent boi per night)..my friends n i are debating if we should tel her off that she is a bad influence and our true feelings towards her but we don't know if thaT would be right to do...we are confused..help us out.

Maybe she is having some problems or something. Maybe she feels insecure and thinks she will just take the easy way of making friends, by having sex with them. You should really talk to her, but yes, she is a bad influence and I do NOT encourage you to follow in her footsteps. Tell her how you feel about what she is doing, and if she doesn't care, forget about her. Hope I helped.
xo.Stephanie

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Do people define others upon their social status more so in middle school or high school? I know that there are so many more kids where i am going to go to high school next year, so wouldn't it be difficult to get to know everyone? thanks =]

Middle school has so much more seperation. Once you get to high school, cliques won't matter any more. And of course, you don't have to get to know EVERYONE, just the people you are interested in getting to know. Hope I helped.

xo.Stephanie

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