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no flower or anything
when you date a guy, but he doesn't send anything to you or call you or email you or anything on Valentine's day.
Do you just break up with him? Or you call and ask him what's going on?
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aye chicka lemme lay this down for you, if it gets to valentine night and homeboy aint call or nuttin yet, you never call them, let him realize that he fucked up and he'll call you, no matter how hard it is, DONT CALL, TEXT, EMAIL, NUTTIN...
All guys are idiots no matter what anyone says, and he will eventually realize what happena nd beg for your forgiveness, but if he goes along time like 2-3 days without contacting you, then you send him a text saying, "Yo loser dude did you forget about me? Well I think we need to talk, get at me." or something like that.
But don't panic thats tha worst thing to do, panic or flip out.
See valentines day is my birthday as well, and my man hadn't called me all day, but yet i got calls and deliverys from all my homies all day long, but at 9:30 that night he calls me and tha thing is since he was working (which i knew about) plus he wanted to be tha last one to call me to tell me happy b.day and v.day.. He wanted to be on tha phone longer then anyone who would ever tell me happy b.day, and we talked until 12:30....
So just dont panic okay...
hope i helped holla...
.Da One'n Only.
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same exact thing happened to me =| i didnt get a call or anything yesterday. ill admit i was pretty upset and disapointed because all my other friends got stuff and it was a special day for them. then i realized that its just a day. boys dont think like us so im sure he didnt mean to hurt you in any kind of way. i think girls just make it into a big deal when its really not. just think of a regular day something like halloween. you know nothing really too special. we dont need a day to make us feel loved right ? so in other words stay with him because like i said im sure he didnt mean no harm.
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Well I'm a guy and a lot of guys are shy about doing thing like that they thing its kinda weird until there mom does it for them and help them. But I would just call him and ask him how everything is going forgive and forget. I'm sure he still loves you me and my girlfriend went to a dance for well it was not really Valentines Day she lives in a different state which sucks but it keeps me motivated but just ask him how things are going and tell him that you miss him. I hope this helps!!
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Yeah my boyfriend didn't get me anything for Valetine's Day either. Its really not that big of a deal. I figure I'd rather spend time with him than get present anyday. Maybe he really just does not know what to get you. He could be nervous. Maybe he thinks the same way I don about this holdiay. Its a made-up one made by the Hallmark Greeting Card company so they can make more money. :) Yeah. I would just let it go. Now if it were like Christmas or your birthday, that would be another story, and I would tell you to break up with him or probaly just go talk to him about it. ^_^
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I don't think you should break up with him or even call him out on it. I think that it is wrong to expect a gift, email, or whatever, from anyone.
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Breaking up with a guy for not sending you a flower or getting you a gift is unreasonable. Maybe he doesn't like to celebrate this holiday and most guys don't like getting or reciving gifts. You could ask him why he didn't get you anything but it's really not a big deal. You shouldn't break up with someone because of that.
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