I am a middle school girl. I have a good friend. Lets call her sarah. Sarah has a boyfriend and he is new to our school this year. He told me that he liked me and i liked him to. But i dont want my friend to find out. But now he is denying that he ever said that and i dont know what to do. Sorry if this confused you.
blackrose13 answered Tuesday October 16 2007, 8:37 am: ..wow. look didnt he just deny it.. dont tell your friend sarah..plus dont do that to your "good friend" its Her boyfriend..
and it would really hurt her..
ChristusFollowerus answered Tuesday October 16 2007, 1:09 am: Boys only want one thing from a relationship and it is your duty to make sure that guys don't violate your "personal space" Boys at that age have a ton of emotions and they are still too young to discern "lust" from "love". Real love is this: If you got in an accident and your boyfriend stayed by your hospital bed until you recovered, that's true love. If he was lusting, he would quickly drop you for another girl. Since you are young yet, make sure that your parents know everything about your relationships (they love you dearly and want you to be okay) and relax, make friends with the boys you know and keep them at an armslength. When I was your age, my generation never dated in Middle school, we would flirt and talk but never date. Dating is really more for 18+ young women because then there is a real reason to date: Marriage. If you are a Christian or a Jew: Follow the advice of your religious leaders and your parents. [ ChristusFollowerus's advice column | Ask ChristusFollowerus A Question ]
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