I am a semi-White collar/blue collar type and women my age shun me like I was the plague. I have tried everything and I am about to "throw in the towel" and remain single for life. I tried Internet dating and that was a flop, I even tried flirting with unmarried (and unattached) women where I live but that only turns them off. It's like I have a dark cloud above my head that says "doom". I would make a perfect husband but no woman seems to be willing to take me up on that offer. I can take the truth. If I'm doomed, then I understand. (Male, 32, Anglo-German, writer and Christian and political activist)
if you are willing to take a bit of a leap, give me a email, i might have something that MIGHT help you if you are willing to help yourself.
If you don't trust me, make up a email at yahoo or someting.
blackrose13 answered Tuesday October 16 2007, 1:48 pm: Look No.!! your not doomed at all
maybe you jst need to get out more you know what i mean...Like meet knew people
Sit down and try to find the wrongs in you and try to fix them. im sure the right women will pop up one day so dont worry about it just be more patient..:D
karenR answered Tuesday October 16 2007, 12:35 pm: Don't throw in the towel.
Sooner or later the right lady will come along.
It could very well be that you are trying a little to hard. Just be yourself.
You have to get out there and put yourself in places where you will meet the kind of woman you are looking for. When you find one you like, be polite, smile at her a lot & talk to her.
Forget the flirting. Very few can pull it off without sounding silly. Being polite and making them feel special is what a woman wants.
Even if asked about it, go lightly when talking about the political activism until you have known a lady for awhile. The word activist can be scary
to hear. Most will visualize protesters being drug around by police with riot gear on. :)
scootermclisle answered Tuesday October 16 2007, 11:57 am: I don't know why that would be. You seem like an amazing guy, and I honestly have no clue as to why any woman would avoid you. Perhaps you are looking at the wrong women? Try to find someone who is as nice and decent as yourself. [ scootermclisle's advice column | Ask scootermclisle A Question ]
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