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how bad does a tatoo hurt? i know it hurts differently in different places. how bad does it hurt on your ankle, hip and lower back? i've gotten 4 piercings in my ears that i didn't think hurt much.
The pain is different for everyone i have two tattoos 1 on my calf and 1 from my underarm to my waist. neither of them hurt to bad. the one on your ankle probly wont hurt as bad as the one on your hip or back.
Hey thanks so much for your advice, but I have another question! I can't do push-ups (like 10 pathetic ones r my limit) or run very well (but i can run) I am mostly worried about sucking at the physical stuff and everyone asking me. Plus what if i don't make any friends and they all think I'm weird or something? Thanks so much!!! :D
trust me when it comes to physical shit im at the bottom of the scale. You will learn to do pushups and run. i cannot do a push to save my life but the dont get mad at you just try it. And believe me you will make friends alot of friends. you guys are a team yea their may be people in there that don't want to be your friend but some of my best friends were in rotc.
how do i make my eyeliner stay put
i use covergirl eyeliner the kind you twist up and it stays put for me. ive cried for hours and i still have the stuff on so its pretty good.
Hey! My bgf and his older brother (who was driving me home) kept saying i should join ROTC i am not sure if i should but i could try it for only a semester. And i would get out of PE... what do u guys think? I am not really that type f person im more girly and preppy but i lead in my church and stuff and my bgf thinks its something i should def. try. His bro was coming up with all these reasons and stuff and super pressuring me! i think i should but idk! I guess how bad can it be right? plus i dont have to wear the uniforms (or i would SO be out) and it doesn't seem that bad. Leadership is super importante to me and i would make a lot ore friends. What do you think? Please help me decided whats best! I rate. :D Thanks
i think you should try it! i was in rotc my freshman and sophmore year and i loved it. You will mkae tons of friends, you learn leadership skills, and your respect for people gets stronger. You will have to wear a uniform once a week but, its not even that bad.
any questions just ask
kim:)
hi. how much damage can a box of cigarettes do to your body? just a box? to be more specific, 10 sovereign. if i were to smoke them and never smoke another cigarette, how much damage? thanks
Im not sure how much damage it can do to your body. My advice is that if you are not a smoker do not start smoking its a horrible habit to start. You can say you will only smoke that one pack but you don't know your body you have no idea how your body is going to react to that one pack of cigarettes. You may come addicted right away you do not know.
If you smoked one pack and thats it, it probly won't be to much damage. Again what happens if you become addicted?
Its not worth it....
17/f
I was dating my boyfriend for about a year and half when he cheated on me. He didn't just kiss another girl or hang out with her but he had sex with her at a party after we had had a fight. He didn't even tell me and i had to find out from the girl herself. She didn't even know i was hius girlfriend and she asked me to give him his ring back.( the ring was a promise ring we gave to eachother awhile ago) up until this happened i thought i could spend the rest of my life with him. I haven't talked to him since but he is always with my brothers. I just don't know if he went so far that i should throw away everything we had. Where is the line of going to far to be forgiven? Do i just give up and say let's be friends?
Hunny im sorry he did this to you. i'm the type of person that believes cheating is not okay in any relationship because once they do it they will most likely do it again. If you believe that in your heart that you can forgive him then you should give him another chance but i don't think he will be faithful. He had sex with this girl if he was sorry and felt bad then he would have told you and would be begging you to forgive him and keep him around. When promised rings are givin to eachother that means you are supposed to be faithful to eachother. This guy does not deserve you i would atleast take a break from him. yea you can keep a friendship with him but don't trust this guy with your heart.
Any questions just ask.
kim
wat song goes
"as we move on, we remember"
like it was sung at a gradutation and it was so sad
Its called Graduation by vitamin C
i have alltel, and i have 1000 texts per month. does that mean i get to send 100 texts? or when i recieve texts does that count as part of my 1000 texts? i hope that makes sense. like lets say somebody texts me and i have 1000 texts, then do i have 999? or does it only go down if i send a text?
Your 1000 texts are for recieving and sending out. If someone send you a text then you go down.
every girl on advicenators that has ever had sex before i was just wondering...at the time that you had sex had you shaved all of your pubic hair off or did you just trim it?
deff. shaved
Hi, the past few days i haven't been feeling that good and i was wondering what are some signs of pregnancy? my period should be coming in a few days and maybe its just cramps and stuff. but the main point is that ive never had sex..so what are some signs of pregnancy? thank you
HUn, if you haven't had sex then there is no way you can possibly be pregnant.
- swollen, tender breasts.
- nasuea without vomit
- food cravings
- constipation
- mood swings
- missed period
qhettinq my nose pierced on saturday hopefully for my birthday.
1. i've heard that it feels like you got punched in the face . and it feels like that for days .
2. i've heard that you bleed very much .
3. i've heard you have to twist 4-8 times a day everyday.
4. does it hurt cleaning it and how do you clean it?
5. does it hurt taking the nose ring out for a new ring ?
6. does getting yur hose pierced overall hurt ?
I got my nose pierced. just the lil stud so i can tell you about that.
1. They put a clasp up your nose then she lines the holes (on the clasps) with the spot on your noses and she/he basically shoves the needle thru. And your eyes will probly water like mad crazy.
2. My nose bleed quite a bit but they are used to that happening they just dap a tissue on your nose till it stops.
3.You only have to twist it if they don't give you Emu oil. I had emu oil and i never had to twist the piercing.
4. I only cleaned it the first week. Just splash water on your nose. You can use a Qtip with water on it.
5.I have not had mine changed but what people have told me it does hurt.
6. Yes it hurts. Don't expect it to tickle!
have fun
16/f
Recently, my boyfriend and I started having sex. The first time, it hurt pretty bad.. but it doesn't hurt so much anymore. But, the thing is, i haven't bled yet. Does that mean that he didn't tear my hymen? I know some of my friends didn't bleed either. Am i still concidered a virgin?
No your not a virgin, i didnt bleed my first time either and not everyone does bleed.
I'm a virgin and me and my boyfriend are planning on having sex. How much would i bleed. What if i end up bleeding on the bed or something. any tips?
thanks.
When i lost my virginity i didnt bleed at all and it was pretty rough so you may or may not bleed at all.
If you do then yes the blood will get on the bed you can put a towel down tho,
is it true that if men drink mt.dew it will lower their sperm count????
doubt it. Its probly one of those stupid myths that people come up with.
What can you do if you are having sex and the condom breaks and your parents are going to kill you if you get pregnant or even find out you had sex again?
Oh and we have no way of getting the morning after pill either.
PLEASE HELP ASAP
IF your scared that your parents are going to kill you then your to damn young to be having sex. If you do not have a way of getting the morning after pill then wait to see if you start your period. If you start then your lucky if not then you need to talk to your parents. You will have to see a doctor or you will cause alot of complications.
I doubt your parents will kill you. My parents said the same thing about me if they found out i ever had sex with a guy while i lived under their roof but i did and they found out and they were disappointed but they didnt stress over it.
You have no one to blame except for the guy and yourself.
hope everything works out for you
OK im a 16/f and ive only had sex twice.. i know for sure that neither of the people ive had sex with has an STD. But ive been having stomach cramps lately, and it burns when i go to the bathroom. Could that be an std?
Im not completely sure because im not a doctor but like alot of the others said it sounds like you have an UTI. I had one 10 days ago and i have 1 now. If you have the urge to use the bathroom constantly throughout the day but when you get the nothing comes out except a little and your bladder still feels full and it burns its probly a UTI.
You need to go to the doctor because there are not any home remedies or over the counter drugs that will cure UTI's. You can take the over the counter pill Uristat until you are able to get to a doctor but they say only use that for two days max.
can anyone give me any of there stories on how they found out they were pregnant and what made them take a pregnancy test in the first place i mean what were the symptoms before you actually knew you were pregnant before you even thought about it before you tested to see if you were pregnant
well thanks for the advice
I thought i was pregnant because i was 3 weeks late for my period, i felt sick to my stomach and i was not myself at all. I Ended not being pregnant but i took plenty of test.
During sex, does it hurt for guys like it does for the girls (their first time) or does it feel good to them??
No the guys enjoy every sec. of it.
i was with this guy once, bob and we did some stuff, and when he fingered me, it hurt, really bad. like i cried for an hour after. and i dont know if it's because i had a bad time then, but my almost boyfriend and me did stuff last night, he fingered me and it felt good, but nothing really happened besides it feeling good, nothing earth shattering like everyone always talks about .. i dont know if there's something wrong with me, or how to handle it. i feel like im gonna make him mad causenothing happens.
i have been fingered many times before and i think its the most amazing sexually act someone can do besides actual sex. Ive never felt pain except for the last time a guy fingered me and idk why it hurt so bad it may be the size of the guys fingers or how many he was using or the way he was doing it. Your perfectly normal your body just doesnt have the same reaction as someone else may.
okay.
my friend recently had sex
for the first time.
without a condom. .
but he claims he didnt cum in her?
idk.
shes freaked as hell
and is worried she might be pregnant.
is there a chance she could be?
i think so, but i figured i'd get a second opinion.
thank you (:
Alot of guys use the "Pull out method" and it usually gets the girl pregnant because the pre-cum.
Tell your friend to wait to see if she gets her next period and if not Wait 5 days after that date and she should take a pregnancy test.
She needs to stay calm and live life like she normaly would because if she stresses over being pregnant or thinking she is her period will delay. I stressed about being pregnant and i missed my period for 4 months.
goodluck