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Question Posted Thursday August 12 2004, 2:17 pm

Hey. umm I really don't know what to do with this one guy friend of mine. I've known him for what seems like forever, but it's only been about a year and a half, almost two years. And when I met him the first time, he became my bestfriend! I mean i could talk to him about everything and anything. Then not to long ago, he told me that he actually really liked me, so we hooked up for only about 2-3 weeks, then he broke up with me. A lot of girls are in love with him, and a lot of the other girls he's gone out with have cheated on him. But i would never do that to him. So is it that he wants the best for me right now? So he can try to be more faithful to his girlfriends? because he said he never wanted to hurt me... but i knew about all of this as well, and i wnated ta help him so he wouldn't cheat on any of his girlfriends. Should i keep liking him, and try to keep going for him, or kind of leave him alone? PLEASE HELP ME!

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VBabi13 answered Friday August 13 2004, 11:02 am:
Hey!Well this situation i have friend dat can relate to it. I tell u wut i want to tell her. Well this guy seems to respect u! which is a good thing! Why did he break up with you? I think he has doubts, N a bit confused!That is good dat u'll never cheat on him! Wut do u think is da best for u right now? Talk it out wit him, tell him how u feel bout this situation, tell him how much he means to u, N how different u are from da rest of da "cheaters"!Why do u want to go wit someone who can't be FAITHFUL to someone he likes so much? Is this da type u want to commit your relationship thru?I think dat this guy really cares for u, N he prolly know's a lot bout u, as in your relationships, friends family, a bunch of problems! He seem to kno all of dat, which in his head feels like he doesn't watn to stress u out, so yea he doesn't want to hurt u! but being in a relationship Is bout takin RISKS! How can u help him by not cheatin on his gurlfriend? Well i can't tell u wut to feel! If this guy is gonna be therre for when your sick, in trouble wuteva the mess is! then keep tryin to get him, cuz wut if he's da "ONE"? u kno? But honestly juss be da person he can rely on! dat's da best thing! talk to him, N see wut's up wit u guys! But don't scare him off! aiight?If u need any more dropp it by my inbox! Hope i helped! GOOD LUCK! take care
-Phuong

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