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Here's the scoop
18/f
(sorry its long)
so here's the scoop: so i had my first real boyfriend this time last year. things with us were amazing! we were together 7 months, and not once did we ever fight, i mean literally, it was unreal. we talked about things like when we were going to move in together, where we were going to live, kids, and just future life. well eventually he dumped me for another girl he met that i worked with and they've been together ever since. we had a HUGE falling out and got into our first and only fight and we quit talking for months. well, not long ago we talked and i apologized for everything i had said and that i was just very upset because i really loved him and it hurt. so i talked to his best friend and he said that my ex won't quit talking about me (in a good way) saying how much he misses me and how he's never met anybody like me.
well him and his gf got in a huge fight because she knows me and him talk and she feels threatened so she's bad mouthing me to him then being all nice and whatever to me at work and i won't have that crap. and i talked to his best friend today and he said that my ex was over yesterday and they watched a movie and all the sudden out of no where he asks "why did i break up with her?" and my friend pretty much said "because you're an idiot and couldn't see a good thing when you had it, and you gave it up for a hoe" and neither of them spoke the rest of the night. well apparently he's made it known that my parents are the only thing standing in the way of him asking to get back together with me (we had a very, very physical relationship that my parents found out about a few months after we split and they're not too happy that we did that then he dumped me for another girl). but aside from that, he would in a heartbeat and has already said that his current gf's next boyfriend won't deal with her crap nearly as long as he has so evidentally its about to end soon.
so question 1: my parents hate him. and they want me to have nothing to do with him. i've snuck out and gone to his house in the middle of the night (he lives 30 minutes away and we weren't cheating, we were just playing pool and watching tv) and they have no idea. how can i explain to my parents he's different now and that he's the only one i want to be with and have ever truly cared about??
question 2: how can i let him know, without being forward while he still has a gf, that i still love him? and that my parents are not a factor because i will do anything to be with him again if he just gives me the chance?
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Question 1:Your parents only hate him because of what he has done for you thyre just scared for you
they just dont want their daughter getting hurt again just sit down and explain to them how much he has changed ofcourse they will get mad i mean if i were a parent id honestly not agree for you to get back together with this guy unless he really really really really regrets his mistake,so i say talk to them and tell them what happend between your friend and him
Question2: Your not supposed to tell him to give you a chance.. im sorry wait hold up.. didnt he cheat on you.. cause thats what i read up there..
hese the one whos supposed to ask you for a chance so i say that he is the one who is supposed to come up to you and talk to you about it not you going to run to him and stuff,yes sure he told your friend about that he regrets letting you go,but he didnt tell you tht to your face so wait for that moment to come.
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