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Hey I'm a Junior at Union High.I'm doing Volleyball, Cheerleading, &&Softball. Which is awesome. I'm athletic, helpful, funny, outgoing...anything really! I love helping others...i guess its a gift in some ways...=) Helping others with issues....is rewarding because they're happy. All i can really say, is I try to do my best to give you the goods(advice). NOTE: Ask STUPID questions, You'll get STUPID answers! but if you really want to know more, then just ask! Take it easy.

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How many people are on a typical volleyball team? And what are the names of the positions, and describe what each postition does.

Hey! Volleyball is a great sport!!!!*lol* Well it depends on wut formation ur in, so in middle school u'll prolly have a 2-6 or 6-2 which is da normal formation, two setters N two hitters, da setters is usually in da front right! Therre's two setters who set the balls for hitters to spike! N therre's passers in da back who passes or sets to the setters! But they usually pass! it's better! Therre's 12 ppl on a court, u kno in all! but therre's six on each side! u have your left hitter, middle hitter, setters, right back, left back, middle back! the setters are alwayz across from eachotha, if not then they are out of formation! but if u play AAU, which i do, we play 4-6 N stuff like dat! which is harder, cuz da formation is totally differ!Well da postions really are differ! But the main goal is to try to set the ball up for a kill, i hope u kno wut a kill is. if not then a kill is when the hitter attacks da ball N spikes it to the otha side, when no one could touch the ball, N dat makes da ball dead, dat would be a kill! then therre's da server! u have three type of serves! Under-hand, over-hand, N the powerserve, usually used in high school or college or beach volleyball! the underhand is really good for begginners, but it's very accurate, but it doesn't have a lot of power! the over hand has a lot of power! but it's hard on trying to put da bal @ a certain spot! but only if ur dat good then u can! For me muh nickname iin vball is Powerhouse!*lol* well therre's so much more but i don't think i can fit it in, but if u need anything else bout this or anything, then stopp by muh inbox, or IM @ LilKim13x3 or GButta13, Hope i helped,take care
-Phuong

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i like my friend mike ((agen))... i liked him most of the school year n then "stopped" for a while... n i definatly think he's been flirting with me kinda but like i unnno. n i rele rele like him agen. i dont know if i ever stopped. like seriosuly ill eb sitting around doing nutitn n all fo a sudden he'll pop in my head.... its really weird. but i dont know what to do about it cuz he doesnt think i like him ne more n i dunno if he like me or not ((prolly not but lol)) and then my friend anna also likes him too n ... blah i unno what to do... if i shoudl tel him or what cuz we are friends but i wish it were more PLEASE HELP I WILL RATE

Hey! Sorry, i'm not tryin to be mean, u might get this from otha ppl too, but try to write clearer, i can barely understand wut da words even mean*lol* I don't get wut u mean, bout u liked him N stopped, its either u have or u don't! u kno?U should talk to him! Get things out in da open! tell him how u feel, tell him how much u like him, N wuteva u want! I think he might like u! trust me! Well how good of a friend are u wit Anna! Confront both of them! It seems like he's losin interest in u! well get him back! N tell him wut u pratically told me!Be like "[his name] I liked most of the school years! U mean so much to me...." N tell him how u feel, tell him dat u want to be more than juss friends! but don't scare him off! Like if u come on too fast, it can scare da guys! *lol* Talk it out, be his friend, N don't rush into things! aiight? if u need any more, then stopp by muh inbox! I hope i helped! tell me how things go!GOOD LUCK, take care
-Phuong

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Ok i have a really important question. i really want to have sex but i am not sure when girls can get pregnate. i have already have my period but is it after u get it wheil u have it or what?? plz help me

Hey! well yea u can get pregnant anytime, but ur eggs flow in oneside to da other @ certain times of da month, N during this time, if u do have sex, da guys sperms can attach to da egg N BOOM ur gonna have a kidd! Cuz some ppl don't use protection, N so some of da gurls don't really get pregnant, but u still do cuz therre's dat WHAT IF! u kno? if u do ask this questions bout sex, then it means u don't kno much!Therre are so many things out therre dats so dangerous N stuff by having sexual intercourse! U can get STD's,Low self-esteem,hated, disowned, wuteva! Juss remeber dat therre's alwayz a consequence in your actions! so be careful, N take care! Oh watch sundae night sex! on da oxygen channel it's usually on @ midnight! but wuteva, it helps!*lol* If u need anything else stopp by my inbox! Hope i helped! Take Care!
-Phuong

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My so called friend i think is only my friend cuz he likes my girlfriend and he even said so, i think there is a chance that she likes him, should i see if she really wants to go with him, or let her know that he really is a jerk or what...?? help please!!

Hey! Well i think u should juss talk it out wit yo gurl! Ask her, well do u like me a lot? do u have any feelings for otha guys? I bet she might be questioning u on why u askin these questions then tell her why! tell her how u feel in this situation! But don't be shallow N start sayin shit bout one of yo bois! u kno wut i mean? She went wit u for a reason! So juss confront her! i hope things work out, tell me how it goes! Hope i helped! GOOD LUCK! if u need anything else please stopp by muh inbox! Take care
-Phuong

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my bf and i have been together 4 2 yrs now.. we love eachother completly and we trust eachother and all.. my parents r really strict and they dont noe im wit him! i found out tat my bf is going to another skool so he can improve his grades.. n i really dont mind i meen i do cuz im not gunna see him as much but i trust him and he told me tat no matter wat we r gonna b together.. he said tat we could see eachother during the weekends n stuff but i dnt think ill b able to see him tat much and i donno im scared about the whole thing.. any advice would b helpful.. tanx

Hey! Congrats bout da 2 years! That's really sweet, cuz not a lot of ppl can stay together! Well if it's for education, u have to support him! Boyfriend or not, right?Well takl to eachother how things will work! Don't really break up, cuz this is a stupid reason to! u kno? But still talk to eachother, N have study dates! Ur growin up now, N try to sit your mom or dad or maybe both down N tell them dat ur responsible, n stuff like dat,tell them dat ur gettin older,juss tell them how u feel! Hope i helped, N tell me how things go! GOOD LUCK! take care
-Phuong

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my boyfriend he doesn't like to do anything fun.. he's so boring!! and i went to this party n made out with his bestfriend, what should i do????

Hey! Well for starters Tell him! If he hears it from someone else, ur fuqed! N ten rumors will start, which will sux! so juss confront him with it!If ur losing interest wit da guy, then why do u wanna stay wit him? I say communicate! dat's da best, N juss tell him how u feel! Be honest! But be kind too, cuz he might have really strong feelings for u! u kno? well i hope things work out, N tell me how things go! I hope i helped! need anything else stop by my inbox!GOOD LUCK, take care
-Phuong

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im 12 nd ill be 13 on sept 5th nd im goin into 8th grade nd i kno im kinda young to say im " in love " but wen i was in 7th grade the 1st day of school i saw this kid dylan nd omg i went crazee nd couldnt stop tlkin bout him nd i kept tellin my friend that id never get him to look at me or even talk to me nd then we got called in r teams nd i swore i hurd my friends last name called nd i was like oh theres ur team nd then wen i was goin in my team it turns out she was in my class nd i thought i hurd her name b4 nd i was like whoops lol nd wen she got to my class nd i was like omgg im soo srii nd she sed ull be happy wen i tell u this .. nd she sed that dylan was talkin to my other friend frank nd sayin how hott i was nd i was like sooooo happy nd i couldnt breathe nd then soon enuff tha day b4 my bday he asked me out nd then we started goin out nd then i hurd one stupid rumor bout sumthenn he sed to me nd i believed it nd dumped him nd then we were still close nd then we went out again for a 2nd time nd then i got confused nd dumped him again nd then we were close again but then he gotta nother gf nd we didnt talk for a while nd then i realized wutta mistake i made nd how much i relii relii like him nd then he started sayin mean shytt bout me nd then after a while we became close again but he kept gettin new gfs nd now he has this gf hes had since like may nd i even tho i broke up wit him twice i still liked him nd havnt stopped ever since i saw him nd we talk on the fone a lot nd he tells me he still loves me nd tells me he always will but im juss soo depressed tha onli time i was happy was wen i was with him nd i want one more chance to prove how much i care for him nd i dunno wut to do .. his gf is from a diff town nd shes in a grade higher than him nd shes movin to our town now nd she needs to learn the school system so shes gonna be in r skool = \ nd i mean shes nicee but she has the one thing i love nd kare for nd ive never liked sumone for soo long in my like its almost a year! nd i relii want him back nd it helps that i kno he says he still loves me but .. wut do i do?!?!? plzz help

- sadd = (

*Sad*
Hey! Well, i kno how it is! it seems like u really don't kno how to live witout him, u've been wit him so much u don't kno how it is to be away! right? well hang wit otha friends to get ur mind off of him, give otha guys chances too! I've been in this, N still am! but u gotta move on, since he is! Everything happens for a reason, but u juss don't kno wut da reason is...right? well let things take place, if it's meant to be it will!If he still cares for u N "loves" u, then therre might be a chance for two of u guys! but juss chill, don't rush into anything cuz it usually turns into a disaster, TRUST ME! I kno! Be his friend, be a person he can rely on...Juss be therre when he needs someone! then he'll come back, but really u dumped him!TWICE! come on now...! Well talk to the guy! ask him how he feels bout u, N his gurlfriend! then tell him how u feel! juss be a friend first! cuz relationship starts off being friends, then they end up hookin up N stuff, so yea! I hoped i helped, but if u need anything else stopp by muh inbox! Good luck! Take care
-Phuong

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When you are looking for a boyfriend..what are good trates to look for?

Hey! Well when ur lookin for a boifriend, u must be attracted to him, dat's one, then u look at their personalities, as in good sense of humor, outgoing, nice, honest, trustworthy, cool, comfortable, wuteva fits u best! But u have to be comfortable around him, u must be urself N not change yourself for a guy! then dat's good guy! cuz the guy would be your buddy N then maybe even more! But he must have respect for u too! Therre's more, but dat's like da basics!*lol* Hope i helped, if u have anymore questions, dropp it by my inbox! Take care
-Phuong

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is it okay for a girl to ask a guy out?

Hey! Yes it is ok to ask a guy out! It takes so much pressure of da bois! They might be shocked or wuteva but it's normal! Hope i helped, if u need any more, then drop it by my inbox! Take care
-Phuong

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Its me AGAIN! ok i just want to let you know that you dont know me and you are judging me all wrong! I know how she feels to a certain degree and yes she did want to talk about it...we tried and it didnt work out how things were planned! No i didnt make her life suck and you wouldnt know because you dont know me and i really think if you give people advice then you shouldnt be judging them!

i didn't judge u! ur offended! N one, i've been in this situation, N prolly still is! your askin me for advice N i'm givin it to u! if u like it or not! Well from my perspective, it seems like my advice seems to be tru! but maybe not wut U want to hear! so then if u don't agree wit wut i'm sayin, then stopp goin to my column!!! it's dat damn easy! N really don't tell me wut to do, ur da one who's commin to me askin for advice, N i'm givin my best! if u already have an idea on wut u think is right or wuteva, then why on earth are u wasting you time? I've have better things to do, then argue! cuz it's obviously juss a waste of time!Take care
-Phuong

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OK i just wrote about the girl ditching her friends. I dont think what u said was right because if you are friends with someone then it should be your business about what they are doing because they are your friend and you dont want to see them get hurt! or into something they dont want to because i am almost positive that she wasnt forced into anything at all! yes i have tried to talk to her about it but she just doesnt wanna hear me out!

Hey agian! Yea if your friends wit someone if CAN be your business, but it's really a choice dat da person wants u to be in it! Well did she kno u didn't want her to get hurt? It's most likely she wuzn't forced, but therre's juss a possiblitly! do u kno why she doesn't want to her u out? Maybe it's cuz she didn't agree wit things bout u? or she wasn't dat open to u! maybe she only looked @ u as a friend not a best friend! u kno wut i'm sayin?well i'm sorry if u don't think my advice wuz right.Well u don't want nutitn to do wit her, N u don't wnat her back then why won't u juss back off, N move on! i got two words FUQ OFF! it seems like u don't want to waste your time, then DON'T! STOP MAKIN IT A BIG ASS DEAL! Her problems is hers if she want u in it, then let it be! if not stop being into suttin dat'll stress u out, make ur dae bad wuteva! u kno? leave it be!She prolly don't want to hear wut u gotta say, cuz she "heard" a lot of wut u say bout her when she ain't around! right? Well maybe she thought u were better than dat, N expectations juss prolly doesn't reach as high anymore! but wut makes u think she'll do it wit otha ppl? U guys are prolly goin differ wayz, N when u guys get older, wut makes u thikn u'll see her again! u kno?don't u think, u made her life suk enough? think of wut u really did to her in her shoes?
-Phuong

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I know this girl. We were friends for a while but then she met a guy. She started ditching all of her friends for him. We were really tight, but then the guy, so we started slipping away. Then she decided to prove to him she "loved" him she started doin some shit with him that was uncalled for, because to prove you "love" someone you dont have to do shit with them right? (suck dick have sex, etc.) Well what should i do in this situation?!?! I am so sick of this because all of a sudden she is trying to talk to me and wants to be my friend but i dont think i can take her back after all the shit she put people through and i really need some Advice!!

Hey! Well for her "ditching" all her friends, dat's differ! but like have u talked to her when this wuz happening? did she kno she can turn to u for help? were u therre to even help her through things? were u even dat good of a friend to her? wut do u mean for awhile?Well yea "love" is not proving anything, it's juss how u feel when u take away everything! Well how do u kno she wanted to prove it? or if it's forced or wuteva? It's everyone's opinion! If u don't want to take her back, then juss fuq off! it's easy as dat! I'm sorry if i'm offending u, but it's dat easy! It seems like in this situation, for u havin this strong of a feelin for not wantin her back, tell her, let her kno, she is aware of it, then juss fuq it! cuz it's obviously seems like u can give two shit bout it! But if u want nuttin to do wit her, then don't butt into her business, don't worry bout her life or wut she does, wut's her business has nuttin to do wit u, so don't make it one! cuz ur juss puttin ur nose in sumwherre's it odn't belong! if she wants ur advice or opinion on suttin she'll come! trust me! wut shit did she put ppl thru! if she is dat important in da ppl's life they would tell her, she would kno! But honestly talk it out wit her! N besides doin shit is her decision, N if u were friends u juss gotta respect it N move on! I kno it must of been really badd! but do u actually think havin sex is wut she does? ppl nowadaes exaggerate,u prolly heard it from someone who heard it form someone, N so forth! well rumors are when ppl hearing things, N they may added words or left out some words!I hope i helped! Good luck! Take care
-Phuong

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Okay, its me again but this question is a bit different then the rest...Okay my boyfriend of 4 years thinks that he's a bad boyfriend cause he has a tendency to like check and see who calls my cell phone and everything and I told him that i feel like he has to check on me and like he don't trust me cause he'll ask me about a number if there isn't a name with it and all and i mean I either dont know who it is or its one of the girls on my dance team but I told him how i felt and now he feels like a bad boyfriend when he really isn't he's the best in the world and I tell him that all the time but is there anyways that I can show him that he's not besides just telling him i would highly appreciate this if you could give me some ideas cause i love him with all my heart and i dont want him feeling this way.Thanks a bunch...
-Cass-

*Cass*
Hey! well your boifriend seems to love u too! But the trusting needs a lil improvement? why does he feel this way?Have u done anything to make him do this? I'm not tryin to point fingers at you, sorry.Tell him how u feel! well for him to think this "bad boifriend" thing! everytime he says it, tell him to come to u, N u hug him give him a kiss! or when he does suttin sweet or nice to u, then give him a kiss N tell him how much u appreciate it!U seem to care so much1 dat's so awesome! Well trust is one of da key to a good relationship! remember dat!tell him how much u care for him, tell him how much u like/love him,care for him, trust him, respect him! all of this will make him realize "oh, she feels this way for me, i should do it too" u kno wut i mean?well if u need anymore dropp by my inbox! Hope i helped! Good luck, take care
-Phuong

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What is the average size of a boy's penis?
My bf is 16 and he's about 6 inches long is that average he's a bit worried about it.

Hey! Therre's really no average size! Really it depends on therre height! To me i think an average size is 5-6! dat's average, But big is 11-13! if it's 8 dat's great!*lol* but therre's really nuttin to be worried bout! cuz if a gurl likes his dick size isn't worth da time! so for u to help him stop worrying bout it, tell him it's ok, i like it, if it's bigger it'll be scarey! u kno suttin to make him feel better! i hope i helped! if u have any more questions please dropp it by my inbox! Take care
-Phuong

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Hey. umm I really don't know what to do with this one guy friend of mine. I've known him for what seems like forever, but it's only been about a year and a half, almost two years. And when I met him the first time, he became my bestfriend! I mean i could talk to him about everything and anything. Then not to long ago, he told me that he actually really liked me, so we hooked up for only about 2-3 weeks, then he broke up with me. A lot of girls are in love with him, and a lot of the other girls he's gone out with have cheated on him. But i would never do that to him. So is it that he wants the best for me right now? So he can try to be more faithful to his girlfriends? because he said he never wanted to hurt me... but i knew about all of this as well, and i wnated ta help him so he wouldn't cheat on any of his girlfriends. Should i keep liking him, and try to keep going for him, or kind of leave him alone? PLEASE HELP ME!

Hey!Well this situation i have friend dat can relate to it. I tell u wut i want to tell her. Well this guy seems to respect u! which is a good thing! Why did he break up with you? I think he has doubts, N a bit confused!That is good dat u'll never cheat on him! Wut do u think is da best for u right now? Talk it out wit him, tell him how u feel bout this situation, tell him how much he means to u, N how different u are from da rest of da "cheaters"!Why do u want to go wit someone who can't be FAITHFUL to someone he likes so much? Is this da type u want to commit your relationship thru?I think dat this guy really cares for u, N he prolly know's a lot bout u, as in your relationships, friends family, a bunch of problems! He seem to kno all of dat, which in his head feels like he doesn't watn to stress u out, so yea he doesn't want to hurt u! but being in a relationship Is bout takin RISKS! How can u help him by not cheatin on his gurlfriend? Well i can't tell u wut to feel! If this guy is gonna be therre for when your sick, in trouble wuteva the mess is! then keep tryin to get him, cuz wut if he's da "ONE"? u kno? But honestly juss be da person he can rely on! dat's da best thing! talk to him, N see wut's up wit u guys! But don't scare him off! aiight?If u need any more dropp it by my inbox! Hope i helped! GOOD LUCK! take care
-Phuong

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ok there is this guy sort of know. he lives really far away and im starting to get to know him alot more than i did when he was around here. my friend likes him because she thinks he is hot. he might come back to stay for a while and i dont know how to tell him that im starting to have feelings for him and my friend on the other hand still likes him. how do i open up to him and tell him all he needs to know? _signed i need some answers_

*I need some answers*
I think i answer this b4, suttin similar to this! but i won't turn u down*lol*...anywayz,well if sumone likes them for their looks, it's really shallow, i'm sorry! Looks is juss one of da thing, but really it's not dat important!U kno?Well don't scare da "stud" off.*lol* first let him kno dat ur a person he can turn to for things, advice, comfort, fun things,ect. ect.!Well talk it out with your "friend" be like,"[her name], u kno since we're friends we should be open to eachother, N i wanted to tell u dat i'm starting to have feelings for [da stud's name, N i have been talkin to him l8ly, N i'm gettin to kno him, the more i tlak to him the more i like him,i'm tellin u this,because i don't want to hide suttin tween us!" then tell her how u feel bout this situation ur in!If she's a good friend, she'll hear u out, but if she get's madd at u, then your so called "friendship" isn't strong! U feelin on wut i'm tryin to say? WEll when u talk to da guy again, tell him how u want to see him, but don't juss go on to fast, cuz u might scare him! guys get scared easily!But see if he likes u too? Juss ask, so are u interested in anybody? then tell him how u feel, like i'm glad i met u, ur a nice guy, thanx for being my friend. I appreciate it a lot! It's like i've juss met u, N it seems like i known u for a long time. I don't want to scare u or anything, but please din't think get scared or wuteva, cuz i feel weird enough sayin this, N i don't want to hide anything, but i'm gettin to like u alot....N then tell him why? N stuff like dat! Hope I helped,Tell me how things go, need anything else dropp it in da inbox! GOOD LUCK! take care
-Phuong

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What does it mean when u wake up and find clear gel stuff on ur underwear (im a girl)

Hey! Da "clear gel" is prolly your body dischargin fluids! either dat or u had a wet dream, but i doubt it!Your body is cleanin itself! I think it's normal so don't worry bout it, but juss clean your stuff, N eat healthy, if it gets worst ask a professional! hope i helped, need anything else stopp by my inbox,Take care!
-Phuong

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me and my boyfriend have been going out for 2 months.... and we met at church camp where i asked jesus into my heart for the first time.. and that totally changed my life.. but then when we got home all reality came back.. i had used to be really bad.. such as have sex and drink... and well now i stopped all that and my boyfriend is really religious... and he found out about all that and he told me that when you ask jesus into your heart the first time all your sins from that past are forgiven... and he told me he loves me for who i am now and my past doesnt matter to him.... but now.... we were like in my pool and he get touchy feely.. and im not like that anymore.. we still didnt do anything or anthing. .but it scares me cuz i think that he might try to do something i dont want to.... and also... people sign his buddy profile guest boook telling him lies about me haveing sex with a 21 year old and stuff like that... and he still worries.. and ill tel lhim they arnt true.. but it still bothers him.. i dont know what to do... and my parents are leaving for a week and ofcourse me n him are ganna hang out... i just dont wanna do anything that we will regret... and i dont know how to tell him that without embarrasing him.... please help me!!!!!

Congratulations! Asking Jesus into your heart took a lot! I'm proud of u...=)!!!I'm not sure how old u are, but u might be old enough to kno wut's wrong from right! right?well anyways....Your boifriend seems to be a sweet kidd, but he's having doubts bout u, because of your past! well when he says "it doesn't bother me" not then, but when someone starts rumors bout u havin sex wit a 21 year old, he'll think bout it, cuz he know u had sex b4! well wut i think u should do, is talk to him, tell him how u feel, tell him bout how much u changed, N care for him, be like" [his name]I kno u've been hearing things bout me having sex, it's not tru! i told u i've stopped when i asked jesus into my life!(( N tell him how awkward it is)) N for u havin second thoughts or doubtin me, it hurts" so on, N so forth! Your boifriend touchin up on u? well if u really feel dat uncomfortable, confront him, n tell him! if u don't it might get even worse or u juss might dump him for this stupid reason! u kno wut i mean?in a relationship, no one should worry bout anything, besides eachother, if he thinks dat ur doin things dat's not appropriate, then he doesn't trust u! trust is one of da key in a good relationship!U won't embarrass him! Juss tell him "i don't want to do anything dat we'll regret when my parents are gone! because....."he'll understand, i hope *lol*make your boifriend feel like he's da man of da world, not by takin dat extra step((as in havin sex)) but like tell him how u feel, make him feel like he's wanted, n dat ur da one who really do care for him....so he won't doubt bout ur feelings, do u kno wut i mean? but i hope i helped, if u need anything else juss dropp by my inbox! GOOD LUCK! take care
-Phuong

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Has anyone in here ever tried smoking pot and their not a complete pt head? I want to try it cause it looks and sounds fun.. but I don't want to become a pot-head. I just want to know what its like ur first time.

I want to be able to smoke with my boyfriend.. and not like caugh and stuff.. but not like have to rely on pot to have fun.

Can anyone tell me what its like to try it for the first time??

Hey! Well i've been around ppl who have been doin it! They all still cough! But all of them are addicted to it!I have this friend, da first time doin it, u juss get really tired!I heard dat if u do it da first time u can't really get addicted, but it's a 50-50 chance! well some ppl who do,do pot, afterwards they do rely on it to have funn, to calm them down, to make them happy, everything! it's not all dat great! Your boyfriend should be tellin u shit like i don't it would be dat good of an i dea for u to do it,because ur such a kewl person who doesn't need this kind of things! i went thru this "stage" my Ex wuz da one who stopped me! i'm glad, cuz i'll prolly regret it! he said, your da person who trys to stop things, then why do u watn to do suttin dat's not good?ur gonna get addictted to it and .......he said more but it's long, N i would like to thank him for dat! he'll alwayz be in my heart! but honestly it can change your life foreva....would u want lil kidds to look up to knowin u did this kind of shit? i dont think so!well da first time depends on how much u do, u get tired and high! but please be careful! N take care!I hope u change your minds on sum of da thangs!
-Phuong

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Ok well i was thinkin bout u kno havin sex widd my bf of ova 9 months but im only 13 almost 14 so i think have decided to wait for that big step u kno!! but ne wayz i wanna be able to do otha stuff wid him like give him a bj and like have him do stuff to me so should i??? and like wat kinda stuff???? thanx


* a curious george *

*Curious George*
Hey! Yea dat's good, wait cuzdat is a BIGG step!Do wut u feel is comfortable to u!! Therre's a lot of stuff well kinda, well therre's....hey juss IM me, or write to me N i'll xplain a lil more for u to understand! but therre's givin head, u blow or suk, hand job, massaging eachother, make out, kiss, or leaving eachotha stamps((hickies)). For him, he can go downtown on u as in eat u out, or finger, hey why won't u guys have dry sex! But honestly, think before u do things, cuz u neva kno u might lose friends, or get hatted on! so Every action HAS a consequence!!!! juss remember don't do suttin u don't want to!and especially if u pushes u into it, then don't!But be SAFE! Good luck!Need anything else contact me,my info is in my column! take care
-Phuong

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