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Question Posted Friday August 13 2004, 11:49 am

I know this girl. We were friends for a while but then she met a guy. She started ditching all of her friends for him. We were really tight, but then the guy, so we started slipping away. Then she decided to prove to him she "loved" him she started doin some shit with him that was uncalled for, because to prove you "love" someone you dont have to do shit with them right? (suck dick have sex, etc.) Well what should i do in this situation?!?! I am so sick of this because all of a sudden she is trying to talk to me and wants to be my friend but i dont think i can take her back after all the shit she put people through and i really need some Advice!!

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VBabi13 answered Friday August 13 2004, 12:04 pm:
Hey! Well for her "ditching" all her friends, dat's differ! but like have u talked to her when this wuz happening? did she kno she can turn to u for help? were u therre to even help her through things? were u even dat good of a friend to her? wut do u mean for awhile?Well yea "love" is not proving anything, it's juss how u feel when u take away everything! Well how do u kno she wanted to prove it? or if it's forced or wuteva? It's everyone's opinion! If u don't want to take her back, then juss fuq off! it's easy as dat! I'm sorry if i'm offending u, but it's dat easy! It seems like in this situation, for u havin this strong of a feelin for not wantin her back, tell her, let her kno, she is aware of it, then juss fuq it! cuz it's obviously seems like u can give two shit bout it! But if u want nuttin to do wit her, then don't butt into her business, don't worry bout her life or wut she does, wut's her business has nuttin to do wit u, so don't make it one! cuz ur juss puttin ur nose in sumwherre's it odn't belong! if she wants ur advice or opinion on suttin she'll come! trust me! wut shit did she put ppl thru! if she is dat important in da ppl's life they would tell her, she would kno! But honestly talk it out wit her! N besides doin shit is her decision, N if u were friends u juss gotta respect it N move on! I kno it must of been really badd! but do u actually think havin sex is wut she does? ppl nowadaes exaggerate,u prolly heard it from someone who heard it form someone, N so forth! well rumors are when ppl hearing things, N they may added words or left out some words!I hope i helped! Good luck! Take care
-Phuong

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