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my name is joey, im 14 years old. i like music,TV,hanging with friends,swimming,writing and going online. i live in salem, oregon. you can ask me any queston you want and i'll try to answer it the best i can. i want and hope that i can help youhearts bigboy13
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Hey..
I hav been going out for this guy let's call him Josh for almost 10 months. We hav an amazing relationship and he really is my best friend. We have one problem his ex girlfriend is insane. She is obssesed with him and there is a long story behind that but just to make it short she is jealous and she wants him and her and I got into a big thing. I don't liek to start things and i do stand up for myself but i don't liek having enemies. About 2 weeks ago. My boyfriend started treating me like crap. This is 2 weeks ago: Saturday night we got into a fight because his ex's friends were starting stuff with my friends. I told him that i didn't know if i cood take i anymore. We weren't on the best page. Since it is summer we don't see eachother that much he went to camp before these 2 weeks and now he's on vacation. SO back to Saturday so that happened then on Sunday we talked and he was mad and upset. On monday we were planning to see eachother on tuesday but my friends messed it up. Also on monday we had a long talk about his ex and hwo i feel like he doesn't stand up for me like he should. When our plans got ruined for tuesday i was upset but it seemed like he didn't even care. On tuesday he called me at night and we didn't talk much but i asked him what he did today and he said nothing and that he's been thinkin about alot. I got a little worried. Well anyways Wedneday came n i went to my friends house with him and all my friends.I decided to just forget about everything because he was leaving that friday and i thought it would be the last time i would see him so i wanted it to be good. It somehow came up and he wanted to talk and said that i don't feel like he is really intersting and all that and he simply told me that he was just thinking that the relationship is getting too serious as in commitment wise. I understood because we are still young but how could he tell me he loves me if he doesn't wanna be with me. Well anyways on thursday i found out that on wednesday night he slept at his friends house and he did a camera thing with one ofmy friends theyw ere all joking but he told her to pull her shirt down more so her boobs would show. It's so hard to even write this because he's so not like this. On thursday night i found out earlier that day his ex adn her friends came over to swim with his friends. Just to amek it short on friday i saw him for 2 minutes and i was planning on talking to him about it but he could opnlys tay for like 5 minutes. He was being an ass and he just left and said i love you bye. He's on vacation right now and i don't know what to do when he comes back. Thanx for reading this .What should i do? I'm 13 almost 14 and a girl.lol
i feel sorry for you, this is obvisly very hard. i know you may not like this answer but i think you should dump him. to me it seems like he still has feelings for his ex and although you love him i don't think he's very good for you. what i would do is let the relanshship simmer for a while and if he gets back eith his ex then it's better to know it now then when your closier to him. i hope everything go's well for you
hearts bigboy13
ok my friend.. is soo amazing... she is absolutely beautiful... infact all the guys say she is the prettiest/ hottest.. out of our school (we have a very big school)... she is 16.. and she is soo freaking awsome at sports she has lettered varsity for both tennis and track and was like number 1 on both.. like got all the track girl awards and went to state 4a both years in track and is just pure amazing.. she also has a 4.0 and im pretty sure she is teh smartest in our class... she also is soo incredably nice, and funny, like she is soo much fun to hang out w/, and soo crazy, but in a good way... like she is real not one of those fake girls... and she treats her boyfriends soo good but they always end up treating her like shit... i dont think she picks bad ones but somehow they never treat her good.... she deserves the best and i dont know what to do... like the theme song to her life would be lucky by britney spears... i just dont understand y guys arent better to her
well first of all this girl sounds amazing, second, i dont think you should ask her out.
some of those types of girls can be really nice cool and yet can have really high expectations of who they go out with. some of them can be all about looks and some of them just want the best of the best.
but then again i dont' even know this girl so if you wanna ask her out i say go for it but im just warning you some of them arent as perfect and amazing as you think.
Hey guys!!
Im stuck between two guys. They are in the same group of friends. and i really dont kno what to do.
guy number 1: Bob: Bob is a player and hes really flirty and stuff. and i really like him. i think a little more than i like guy number 2. but since hes a player he can flirt with all the girls and stuff you know? and im not even sure if he likes me but i can relate to him and he can relate to me and we can talk and talk for hours without even realizing it. and my two best friends tell me that he really likes me but i dont even know. like today we went to see lady and the water and both guys were there. and bob didnt stay in the movie so i was with guy number 2 and he comforted me and stuff. but i still felt a little guilty because i knew there was someone else. and when bob was talking to me guy number 2 got mad and wen guys number 2 would talk to me bob would get mad.
guy number 2: hes really a sweet guy and all. but he sometimes trys to hard and hes a relationship type of guy. he was talking to my best friend thats a guy and was telling him how he really likes me and stuff. and i really dont kno what to do because i dont feel like i have that connection with him. but its just that i dont want to hurt any of them.
but bob said that hes not looking for a relationship and this was like a week ago. and everyone thinks guy number 2 has a thing with me and that im pretty much taken bye him.
ugh helpp
sorry its longg.
i think you should give bob a chance
somtimes boys who are players are faking or over doing it because they wanna have friends and they want to get the girls and they wanna seem sexy and appealing,some of them can be real sweet and loyal
but i'd watch out because some players arne't faking and can be a real jerk and a heartbraker so i'd see how it is first.
i don't think you should go out with guy #2 because he seems kinda desprate and jelous but if you think so then i say go for it
hope i helped and trust your heart
hearts bigboy13
Im 17 female I have 3 siblings. Ages 15, 13 & 4.
We fight over who does the kitchen alotttt. Yea sounds like second grade because it is. Im tired of it. I have a job & im also not home alot.
When i get home from work the kitchen is a mess & i dont clean it because its not my mess. But the next day i end up cleaning up the mess because my other two siblings ( 15, 13 yr olds ) just dont do it.
The 13 year old spends the ENTIRE day on the computer pretty much from the second she wakes up till the second she goes to bed Which usually isnt till 4-5 AM.
The 15 year just doesnt think he has to do anything & watches ttv the entire day.
I feel that i shouldnt have to clean the kitchen Or anything that was messed up when i was not at home. Do you guys agree?
And how do i get them to get up a clean something? Dont tell me talk to your parents. Trust me i do talk to my parent sbut they really don't do anything about it except say " i don't want to hear about it"
PLLLEase help me out here.
And also what age do you think it is ohk for a kid to start cleaning the kitchen.?
what i reccomend for you is to stop cleaning. you shouldnt have to clean up other peoples messes.
if your parents yell at you then tell them that when you come home your tired and you dont wanna clean up for other peoples messes
you should also tell them that they gotta learn resonsibilty
if that dosnt work then just dont clean. it's not like they can physically make you
hope i helped
i think that i might have a little bit of anxiety. i'm almost certain that if i just went to go see a phsycologist, he or she could just tell me whether or not i do and/or if i can take something for it. the problem is that my mom won't take me. she says that it's normal to experience anxiety when you're PMSing. But, i'm not always PMSing. i think i even know why i have anxiety. iv'e tried explaining it to her, but i'm sure if she heard it from the phsycologist, she might stop doing what is making me feel like this. how can i convince her? cuz she needs to hear it from someone else i think
i dont think you have anxiety. if you did people would prabably notice.
what makes you think you have anixety?
if you have anixety you would be afraid to go outside and you would be nervous in public places like stores and you would experince paranoria and deep breathing.
but if you are convinced that you have it then i reccommened seeing a school consiler, they could probably help you
hope i help
I got my period for the first time on July 27th. I haven't gotten it again since. I only had it for one day and it never came back. Is there something wrong with me?
or course there's nothing wrong with you. when periods start they and your body has to ajust to the change
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My friend is going to a boarding school and I am so upset how can I feel a little better about it. She is my best friend and I am having such a hard time.
Jenni
i know how you feel. my brother moved away a few months ago but i got used to it after a wile. there are many things you can do.
you can call her
you can email her
you can write her
you can even see her
i know its hard at first but i garentee you will get used to it after a wile
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alright so today i was supposed to go to my friends b-day party. but of course my dad made me play in a softball tournament instead. i told her i could come to her party around 8 PM. well that didnt happen cuz my dad got hit in the head with a softball and had to go to the hospital and now he has a concussion. so i call my friend when i get home and tell her i cant come to her party. and what a beyotch..i tell her about my dad and shes like oh. she didnt even say is he ok?? anyway..she gets mad at me cuz i apparantly "promised" her id be there and then she hung up on me. i never promised anybody anything. she doesnt even understand that my dad was in the hospital and its not like im gonna go to a party!! its not my falut i had a triple-header softball tournament to play and then my dad gets nailed in the head!! i dont know if i should be mad at her or should i just wait and see what happens??
thanks lots. :)
what i think you should do is have your friend come over to talk and then have your dad come down and tell her the story. but try not to make it to obvious or she will get mad
hope i helped
i have this friend and we are really close shes one of my bestfriends and i have a feeling that she might be racist against caucasian people because like all of her friends are black and she like only has one caucasian friend and everything to her has to be black and it really bothers me im colored myself and i have friends of all different racis and when someonelse is another race or color i dont notice it until she brings up the color or race that they are and it really buggs me because it kinda insults me because i am a little bit caucasian and my family is mixed of different colors and i asked my friend if she was racist and she said no and got mad that i asked that and she also doesnt like black and white couples she thinks theres something wrong with that but honestly i dont see anything wrong with it and i really dont know what else to do she says she's not but i think that she might be a little bit racist but not a whole lot so what should i do because i dont wont to have a friend like that and i also dont want to stop being friends wit her
she may be a little racist. some people are hurt by a person of a certin race or sex and learn to not like that certin race or sex. some people can also be convinced to not like a sex or race. what advice i give to you is to maybe wait a little while, my brother used to be a little racis but he idnt know because he grew out of it. but if she dosnt grow out of it i reccommend not to be her friend because people who grow up like that tend to grow up to be really bitter.
I want just wondering what everyone notices first in both the opposite and same sex. I want to know what to spend more time on so people will notice me. I don't want to say if I'm male or female because I want to know what both sides think. Thanks.
well im a guy and for me i normally their eyes and thier figure first
hope i helped
Is it normal that when I masturbate my legs twitch?
it is if your standing up. it's a natural reaction. it's happened to me before so i know how you feel
My 11 year old brother confided in me that he likes to look at naked men. ohhh boy--that is just something that I'd rather not know! but he feels comfortable talking to me about it (i don't though..lol) he will not tell my parents. he is DEEPLY religious. and he knows the catholics frown upon gays. but yeah, he tells me that he likes flipping through magazines and ENJOYS looking at naked men...this creeps me out a little. he was freaking out last night asking me what i thought--and i told him that he's not gay (idk if he is though..but i just said that to make him feel better or else he would have a SPAZ if i told him i thought he was. like i said, he is DEEPLY religious.) --and i also told him that maybe he was just curious..idkkk he doesn't know. but i feel VERY uncomfortable talking to him about thsi but there's no one else he can talk to. he asks me stuff about sex too and i don't know how to answer him. can anyone help me? thannnnnnks :)
ohhhhhh boy, because he's looking at magizines he's probably just curious. but also that might not be the bottom of it. i understand why this would creep you out but i think you should still talk to your brother. if the one person who he trusts cuts him short he may become really depressed and feel like he dosnt belong and could run away or commit sucide or somthing. you should tell him that he's not a freak and is perfectly normal and that he's god is not against him and god loves him. you should tell him he can talk to you about anything but that it's kinda Uncomfortable for you
hope i helped
next year im going to high school. the seniors initiate all of the freshmen. has anyone been initiated before? what did they do to you? please help. im scared to go to high school.
i know how you feel, one time this guy who was bigger then me just started picking on me for no reason and threating me. it really freaked me out. i used to try to avoid him at all times and when i stoped going in his path he forgot about it and stopped bullying me so i what i reccomend for you is that you should try to ignore them because they will probably stop
hope i helped
hearts/bigboy13
Okay I like this guy and we've been going out and like he really really likes me too and my parents dont like him for some reason and i dont want to break up with him and my friends dont want me to go out with him anymore and want me to break up with him to but I rele dont want to what should I do ? and this one person said if i love him stay with him but the thing is tht my parents caught me alone with him and they dont want me neer him and i want to spend some time with him on my b-day wich is tomorow and i have no clue wht to do ! please help me ..... thank you
xoxo vanessa
well, i dont think you should brake up with him because your parents say so, your parents probably dont like him because their afraid that he'll take you away from them or because girls normally listin more to their boyfriends then their parents or that he'll get you into trouble or brake your heart
they just care about you so you probably shouldnt listen to them at the moment.
what you should do is think that if you really love him because it's not worth it to put your parents through trouble if you don't really love him
but if you do love him then you probably shouldnt listen to them but you should think long and hard about this okay
i hope i helped
I have an 8 year old son who will be going into 3rd grade.
He played little league baseball this year and loved it.
He had his first football practice yesterday and he wasn't as thrilled about it. Today when it was time for practice he said he didn't want to go. Then when we got there, 1 hour into it he came off the field complaining that he felt like he was gonna throw up. I was concerned about the heat, it's really unusually hot here in upstate NY. But he looked ok, face color normal and he wasn't showing signs of heat exhaustion so I gave him a drink and made him go back out. Not even 5 minutes passed and he was complaining again. This time he refused to go back out and started crying.
So I took him home early and now he is just fine. I KNOW that he was faking it because he didn't want to play anymore.
My problem is, what should I do?
I don't want to push him into playing football if he really doesn't wanna play. But at the same time, he has only been to 2 practices and I feel like he should give it a fair chance before I let him quit. Plus we paid over $100 for him to be on this team.
Should I force him to play, for at least 2 weeks before letting him quit? Or should I just let him quit now?
Thanks for your help
you probably shouldnt make him play. kids like to experment and if you make him play he'll resent you and not play to his full pontental and it wont be worth it. when i was younger i tried gymnastics for 3 months but now dont do it and your son probably just wanted to try it so i wouldnt make him play
hope i helped
Please do not delete Im honestly 100% want to know this.
Do you believe in Aliens?
Life on other planets, Aliens.
Thank you.
there could most defanlty be aliens. you know those people who belive in god but say aliens don't exist. well there's just as much proof that aliens exist as there is of god so yeah i think there could be.
My mom is one of the most stubborn unreasonable people I know, and it's easy to see that we don't get along. I played tennis last semster and I want to play badminton this semster, even though my PE credit was already fulfilled last year. However, my mom won't let me play badminton, because she thinks one sport a year is good enough and she thinks my grades will drop if I do play
i know you may not like this answer but just disobay her and play badmitten, you can't let your parents tell you what do all your life and if she's not going to listin to you why should you listin to her and if you do need her permission maybe you should talk to the coach or the princple and tell them to talk to your mom.
hope i helped
I have a problem with people being jealous of me. I don't know why they are - I'm not extremely beautiful or wealthy. I'm just an above average looking girl with average intelligence. I don't have a bf either, so this makes their jealously all the more perplexing.
I have a part time job with a union, and can afford to live on my own. I have an appartment I rent, a car, and a lot of nice furniture. I own about 150 CD's and 70 DVD's.
I by no means am rich, but only have myself to look after. So I can afford to spend my paychecks on what I please. I had saved up a bit and just bought a new futon and recliner. That made some of my friends REALLY jealous.
This one friend of mine makes just as much money as me but says that most of his paychecks go towards paying credit card depts. I have never had a credit card so don't have this problem. My sister is also jealous of me because she owes money to student loan payments. I never went to college so don't have this problem. Some of my other friends don't have cars, and are always saying how lucky I am to have one. But they don't relize how much money I put into it. I just paid 400 to replace the breaks. I wish I could just enjoy what I have without people feeling jealous. I earned it. What can I do, and how can I stop people from envying me?
you really can't do anything. when people see other people who are happy or have it easier or just have somthing they dont have they will tend to get jeleous and pretty much the only way to make them not jeleous is to make them feel better about their own life.and if that dosn't work you can always feel better that people like you and respect you enogh to wanna have your life and be like you.
Can anyone translate the line from 'Romeo and Juliet' for me?
Romeo, Romeo. Wherefore art thou, Romeo?
it's basically (where are you romeo)
How do u french kiss?
while your kissing you put your tounge in your partners mouth and machase there tounge. sorry for bad spelling. a great website for you would be kissinginfo.com
hope i helped