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Confoooooosed.
16/m
Sorry this might be long. Well. We'll just call this girl R, lol. She's really weird just like me and shes like my best friend n all that. I am really starting to like her. A lot. We stay up talking on weekends sometimes, and we never run out of things to talk about.
Problem is, she has a boyfriend. They've been going out for like a really really long time, and I wouldn't tell her I like her when she has a boyfriend. So I've been waiting. And nothing changes. I still like her.
But a couple nights ago she left me this really long message saying that she liked me as more than a friend. And she also wrote in it "I know i have a boyfriend and all that, which is why i'm having a really hard time liking you. nd i dont want anyone thinking im cheating on him or whatever because im really not the kind of person to do that sort of thing. And dont ask me why i like you because i dont even know. its just a huge puzzle to me. Anyway, I just had to tell you this because it was killing me and i had to get it off my chest. and im really afraid to send this but i know nothing will change if i dont so here it goes..." and i noticed she sent this really late at night.
and then after that she sent a message that said "omg. ignore that last message. i was like acting drunk. omfg please ignore it."
What do you think I should do...?
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hehehe, devil you!
she is probably going to try to act a bit distant towards you.
do you like her enough to get beaten up by the boyfriend with the possibility that MAYBE she set you up?
maybe its her boyfriend who got jealous and sent it on her cellphone.
maybe she wont respond that way again.
thats pretty much the worst case scenarios friend.
keep the message to yourself, and then if i were you id take the chance. tell her to leave her boyfriend, before she cheats on him.
if the second paranoia shows true then show her the message.
1) choose
2) take responsibility
3) don't look back
best of luck!
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I strongly agree with laguanababe she was proly keeping it inside her and just wanted to let it out and when she relized what she has done and not putting alot of thought itno she got all scared and prolly turned all paranoid and just said she was drunk this girl might be into you.. but aslong as she has a bf then i suggest you should just back up and when she breaks up with him or somthing then you can make a move ..
anyway
hope i helped
-Icem
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I don't think she was acting drunk, if you ask me, she got scared and decided to make up an excuse as to why you shouldn't actually believe it. Either way, since she does have a boyfriend -- I wouldn't step over any friend boundaries. I wouldn't wait any longer if I were you, I've been in this situation before (except it was my best guy friend and I'm a girl) and I would still be waiting because he's still got his girlfriend. So I just moved on, and I think it would be better if you did to. Unless she tells you that she's going to breakup with her boyfriend and be with you, that's the only way that I'd change my mind.
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