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im 15 (almost 16)/f and my boyfriend is 18/m.
we've been dating almost 3 years now and are sexually active, but we do not use condoms. he usually either finishes in my mouth or on me, never in me. the thing is, i want to get pregnant, but he doesnt. i can understand why he doesnt though. what should i do? i really love him and i really want a baby. (link)
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Okay I read all the other responses and i dont really wanna repeat them because they are all true, but its a living hell trust me a lot of my friends have had kids, and they regret it soo much, they wished taht they would have waited, one had a baby next year had another baby same guy, she had all these plans but she cant even think about her going to college anymore she gotta think about her kids future.
He's 18 you 15 turning 16 thats sagitory rape hun, and if you dont know what that means, it means someone 18 or older having sex with a minor and both parties want it, but if your parents think anything they will charge him for rape and the jugde wont even listen to your opinion.. Do you want tha man you love to be in lock up just because you couldn't wait??
I'm sorry but i think thats wrong to be dating someone 18 when ur 15-16, and im not being a hypocrite becuz yes my man is gonna be 18 soon and im 16 but we dont have sex, but still we might end tha realtionship when he turns 18 because of that reason.
plz think about it....
.Da One'n Only.
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I accidentally drop my Ipod in the washing machine today while it was running. Thankfully, it was off and on hold, but I haven't tried turning it on yet in case there is moisture in there. What are the chances of it ever being able to work again? Is it possible to just leave it off for a few days and just let it dry out? Or am I basically screwed? (link)
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Your in luck this happen to my friend before accept his got washed in tha washer then dryed in tha dryer and well he just left it alone for a few weeks and he sold it to a friend and told him that you cant wall charge it any more and his friend computer charged it and it worked so he things it must have dried out after the weeks and the dryer... so try leaving it to dry...
hope i helped
.Da One'n Only.
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ok im 13/f.
i need some honest help here.
ive been with my boyfriend for 4 months and i really like him..i thought i loved him at one point but i realized that i just really really like him.
so anyway.
things were going amazingly until about 2 weeks ago.
we were perfect,and everyone told us that.
i loved him so much.
but then when i was in a play at my school,and i fell for one of the stage crew guys.
ive been hanging with him and his friends alot lately.
last night we had a dance at our school and my boyfriend wasnt there but he told me i could dance w/ other guys because he trusted me.
so i grinded and slow danced with this guy and his friends.
i wanted to kiss him so badly but i couldnt because i would never cheat on my boyfriend.
i dont know wht to do.
o and i broke up with my bf a couple days because he was getting really mad at threatening my guy friends bcuz they were talking to me alot.
but then we got back together and i dont no wht to do.
he got mad at my friend [not the one i like but one of my other guy friends] last night and punched him in the face.
i kinda wanna dump him and go out with him.
oh and one more problem.
my friend [not my best friend but more then a just hi hi how ya doin friend] went out with him for a day and she still likes him and was mad when i grinded with him.
i need help.
and i kinda wanna b single so i can flirt and play around with other guys.
btw-i AM NOT a slut.
im just the kind of girl who has alot of guy friends. (link)
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LMFAO wow....
iight chica this is crazii but okay...
First you 13 and got your whole life ahead of you i know millions of people have prolly already told you that but it's the truth, no matter what you think guys will come and go faster then friends.
Okay you went out partied a lil, had fun, and now you feelin' the playa who you grinded up on, well that happens a lot its just the intensity of dancing, you might not really like him the way you think you do, so give that some time.
Make sure he likes you first....
Your man, well if he trusts you to dance with other niggaz in a dance, but he cant trust you talking to them when you arent standing up sex'n them, well then homeboy has a problem.
Yo 'friend' ask her if you went out with this niggaz what would she do honestly, if she says i would hit you, then be like oh well then just hit me now becuz we feelin' eachother..
Now dont forget my first words you are to young to be tied down if you feel for another playa just tell ya boy its not working out its to serious of a relationship and you want out for the moment....
hope i helped holla
.Da One'n Only.
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So i've been acting a lot lately with a southern accent- just joking around with my best friend.
the truth is i DON'T have a southern accent but i've found myself subconsciously pronouncing some vowels liek i'm kind of southern. i need to stop because i dont want people to think i'm southern.
its like i forgot how to talk normally.
help me lol. (link)
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oh i feel ya homes, my home girl just got up and dipped to some rich town of preps, and we all ghetto, so when she came back down to live she was talkin all proper it was funny, but bein round us changed her living style back to normal...
So just try to catch your self in tha process, or when typing to your friends type normal and read it out loud, maybe that might help...
But aint no one gone bust on you if you have a southern accent,
hope i helped
.Da One'n Only.
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I wanted to know why do some boys act mean and nasty to certain girls after they break up. Like they start saying "What are you looking at?" They also start talking about that girl and they don't speak no more or even look the girls way. (link)
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hmmm this is a tough question but all guys just want to be respected by their homies, so they will make cracks or judge their X's for their worsts. When that does happen try to ignore it and think about something stupid about them, if your not a big mouth person. But if you are, like me I would personally not take a bull shit and be like yo playa why you hating? Didn't i break up wit chu? or Why you cracking on me? I aint as ugly as your girl.... Or just something to get him boys to be like OHHHH.....
lol but try to ignore it at first, and worst comes to worst bust out by cracking on the way he kissed or stupid things that mean so much to him.
hope i helped.. holla
.Da One'n Only.
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I will not say what I believe in for abortion because that may influence your answer..but someone brought this to my attention...
do you consider this an exception for abortion..if an 11 year old girl got pregnant(raped) and her hips couldn't support the baby. Do you believe that when a girl has her period she is ready to give child birth even though her age may not be? Any insight would be greatly appreciated! Thank you. (link)
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Well its the mothers choice but if her hips arent ready going natural isnt the only to have a baby the doctor should have told her that, the thing is i personally wouldn't keep the baby one because thats such a young age and two the mother will have a baby by the person who raped her she is gonna want to forget about what happen and having a baby by that person will make it difficult. plus when the baby asks whose the father what she gonna say i dont know i was raped at 11. Plus 11 is way to young. she has 7 years of school left not including college and a baby kind of ruins or sets back any plans...
.Da One'n Only.
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Ok so I know I have asked before but I am freaking so I am going to ask again. My boyfriend and I have dry humped but fully clothed. (Him: boxers, cacies(sp)Me:Pad,Underwear, jeans or korderoy pants.)Well my period hasn't come but it should be anyday now.(I think I am having light cramps but not sure) I am a bit late. I have never had intercourse. Is there anyway that I might be pregnant if he has gotten a quater sized wet spot on on his pants but he never like...ejaculated?
Help..
~ELI (link)
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lol nope shorty ur not preggy yo period just acting up and thats gonna happen a lot, but unless he cums inside you and his sprems attack your eggs then u cant be preggy, you will never get preggy for dry humping, i just think thats werid "dry humping" no offense...
.Da One'n Only.
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So for my birthday I got a sewing machine, i'm happy because I wanted one! I know the basics of sewing like how to make pillows and how to thread the machine and stuff. But thats the bad part, I only know how to make pillows. My dad for part of my present also went out and got me all this stuff for making a pattern we bough in the rag shop. It's to make like this tote bag. I thought it was going to be really beginner friendly and all, but they say all this stuff in the instructions and when I looked at the papers it was so confusing it was like in another language. I feel bad because my parents spent all this money. How can I learn how to sew and do patterns?? (link)
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well i took tailoring in for half a year this semester, so i understand wat u going through. Try to get something easier, or if you have a teacher who sews ask for sum help. My first project in tailoring was pajama pants to me it was easy but a lot of my friends had difficulties, try to imagine tha picture, because i guareentee u gone be lost at first
.Da One'n Only.
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i have long, layered and straight hair. I always have it down and it's really boring. So what kinds of hair styles can i do to it? Srunching or curling my hair is really hard to do so if you do suggest it then you should give me intructions. Thanks! (link)
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even though your hair is straight iron it because it makes a big difference, then blow dry it so its flippy and use ur finngers to push it back then to tha side starting where ur path would be.
or try waving it in or out.
.Da One'n Only.
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where are some good places to get bikinis
im 14 so i don't want a SUPER SEXY one ha.
don't say
abercrombie
a&f
hollister
ae
thanks (link)
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old navy
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i`m having a party in bout two weeks.
my d.j wants me to make a list of songs i want && i thought that would be easy ha.ha but it seriously isn`t.
me && my friends all dance to hip hop // rap.
so if you could give me a list of songs that would be great =)
i need a pretty decent list cuz my party is four hours longg. (link)
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uhh thats werid check wit tha DJ first and make sure your not just making a list or requested songs, because i know a lot of DJ's personally and i never herd of a DJ asking tha customer to pick out all tha songs for tha event.
But if thats the case if u have limewire just time in any artists name and write down ya fav songs, but if not look threw cds.
well im having a party too so i can help...
maybe u like me and listen to a lot of reggaeton, if so good put wisin y yandel on ya list of artists
even if tha songs are old it dont matter because people like songs they know...
get low
salt shaker
holiday inn
make it rain
lean wit it rock wit it
tootsie roll
errtime
flap ya wings
badd
lose control
1 2 step
snap ya fingers
need a dime
im still in love with you
tipsy
yeah
ballin'
.Da One'n Only.
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i have a program where i can transfer music to my phone, is there a place where i can make a song into a ringtone? (link)
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uhh depending on tha phone try nextpimp.com
.Da One'n Only.
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14/f
OKay my friend that ive known since 7th grade is getting his license tomorrow (hes 16/m) and well over the past few year ive like matured physically and ive gotten boobs and stuff.... well hes all excited for us to go driving around and stuff but i have a feeling he wants to do stuff with me... Me and him have never done nythign before but i mean we talk about that stuff...I mean im not gunna lie, i want to do stuff with him but hes the kind of guy that will not make the first move no matter what...So my question is when we are sitting in his car, how should i make the first move, what do i say/do?
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ummm okay, well if you are both physically and mentally to mess with this guy, then do something goofy, like say my lips are cold do you think you can warm them up? or prentend like you bit your lip and act like you really hurt and be like can you make it better for me. And if he asks what can he do to help play dumb and be like im not sure but this might help and kiss tha sucka.
Or my homegirl used this one, she said damn i put to much chapstick on do you want some, or you can you wanna help me take it off.
If its cold you touch his hand and be like damn your warm i wish i was warm,
or if yall gone get freaky in tha back seat hop back there and make sure your comfortable and complain about being lonely in tha back or ask for some company, or say theres a lot of room back here.
hope i helped, have fun and be safe chicka. holla
.Da One'n Only.
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14/f well i really need advice soon please..Well on Friday afterschool..i was hanging with my friends as always, and this guy comes..and i never met him in my life..but he kept flirting with me and asking me whats my number and if i wanted to "bone". (He was just joking though,just to make me laugh) he was really cute..he kept asking me out and for my number but i was too shy, i wanted to tell him yes..but i didnt.i think on he is coming to where i hang out next frieday...so i need advice,do u think he was serious when he said he wanted to bone...cuz i thought he was joking but i wasnt sure, please give me tips on how to flirt with a guy and show him that i like him..in a sexy way.thanks in advance
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iight chicka if he's gonna be there good, but if not dont be disappointed that why you shouldn't get so overwhelmed.
But be there wit cha girls and let them in that way if hes there and it gets awakared ya homies got ya back. Make sure you not wearing anything that you were last time he seen you sum guys take notice. Look cute but dont get all dolled up. Just get to know him at first and if you realize you like him, and he hasn't ask you out, be like oh is it to late to take you up on ya offer from tha other day becuz i think i would like to get to know ya better...
hope i helped have fun and dont do anything ur not ready for.
holla
.Da One'n Only.
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I know that I trust my boyfriend and I know that he would never cheat on me because he honestly loves me and it's a mutual feeling, but he's been talking to this girl that he said he met about a year ago and she lives about an hour away from where him and i live, but when he visits his dad he visits her, and she is suposidly one of his best friends, but for some reason whenever i'm hanging around with him and a girl calls h sits there and texts her or talks to her, and it bugs me alot, and i said something once and he said that he would never cheat on me, but for some reason i'm still scared that something will happen. I'm also upset because I was looking at this girls MySpace and it had some comments on there from like almost a year ago him saying on her pictures stuff like "Or you're so sexy.." and stuff like that but he posted those things before him and i started dating, but it bugs me that they are still there and i tried telling him i didn't like it and asked him to delete it but he told me that i shouldn't worry about it and it shouldn't be a problem but for some reason i still don't like it, and he talks about his ex's alot and it bugs me alot and i told him and he said that i had nothing to worry about and i shouldn't worry about, but i really love him but it bugs me so much and i try to ignore it but i can't and whenever i try to talk about it with him he gets pissy and moody and says that i'm not listening to my heart and i'm only thinking about his past.
I'm sorry that this is so long but i needed to get it out. Thank you so much.
-Beanie (link)
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lol dont worry about tha length just make sure you read err thang imma say...
First of all with this chick in tha other town, try to make friends with her, if she gut a myspace become one of her friends, and if she gets curious on why you wanna get to know her just be like well (ya boys name) says your mad chill. And if you two become good friends she will spill err thang.
And about tha comments just try to ignore them, because are guys, like even my homeboys leave messages like that saying how sexii, or damn ya man is lucky, or i want sum of that, they just goofy.
And when he texts or calls a chick when you around, wait until he is really focused on what hes doing and try to sit on him or lay on him or lean on him real close so he will feel your body, and then start making out with him, or do a quick tongue down, or kiss him hard suck his lips, and use ya teeth, make him want you and forget about tha chick.
When he starts talking about his ex's say i'd rather talk about you n me then sum people i hardly know. But say is in a sexii voice taht will turn him on. And make him feel guilty that he dont spend enough time with you and when u on tha phone with him, be like oh i really wanna be with you right now or i want you to hold me tight or i wanna kiss them juicy lips of yours but you probably busy talking to one of them girls. And let him know how much you feel for him.
hope i helped
.Da One'n Only.
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i have long hair in braids. usually the only hairstyles i do are like.. just leaving it down, up ponytail, down ponytail, and occasionally pigtails. im 13 and what cute hairstyles can i do with this kinda hair? and no, my mom wont let me relax it or anything like that. im like an african too, and my braids hair like mesh in it to hold the braids together and such. (link)
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iight homie since im really good with all kinds of hair imma holla at chu...
Since you aint gonna have tha braids in for ever when u take em out wash ya hair really well to take out tha chemicals, den blow dry it or flat iron it or use clips to decorate it.
For something real cute straight'n it, then do a different kind of path then use clips to put it back, like flat twisties.
Or with tha braids ....
put it in a low side pony tail and braid tha lil braids in one loose braid.
Or even try to do differnt side paths. or put it in a high pony and leave sum hairs out and make a puff or a loop.
hope i helped holla shorty
.Da One'n Only.
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i know this is really common, but i have no idea what to get my boyfriend for his birthday. hes gonna be 17. he loves hockey, and i know he shops at hollister. i wanna get him like, a shirt or something with a few other things, but are guys weirded out when their girlfriends buy them clothes? haha. i know he just bought new cologne today, so thats out of the question too. any help would be really appreciated thank youu (link)
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lol thats fine i always ask my homegirls what to get my man when i needa get him suttin, but commonly get him a chain, sum kicks, a fitted. Well for my ex, I got him a big dog stuff animal since he loves dogs and put a white fitted on tha dogs head and earrings in tha ears and a chain on tha neck, it was mad ghetto but cute, and its all something he can wear or keep to remind of me.
So if you wanna get him a shirt, dont get him a T get him like a dress shirt suttin he wears to look fresh.
OR since he likes hockey maybe his fav hockey team shirt or go all out and find website for his fav hockey team and order suttin specially.
hope i helped
holla
.Da One'n Only.
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ok i really like this guy and i think he might like me but i'm too shy to talk to him. wat are some things i could say/do to get his attention more?
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Damn what is with all these shy people, lol sorry but my man is shy at times too, but send him a text, email, or even a note. doesn't have to say much just talk until you can get more comfortable around him. I suggest a myspace message, not like a comment or anything but a message guys like getting that kind of stuff since we all know how big of ego's they have. If no myspace, then text em, and if you don't have tha number, try to have one ya homegirls to get it from one his boys because his boys will end up telling him, about you and he will get excited and wait for your call but your not gonna call you send a simple text like, "Hey whatz good?, I hope its okay but a got your number from a friend." then wait for the texts to be rollin in. worst comes to worst send him a ghetto note saying hi and just get to know him...
hope i helped holla
.Da One'n Only.
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16/f
I've talked to this guy on myspace [I knew him from middle school] so he's not a stranger to me. We talked for many weeks. We met up about 3-4 times and we are going out now.
But I feel so stupid because I'm so shy and I can't look at him
We are surrounded around our friends and we haven't been alone.. I can only glance at his face. If i really stare at him, i get so shy.. my eyes water [for some reason? sensitive eyes?] and i blush like mad. I'm awful at eye contact. i keep telling myself to look into his eyes but i end up looking away.
I'm also tensed and nervous. I don't know how to feel comfortable around him. We haven't been dating long. Maybe a week? How can I be more open? Not so shy around him?
I can hug him but it's so awkward standing next to him. Maybe it's because he's watching my every move. It sort of scares me.
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lol thats cute, but i know how u feel that happens to me a lot, what u wanna do is when talking to other people not just him, look them straight in the eye it might seem awkard but it will help you with ya man. Plus try to hang out with him just tha two of you because always hanging out with friends is fun but distracting because you never really get to focus on just tha two of you, especially if you have goofy friends who will dare you guys to do stuff, that can get uncomfortable.
hope i helped
holla
.Da One'n Only.
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at my school we had this kind of fundraisor the highschoolers did. what they did was sell cut out hearts that kids can buy and give to people with a sucker. unfortunately the people selling them gave them to the kids that got one from someone who bought them one. i got one who didnt put there name on the heart on purpose( secret admire). it looked like the guy got a girl to write my name and the comment which was( my heart aches for you) i found out later by talking to one of the women that work at my school that a boy got her to write it to me but she wouldnt tell me who! all i know is hes not in my class.i dont even know if hes in my grade but its a good chance he is. how do i find out who it is? (link)
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awww thats mad sweet...
okay first you don't find out who sent it tell ya homegirls about it and drop it. Let him find you, he found you once let him find you again. By tellin' ya homegirls he'll probably hear that you really wanna know who its from, since you know ya girls cant keep that in for long. so let him find you...
hope i helped holla...
.Da One'n Only.
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