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ok this may sound weird but oh well...My boyfriend used to kiss me alllll the time and like show that he cares for me. But now, it seems like he dosn't even care even though he says he dose. It seems like he cares about his friends more then me. I don't know what is going on but i need help. What should I do/ say to him?

its possible that he just has something on his mind...try talkn to him about it...ask him wats wrong and stuff like that.

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why was advicenators down for a while?

change of servers

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(Sorry, I wasnt sure what category to put it under) Ok, ever since 5th grade I really started to hate my life. I mean, this large group of girls were doing petty things and were lying to the principal. Alot of people hate me. I lost 25 maybe more, friends. I cant take it anymore. My friends are starting to ignore me and "snub" me! Im starting to feel very depressed and lonely. My self-esteem is 2. Not alot. I cry myself to sleep. My family life isnt any better. My mom is SUPER paranoid, so I cant tell her anything. My dad wont understand. My mom wont let me go over to my friends house and such! Please help!
12/f

try talkn to a school counselor

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ok me and my boyfriend broke up and we still say "i love you" but then one day he got really mad at say he never wanted to talk to me again..but then he called me 3 dayz later and was talkin to me (that night he called and said sorry about sayin that!) then the last couple of nights he wouldnt hang up til we said "i love you" like he would just say "bye" til i said it then last night i said bye and he goes "bye shut up you know what to say" ...but then he used to tell me about missin out on some other girl...so whats his deal ..can someone tell me or explain his game to me!!...SORRY SOOO LONG!!

gurl u need to get rid of him...he just wants to be loved, and he doesnt care who it is that loves him...dont say it if u dont mean it...get rid of him.

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My mother and I went to Sam's Club where you can buy everything in bulk, including a one gallon jug of syrup. When we got home the syrup jug had cracked open and spilled all over the inside of my trunk. We tried our best to scoop up what we could, but it is just soaked into the carpet, and is really sticky. My car smells like a pancake house! What can I do to clean up this mess?

hahaha...that sucks., sry...make some pancakes i guess...jk..ok...go to a car dealership or like napa autoparts and find out wat u can do to get rid of the smell, and sticky...get ur option togethor and pick the best.

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..okay i know this is really long but i really need advice!! well this girl is one of my best friends..she tells me everything..well about a month ago she told me she was going anerexic, because she thinks shes fat! She is really skinny..!! I told her not to because she is really skinny and that is sooo unhealthy..and its stupid! She doesnt believe me whenever i say shes skinny..she just thinks im being nice whenever im really not! Everyday at lunchtime she would get a bottle of water..and if one of the teachers made her eat she would go to the bathroom and throw up! One day i followed her without her knowing. Well I didnt know what to do so I went to the guidence counsler..and told him what was going on..well he called her mom..but didnt say i said anything. i am not sure what her mom said.. so my friend found out it was me because i was the only one who she told. and i didnt know that! so she got mad at me and i appologized and we made up..and today in school she said she was doing it again?!??!?! i have talked to her a million times but its not working! i dont know what to do! i already told the consler the last time she did it..what should i do?! please help!!

go to her mom...bitch at her mom until she gets it in her head that if the mom or dad doesnt do nething about it, then it will be bad later on for their daughter. u did awesome by goni to the counselor...keep doin it and keep tell ur friend.

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i just found out i get my braces in 13 days any tips to help the process?

brush ur teeth better than ever, floss...mouth wash...no sugar...! if ur brackets come off, it will only take longer...get ready to indure the pain of braces.

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This sunday its been my one month aniversary with my vegetarianism. Though that kind of makes me sad because for 2 weeks my friends havn't talked to me. They say i've changed a llot, i dyed my hair from blonde to black, wear all black, and am really into rock (though i always have been) and, they ssay they wont talk to me because im a vegetarian! I started skipping lunch, A. because i just cant bring myself to eat. B. because no one to sit with. So i just wait outside (im 13 and in 7th grade)till the bell rings. And home, i lock myself in my room and say like 10 words...max. I just dont want to talk. *sigh* am i slipping into depression. I mean, why should i quit..i do have reason. Factory farms treat there animals HORRIBLE and my 'friends' dont beleive that! I brought my proof, (a book) and they refused to read it. I told them to go to www.meetyourmeat.com and they wouldnt! *sigh* im just so confused, sorry this is long.
Signed,
-.The lost last piece to the puzle.-

ok...not eating meet wont change the way things go on in slaughter houses...its called a slaughter house for a reason...and just because u dont eat meat, doesnt mean that ur not using a product that involves animals...makeup, lipstick, even hair brushes have things from animals...lipstick is tested on some animals...they dont necessarily treat animals bad...just because a book says that...they focus on the negative things, not the good too...but if ur friends think your changing then you probably are.

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Okay Where do i start theres this guy(Johnta) who i have been goin off and on with for the past two years.. and recently i broke up with him because i started liking this guy(Steve) i met at the beginning of school, i mean yea me and Johnta went to the same school but he never walked me to class and whenever i did see him all he did was give me a handshake like he was ashamed of me or something, and people came up to me and was like "Johnta said yall dont go out" and we did.. so i decided that maybe i should get to know steve better and i did and he treats me with respect, he walks me to class, carries my bookbag, and just makes me smile whenever i am around him, But now Johnta and Steve dont like each other because of me the other day they were about to fight in school and they didnt but they were in each others face and the only thing that came out of johntas mouth was " Fuck You! You Fucked With My Heart!" and i felt really bad.. but steve really likes me and i can tell he acts like it but when me and johnta were goin out johnta acted like we didnt.. i just dont understand why ALL OF A SUDDEN johnta acts likes he cares.. I Cant break up with steve i've gotten to know him and I REALLY like him ALOT.. all my friends tell me to break up with steve but they just dont understand how i feel.. what should i do?

dont break up with him...get rid of johnta

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Hi..okay i have a kodak digital camera and i was just replaced the batteries, It was turning off but i guess it didn't turn off compleltely when I took the batteries out so when i put the new ones in it didn't work and it won't turn on. any ideas of how i could fix it? I also tried putting the batteries in differenely and a different pair of them. I don't kno what else to try! ne help is good..tnx soo much!!

take it to like walgreens or cvs...or better yet to wolf camera

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Hey I'm 14/m and i still haven't ever kissed a girl outside my family.... I feel kinda out of place here because I'm already in high school and ive never kissed.... is there something wrong with me?

no i was a senior b4 that ever happend to me...itll come sooner or l8r, nothing is wrong w/ u trust me

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Ok, im 7ft tall, and of course a guy. It seems like every time i approach a girl shes always so afraid of me. She never wants to talk to me and hold a convo. w/ me. When people do talk to me, they always ask how tall i am, then sit and stare. Why are girls so afraid of me? and how do you suggest i cure this problem, and maybe advise on how to keep the convo going w/o it dropping off at how big my feet are.

they want to know how big ur feet are cuz they think u might have somn else that big...haha....thats a good thing to start a convo with...u could go for taller gurls, they would understand the whole tall thing.

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Can someone tell me what it means when this happens ? There is this guy that I like in my 4th period class ( I'm a freshman who just started high school and he's a junior , senior , or whatever . I know nothing about the guy except the he likes emo rock music , his name is Kyle , he hangs out with all the emo crowd at school , likes Chances Are , hates hardcore , and likes to draw ) But, he keeps looking at me . ( Maybe it's because I keep sneaking glances at him . But , he does look at me . I've seen him looking at me more than once in class ) But , one way I wore a pink bandanna in my hair ( I'm emo to . But , not in the older crowd because the emos at my school are mean . Emo means emotional . Like the guys wear tight girl pants , have high-lighted hair , kinda long hair , with longer bangs . They like music like Taking Back Sunday and Dashboard Confessional ) and the next day he had a black bandanna . Also , I started rolling up the bottoms of my pants of his pants and so did he like the next week afterward I did it .
And I think the funniest thing is when I showed up one day without my messanger bag and was just carrying around my binder . ( It was Friday ) Monday he showed up without his little messanger bag also .
I think he also knows where me and my friend Jestina like to walk around . Because one day he was half way across the school and then he walked back to our hang out spot . This seems kind of strange ....... Can anyone tell me what this means and if he likes me or not ? Also , what is a good way to talk to him ? I'm REALLY! shy and I talked to him 3 times ( making a fool of myself of course ) And he started this stuff ( IMPORTANT NOTE : after my so called "friend" told him that I liked him ) Now , hes kinda avoiding me which is kinda weird ... someone help me! Sorry this was kinda long ....
Ally

he might like you...but hes nervous about doin nething thats y he might seem to be avoiding u.

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Okay, well for my Life Management class, I have to work 10 hours of Community Service for free. I'm not sure what to do, I'm really interested in basketball. She told us that cleaning for a basketball team would be considered community service. I was going to ask the local WNBA/NBA arena if I could maybe clean the locker rooms or clean SOMETHING for them maybe 2 hours a day, but I don't know how to do that [ask them]. And they would probably reject that idea. Can you help me think of Community Service Jobs i could do that would interest me? I enjoy basketball, volleyball, and shopping. I also like music.

Thanks SO much in advance for any help!

ask neighbors if you could help them do anything around the house, cleaning, washing dishes, cuting grass, etc...

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I've liked this guy for over a year now. He's an awesome friend, but once you do one thing that makes him mad, he's really rude! I've been told COUNTLESS times to get over him, but I just can't!! He means the world to me... and I just want to show him that without scaring him off or anything. We went out like a year ago for a while, and he was great, but I made the mistake of breaking up with him. I want to go back out with him, and I don't want to get over him. I'm not looking for an answer to get over him!!! I just need help on what to say to him!

tell him u made a mistake about the breakup...tell him how u really feel about him

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Hey I just found out that my new boyfriend was cheating on me with another gurl, Im crushed!
But last night after I broke up with him He called me alomst 6 times before I answered it.
well he said he wanted to met me on the cornor of my road well I went but he didn't show until 12:12am, Then he wanted to make out I didn't and I left Did I do the right thing?

yeah u did

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Im in the army, been with my girlfriend 5 years. Im leaving again for iraq for the 2nd, should i ask her to marry me before i ago, just incase i dont come back. i love her with all my heart, i would give my life for her. but do you guys ever have the feeling how do you know if they are the one. its just so mind boggling to me. and advice would help.
thanks
josh

u should wait till u came back...wat if something were to happen to u and she had already said that she would marry u..it would be harder for her to move on if she was ur fiance...just wait till u get back, then there wont be ne worries.

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Im a sophmore and we just got told that a representative from Jostens(the ring company) is coming to the school this friday to take class ring orders. We got the information today and theyr sooo expencive but i found 3 that i love. Problem is theyr all at like the $200 and up mark...YIKES! So i want to know if any of u have any good ideas to help out my parents pay for some of it without really having to get a job that im stuck too (cant cuz i play soccer 3-5:30 plus h/w every night) If anyone has any ideas PLZ help!

they can pay for the ring montly like my mom did. its only like 10 a month...just tell ur rents that.

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my dad is taking away my phone line for my internet. is there any way i can do something on my computer to prevent him from taking it away?

u cant do a thang about it...no phone line...no internet.

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Ok..im on a really good volleyball team. in the past like 10 yrs we've won alot of state championships. But the thing is..she over works us. everyday we run a mile..then we go in the gym for about 2 hrs n half and just do volleyball. If we mess up..we do punishments..she yells like never before. We do suicides if we miss a serve or do a error. Its starting to get to me..i want to be perfect..and its stressing me out. How do i stop this?

you've won as many states champs. as u have beacuse you work hard...if it was easy everyone would do it...if its too hard, myabe u should quit.

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