Question Posted Tuesday September 14 2004, 10:38 pm
I've liked this guy for over a year now. He's an awesome friend, but once you do one thing that makes him mad, he's really rude! I've been told COUNTLESS times to get over him, but I just can't!! He means the world to me... and I just want to show him that without scaring him off or anything. We went out like a year ago for a while, and he was great, but I made the mistake of breaking up with him. I want to go back out with him, and I don't want to get over him. I'm not looking for an answer to get over him!!! I just need help on what to say to him!
~*Annie*~ answered Wednesday September 15 2004, 10:44 pm: aww, honey that sounds like a rought time for you. I'd say your best bet is to walk up to him and say in a kind voice-tone, "Hey, I know that we've had an up-and-down relationship, but I realized that dumping you was a mistake, and I'm sorry. I really do like you, and I'd really like it if we could go out again." But be humble and not too forced, otherwise he'll feel pressured, so end your speech like this: "If you don't want to start our relationship back up, I'll understand, but I just wanted to let you know that I still like you." Don't be shy confronting him, just relax and feel confident, because you still really like him, and you don't want to miss your opportunity to get back together with him.
Riggzy answered Wednesday September 15 2004, 1:06 am: Oh my... well, I don't think you need to be tying yourself down, and I definitely don't think you should really date your ex. (You broke up with him once, there was definitely a reason for that, even if you don't think it's important now!) But since you're not asking that, I guess I would have an honest talk with him. Tell him how you feel, and if he is cool with it, well, bully for you. If he's a jackass about it, slap that sucka silly and move on in search of bigger and better things. I know you don't want to get over him, but in the event that he acts like an asswipe over this, go and have a Spa Day and date some insanely sexy, smart, rich, funny, snuggly man who owns, like, the moon. That'll show the snotty bastard who's who! [ Riggzy's advice column | Ask Riggzy A Question ]
Lasag69 answered Tuesday September 14 2004, 11:43 pm: Yeah, basically be direct, tell him how you feel, and that it was a mistake that you broke up with him, say something like you were stupid and such, but dont worry about when he gets mad, everyone is like that, some people more then others, but im sure someone like yourself would be able to stop him from going to far, so you may be good for him. Just walk up to him and talk to him, tell him everything, and im sure it'll turn out for the best :-) Good Luck! [ Lasag69's advice column | Ask Lasag69 A Question ]
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