Q: Alright ......theres this guy who i Really REALLY like and he likes me back but hes still in the stage between immature and mature he plays way to many games and thinks everything is a joke when his friends are around....... When we are alone hes a totally diffrent guy...i really like him but i want him to act the same whether his friends are around or not...What should i do?

Q: im a freshman in highschool and last year in eighth grade i got really close to these two guys rob and dan. theyre both really good friends and last year my feelings for them would be a roller coaster. i would like rob and then i would like dan, vice versa. well, this year rob never talks to me let alone even looks at me and it truely hurts. i feel like i did something wrong. lately ive been paying a lot of attention to dan, maybe thats why? i just dont understand whats going on and why he seems like hes acting so strange. plus he hooked up with one of my good friends for the first time. and i dont even like rob anymore, or atleast i dont think so. any comments/advice would be great :]

Q: 18/f
(sorry its long)
so here's the scoop: so i had my first real boyfriend this time last year. things with us were amazing! we were together 7 months, and not once did we ever fight, i mean literally, it was unreal. we talked about things like when we were going to move in together, where we were going to live, kids, and just future life. well eventually he dumped me for another girl he met that i worked with and they've been together ever since. we had a HUGE falling out and got into our first and only fight and we quit talking for months. well, not long ago we talked and i apologized for everything i had said and that i was just very upset because i really loved him and it hurt. so i talked to his best friend and he said that my ex won't quit talking about me (in a good way) saying how much he misses me and how he's never met anybody like me.

well him and his gf got in a huge fight because she knows me and him talk and she feels threatened so she's bad mouthing me to him then being all nice and whatever to me at work and i won't have that crap. and i talked to his best friend today and he said that my ex was over yesterday and they watched a movie and all the sudden out of no where he asks "why did i break up with her?" and my friend pretty much said "because you're an idiot and couldn't see a good thing when you had it, and you gave it up for a hoe" and neither of them spoke the rest of the night. well apparently he's made it known that my parents are the only thing standing in the way of him asking to get back together with me (we had a very, very physical relationship that my parents found out about a few months after we split and they're not too happy that we did that then he dumped me for another girl). but aside from that, he would in a heartbeat and has already said that his current gf's next boyfriend won't deal with her crap nearly as long as he has so evidentally its about to end soon.

so question 1: my parents hate him. and they want me to have nothing to do with him. i've snuck out and gone to his house in the middle of the night (he lives 30 minutes away and we weren't cheating, we were just playing pool and watching tv) and they have no idea. how can i explain to my parents he's different now and that he's the only one i want to be with and have ever truly cared about??

question 2: how can i let him know, without being forward while he still has a gf, that i still love him? and that my parents are not a factor because i will do anything to be with him again if he just gives me the chance?

Q: Well i went to a football game, and then like i was really cold so this kid that i like gave me his hoodie, but then he was with these two girls, and he just like walked away from them and i gave him a mean look, and he gave me a hug and told me not to be mad at him. I meant to say he walked away from those girls, and came over to me and smiled at me, but i gave him a dirty look..., he also texts me a lot to, and if i dont answer right away, hes like are you there, i hope your not mad at me, or i hope i wasnt being mean or something, because if i was im really really really sorry. and then when he says he can only text for 5 more minutes, we end up talking for an hour, and before he would have to stop texting me when he had to eat, but now when we talk and im like whats up, and hes like i gtg eat in a little while, and then he starts talking to me, and then in the middle of the conversation im like so when do you have to eat, and he always says i already did, but he never did that before. also, if i say oh haha im stupid or something, he always says no your not, and we always get in this joking argument about whos stupider, and stuff. whenever i see him at school he usually smiles, and then he blushes, and a lot of the time he gives me a hug, so does he like me?.

Q: Alright, I have a problem. I like this boy. And I can’t get him out of my mind. But the catch is. I have a boyfriend. And we’ve been dating for a while. And I do love him…very much but I like this boy very much…what should I do???

Q: im 16/f and ive been thinkin about leaving home for months but now its got serious. things at home are really crap i hate it! ive tried to talk to my parents about it but they just say if your gona be that stupid then go live with your grandma. but where i live there is a place which helps young people who want to or have left home and its full of appartments and im thinking of moving there but because the law here (as far as i know) is that you need your parents consent otherwise the police will report you as missing and will get involvd, i dont htink my parents will giv me consent and i dont want to live here no more! theyre not violent theyr not abusive! they just dont show love towards me lik they do to my brother and sister. me and my father havent spoken nicely to each other in over 3 months and my mum hates me for that! DO you think its right to leave? or do you think im being selfish? and does anyone no the laws about leaving home at 16?? thanks

Q: Its October 16 of 07. Well the names Stephen. the situation is that a very good friend of mine Aram was seeing this girl Brianna for 6 months. We all had worked together at a theatre and thats pretty much how we all met. Recently they broke up at around the end of of july and since then i have been hanging with Brianna a lot lately.

i was with her when they had problems in mid july and had started have feelings grow for her. They break up then about a month later when we hang out a lot she tells me that she has feelings for me. Well i tell her that i had feelings for this other girl Angela. I told Brianna that it was Angela but eventually told Brianna i also had feelings for her but she didn't know that it was stronger with her at the time. So we hang out more but i hold back because of the fat that i had to talk to Aram before doing anything and clearing that situation up.

Well countless times when Brianna and were together i held back and i feel that it was unfair to her because she also thouht that i wanted to be with Angela. Well after a little under three months she talking to Aram now and i still have feeling for her and i know that she has feelings for him. Well i want to talk to him about that.

I know that they still have feelings for each other and that she has feelings for me but i think that she would choose him. And i have talked to him about how i felt about her and he was glad that it was a guy that he knew but still he is a best friend and i know that hurt him. But i didn't do anything with her. I held back for Arams sake. What do i do now?

Q: me and my boyfriend don't really talk on the phone? we've only been dating for a little little bit and we text a lot and talk on aim too, and i actually have hung out with him, unlike any of the other people i've gone out with [which i don't really count anyways] i don't know everyone else always like talks on the phone. is that bad/weird or whatever?

14/f/freshman

Q: 16/m

Sorry this might be long. Well. We'll just call this girl R, lol. She's really weird just like me and shes like my best friend n all that. I am really starting to like her. A lot. We stay up talking on weekends sometimes, and we never run out of things to talk about.

Problem is, she has a boyfriend. They've been going out for like a really really long time, and I wouldn't tell her I like her when she has a boyfriend. So I've been waiting. And nothing changes. I still like her.

But a couple nights ago she left me this really long message saying that she liked me as more than a friend. And she also wrote in it "I know i have a boyfriend and all that, which is why i'm having a really hard time liking you. nd i dont want anyone thinking im cheating on him or whatever because im really not the kind of person to do that sort of thing. And dont ask me why i like you because i dont even know. its just a huge puzzle to me. Anyway, I just had to tell you this because it was killing me and i had to get it off my chest. and im really afraid to send this but i know nothing will change if i dont so here it goes..." and i noticed she sent this really late at night.

and then after that she sent a message that said "omg. ignore that last message. i was like acting drunk. omfg please ignore it."

What do you think I should do...?

Q: I am a semi-White collar/blue collar type and women my age shun me like I was the plague. I have tried everything and I am about to "throw in the towel" and remain single for life. I tried Internet dating and that was a flop, I even tried flirting with unmarried (and unattached) women where I live but that only turns them off. It's like I have a dark cloud above my head that says "doom". I would make a perfect husband but no woman seems to be willing to take me up on that offer. I can take the truth. If I'm doomed, then I understand. (Male, 32, Anglo-German, writer and Christian and political activist)

Q: 14/f
two guys.
one is my best friend and the other is my other friend. they dont know eachother. both of them are bi. my bestfriend told me he didnt like me a few months back. since then, i stopped trying to make him like me because if he doenst he doesnt. but im gonna see him this week and since we havent seen eachother in a while maybe something will change.
my other friend is great. he flirts with me a lot and stuff but i cant tell if its just for fun or if it means anything. my bestfriend always flirts with me too but apprently he never liked me as more than a friend.
so im not sure what to do at this point because i like them both and dont know how either feels. and im not a player so i wont go for both at once. thanx =]

Q: 15/f. Now that school started and everything, I can't help but notice the people around me changed. My friends are no longer close to me, they seek their own *other* group of friends and I feel left out. They also make no visible effort to try to patch things up and maybe work something out or work on something. So, basically, I don't like them anymore. Should I just break it off completely? :/

Q: Well... I came into this new high school last year, and i made some really good friends. There's this one guy in our group. Him, and another girl in our group used to go out before we all came to the high school, but they broke up. Then him and another girl in our group went out, and they lasted like half of freshmaan year. We are now in Sophomore year, and I reallly kinda like him. I don't know IF HE'S INTERESTED!! he def. flirts.... i think, but he does that with all the girls... I don't know guys are soo confusing. The problem is, the first girl he went out with, my good friend, still likes him!, even tho he don't like her. So, even if i DID go out with him, she would be wicked mad. I don't know.... i like him, and idk if he likes me. He always makes me laugh, and we make jokes together. Does he think i'm cute??? I don't know!!!!!
help :{

Q: name me some sad songs =]

Q: I am a middle school girl. I have a good friend. Lets call her sarah. Sarah has a boyfriend and he is new to our school this year. He told me that he liked me and i liked him to. But i dont want my friend to find out. But now he is denying that he ever said that and i dont know what to do. Sorry if this confused you.

Q: i have a friend: hes 17.
im 15/f [just for refrence]
my friend went to rehab, stopped drinking and doing drugs.
started again at a party last week.
is back into bad things, i basicly told him to stop.
and then he decides to lie to me and say hes stopped and he has lied about numerous things in the past. today i told him i hated him.
but i dont really.
how can i fix this? what should i do?

Q: i can sleeep all day and not wake up
&& im loosing to much hairr


wat kind of "disease" is this?

or is it one?


13/f if that helps

Q: im a senior in high school and have never done sports before. should i try out for the field hockey team? or do i need previous experience for it?

Q: My boyfriend broke up with me the other day and I'm having a lot of trouble dealing with it...
I totally understand why he did it as well and I'm not angry and I don't think it's a stupid reason at all. But somehow that makes it worse, that I can't like focus all this onto anger or whatever. It just makes me angry at the situation and so torn apart that he doesn't feel the same way as I do.
There is nothing I can do to get back together with him and I know this. But this doesn't stop me feeling as though everything has fallen apart. I know this probably sounds lame and I always used to think it was lame when people act like this, but I have never been dumped before, especially not by someone I thought I was genuinely in love with (who never loved me back.) I really don't want to feel like this anymore, I know it isn't fair on him because it really is better for him (and probably me, to be honest) this way and I'm just making him feel guilty. Does anyone have any tips at all on getting over it? I know that it'll only take time to truly get over it, but just to get out of this horrible stage? Thnx. By the way, I don't really want to say my age, but it definitely isn't as young as you'd think from reading this, this isn't just some teenybopper thing.
.xoxoxox

Q: ok. so, my friends all hate my bf, and i thought it was nothing. but, the other night, he kept making extremely rude comments about me and other people. and, he apologized L8R and everything, but i dunno. since then i've totally seen him in a different light. i've been seeing him the way my friends have. and, i mean-- we were, well-- are rlly close, and we love each other. but i think he is an ass hole now. i dunno what to do! please help me.

thank you soo much!

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