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my best friend and i like the same girl.
Its October 16 of 07. Well the names Stephen. the situation is that a very good friend of mine Aram was seeing this girl Brianna for 6 months. We all had worked together at a theatre and thats pretty much how we all met. Recently they broke up at around the end of of july and since then i have been hanging with Brianna a lot lately.
i was with her when they had problems in mid july and had started have feelings grow for her. They break up then about a month later when we hang out a lot she tells me that she has feelings for me. Well i tell her that i had feelings for this other girl Angela. I told Brianna that it was Angela but eventually told Brianna i also had feelings for her but she didn't know that it was stronger with her at the time. So we hang out more but i hold back because of the fat that i had to talk to Aram before doing anything and clearing that situation up.
Well countless times when Brianna and were together i held back and i feel that it was unfair to her because she also thouht that i wanted to be with Angela. Well after a little under three months she talking to Aram now and i still have feeling for her and i know that she has feelings for him. Well i want to talk to him about that.
I know that they still have feelings for each other and that she has feelings for me but i think that she would choose him. And i have talked to him about how i felt about her and he was glad that it was a guy that he knew but still he is a best friend and i know that hurt him. But i didn't do anything with her. I held back for Arams sake. What do i do now?
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well i think you shouldnt go for it i prefer you wait for your friend to get over her before you do anything but thats acccually a good idea to talk to your friend about it
and see how it goes.
but i say wait till aram gets over her then you could do somthing about it
i dont think you should risk your friendship becausse you like somone else.
friends are very important and if you lose your friend for a girl you will relize after you lost him how important he really was
hope i helped
Icem!
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firstly choose.
secondly take it like a man.
you know you bud, would he be cool about it? or simply take it? would he let you know about it if you told him?
if you are under twenty id say leave the girl, go with your bud and try to pickup a couple of other chicks and have fun. you both get over her.
but remember the two rules at the top.
I'm glad not to be in your situation and simply give advice...
best of luck to you man.
remember, nothing in life that is worth it is easy.
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