Recently, my boyfriend and I started having sex. The first time, it hurt pretty bad.. but it doesn't hurt so much anymore. But, the thing is, i haven't bled yet. Does that mean that he didn't tear my hymen? I know some of my friends didn't bleed either. Am i still concidered a virgin?
orphans answered Sunday July 15 2007, 4:26 am: No you are not a virgin. I've been having sex for my boyfriend for months [not necessarily often] and I've never bled. Most girls break their own hymen before they even have sex..through sports, or even inserting a tampon in wrong. So you've probably torn your own. =) [ orphans's advice column | Ask orphans A Question ]
DepthofHeart answered Saturday July 14 2007, 1:37 am: You had sex. You're not a virgin. If you want to consider yourself a virgin then fine. And not everybody bleeds the first time they have sex either.
Melody answered Friday July 13 2007, 7:42 pm: Your hymen may have already ripped. You probably didn't know it, because it probably didn't rip all at once. It's probably slowly broken down until it was gone completely. But then again, some people just don't bleed when it happens.
Your hymen being in tact has absolutely nothing to do with whether or not you are a virgin or not. You are a virign if you've never had sex, if you have had sex, then you aren't a virgin. It's simple. [ Melody's advice column | Ask Melody A Question ]
superstarblue89 answered Friday July 13 2007, 7:04 pm: your hymen doesn't always bleed when it pops...unless he has a small enough penis to stretch the hymen but not break it it's probably broken and by having sex at all you are not a virgin [ superstarblue89's advice column | Ask superstarblue89 A Question ]
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