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This boy that i love...yes for real...we went out about 4 times and the last time he broke up with me because he liked another girl.He doesn't like that same girl anymore but he likes another one. Anyways, we still talk a lot like we're very good friends. But he found out that I kinda liked one of his friends and ever since he found out all he says to me is about me liking his friend. It's getting annoying like we talked 3 times yesterday and all he said was " oohh you like *****.." "I saw you around **** sittin with him i saw you.." "i know you want *****" and i dont know why that's all he ever talks about now. I asked a couple of friends and they think he's just jealous. Do any of you guys know why he does this?? If you need any more information just write it in the answer and I'll tell you. THANKKK YOUU (link)
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he's definitely jealous. give him a little more attention and make him see that there isn't anything to be jealous about.
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hey i'm a guy, and one of my friends got pregnant. the whole school found out and eventually her parents did too. right now shes feeling terrible and her parents flipped out on her. i heard her talking to some of her friends and said she was considering getting an abortion. i asked her about it and she said shes worried and afraid its a bad idea. what should i tell her about it? i mean i don't think she should get one, but how do i help her with what she wants to know? thanks (link)
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personally im pro choice. its a bad choice to make but i dont think the government should get involved in making those decisions. you have to inform her. explain to her vividly what actually happens during an abortion and give her reasons why it is better to keep the baby and work through it. i know people who have gotten an abortion and they haven't been able to live with themselves since. they say that they felt horrible and empty. and that they were the worst people ever and if they could, they would take it back. don't let your friend make the same mistake my friends did.
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I really want to find the right guy (link)
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im terribly sorry. you're a very strong person.
keep hangin on. don't change yourself to fit what other's want. if you keep yourself available the right guy will come to you. ignore the rumors because when that guy does come he was obviously ignoring them as well.
stay strong :)
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I want to clean up my room and make it less depressing. What can I do to my room to make it more outgoing cool and happier? (link)
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two words: BRIGHT COLORS!
put posters up of your favorite band. get a new bed comforter. maybe get some better organization stuff like drawers or something. paint your walls a cute color. just go crazy. use colors that you love and that make you feel happy.
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i really like this boy but i dont know if he likes me my friend told me that he said he liked me but how do i know if its true and also i am very shy and they said at our next basket ball game he was going to talk to me what should i do? (link)
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talk back! omggosh. this is the perfect opportunity for you. don't waste it. go with the flow. find something you have in common so that you will have something to talk about if he does talk to you.
also, you should ask him. boys don't know what your thinking. they have no idea. you just have to come out and say it. but don't get pms-y and don't make yourself sound pathetic. be confident and flirty. and make sure you look good when your around him. guys most of the time don't even notice if you are wearing make-up! but do what you think you need to to get his attention at the game.
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ok heres the thing, proms is in 3 months and i need to lose like 15 or 20 pounds. I need advice on a way i can lose that weight in 3 months. i wanna find a cute dress thats looks good with out the gut and love handles showing through. please help!
--> ashley (link)
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excercise everyday. go to the Ymca or something if you dont want to pay for a gym and keep in mind better alternatives for certain foods. instead of some chips, eat an orange. that kind of stuff. also, dont load up on dinner and not eat any breakfast. you should always do it the other way around. big breakfast small dinner. you depend on your breakfast the whole day. you dont want to go to bed after eating loads because it will just add on.
hope i helped :)
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I technically can't "date" until I turn 16. I've had boyfriends before but not ones you actually go on single dates with and things like that. My parents are okay with that kind of thing, but what if a guy actually asks me out? What should I do then? Thanks! (link)
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you should say yes to them and go with the flow. if you're worried about what your parents think then you may have to do some lieing. but most of the time it will be totally worth it. honesty is the best policy, but when your a teen its basically your job to do crazy things and test the world around you to see how far you can go and get away with things.
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last night my friend asked me to go with her to this spaghetti dinner thing for this hockey association and all the hot hockey guys were there! well she use to go to that school..so all the hot guys knew who she was and would talk and flirt with her and stuff..and i mean yeah they didnt know me but i was SOOO jealous of her..i mean every hot guy like looked at her about 100 times..not even kidding and im just there like a nobody..i felt so left out and like i said what were they suppose to do tho? because they didnt really know me..well this brought my self-esteem down. and i dont know! im so bad at talking to guys..i never know what to talk about and i usually wont go up and talk to them first..and i have a myspace and im starting to like request cute boys i kinda know..but i dont wanna comment them! i mean i commented this one cute kids pic but i DOUBT he will comment any of mine..i dont think he is like that. if you dont like myspace and are gonna hate on it then dont even bother answering this. but i just need help! blahh and now im going out of town this weekend..and i have to go and of course i get invited to this hotel party..where these cute guys will be! or where i could of meet them. im soo mad. and i CANT repeat CANT get out of it. blah and so yeah this girl like hardly ever talks to me but i kind know her but she invited me to her party and now i cant go! i need a guy =( i feel so lonely..and im so jealous of like every girl..i feel so ugly..blahhHhh!! help me?!
sorry so long..
but i just need help..
i WILL rate! (link)
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when they say yes to your request keep up on it and comment saying thanks for the add cutie! ;)
or something like that. that's what i do haha
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okay, my hair is very very curly and frizzy and thick its nasty!! i sometimes put hair gel in it and it looks fine and then other times i stirghten it but it still gets frizzy easily. I use hair serum and this one spray to control the frizz but hey im always lookin' for something better can you guys suggest anything? (link)
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you should get your hair thinned out. its like a haircut that makes your hair look thinner but still cute. then use de frizz shampoo and stuff like that but straighten it in layers. and use mousse. before you straighten it, mouse it up not ALOT but enough if you know what i mean and straighten by layers. going from the hair towards your neck to the top of your head.
you'll get madd good eventually and be able to do it really fast. it always helps to get a good straigtener.
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i am a girl about 5'3. I weigh approx 135 pounds. i dont think i look fat, but i can say it wouldn't hurt to loose some pounds around my legs. am i over weight? any excercise tips? x0x0x0
please be honest (link)
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i think your fine. its probably muscle. muscle weighs more than fat. im almost 5'3 and i weigh 101 . people tell me i'm really light but i have like no muscle =P haha
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hi im 13/m and i cant figure out how to rate you have helped me before and i need to rate, but i cant figure out how.
THANKS !!! (link)
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well, im not POSITIVE because i haven't asked any of my own questions. but when you get an answer to your question there should be a link or something? im not totally sure but you rate from a 1 to a 5 and you can comment on why you rated that .. most people say "thanks" or something like that haha. but feedback helps because you can try to answer other people's questions better if you know you aren't doing such a good job.
but to rate, i think you click on your question to see the answers youve got and then you rate 1-5 and comment on it. sorry i couldn't help with that haha. i usually answer questions.. not ask my own. but if you looked around on the page with your question and other answers you will hopefully figure it out :)
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Hey everyone. Just a heads up, this might be somewhat long! Ok, well me and my ex-boyfriend (first love) started going out on 10/12/04. Well, on 8/11/05 he broke up with me. Didn't give me reasons, out of the blue, and i said w/e and went on with my life. I had feeligns for him still and we stopeed talking. He went out with this girl named Linden, i got mad and went with a boy named Tyler, and both couples broke up in about a month. Well, near the end of October, me and my ex-boyfriend started getting cool again and we became more of friends with benefits. Suddenly, my 1st friend decided to stab me in the back and go and flirt with him and make out with him in my face, so me and my ex stopped talking again. Well, then we started talking again around the end of December and go real good again, friends with benefits and all that stuff, then a second friend did the same thing pretty much the first one did. Now shes telling me, he never liked me, he wants to get with her, and we broke upa while ago so get over him, and yea... so now i dont talk 2 her and my ex is mad at me for not talking to her. Well, i guess my question is, what should i say to him or how should i handle this situation? it really is none of his business, but i still have strong feelings for him. The second question i have is that I get mad when he flirts with other girls, and he gets mad at me when i flirt with other guys. So, that means he still has feelings for me to right?!? Some of this may be obvious to you, but my ex doesnt like to share feelings, thats why i am not sure. thanks a lot, 1 for answering, and 2 for reading it all!!! (link)
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if he gets jealous just like you then he must like you. thats the good thing, and your friends obviously were bitches, plain and simple, if they would do that to you. i think you should tell him how you feel. you have nothing to lose, because you seem to stop talking and then talk again so you dont have to worry about never talking again. if he keeps coming back to you then there must be a connection. hope i helped
ps. it wasnt too long to read =P haha
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I am a male, 15, and lately I've been wondering about something. There are many girls in our school and grade. I am a gentleman and open doors, get chairs, etc. for the girls. It is pretty much the same way with my friends, we are all like that. But the girls in our school keep saying they like "skaters" or "skaters are soo hot" and we really are wondering what is wrong with us. Not to boast, but all of us are good looking. The girls just keep talking about "skaters." So why is it like this, and do girls not like gentlemen or something? (link)
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girls like guys that are gentlemen and know how to treat a girl right, but at the same time they have to be exciting, funny, daring, outgoing, etc.
maybe you should try to be more outgoing and "against the system" if you know what i mean. rebel. haha thats what we like =P
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i'm 15 years old & i haven't gotten my period for about two months. i've been having it since september 2004 & it's been sort of normal for about 8 months. i'm a virgin & i know this is going to sound extrememly juvenile but is there some way that i could be pregnant without having sex? as i said, i don't mean to sound juvenile but i've heard people say things like, "it's in the water" & is it actually possible? i'm just really nervous, & i'm racking my brain for an answer. could it just be that my period isn't on time? i haven't really been eating any differently. please don't treat me like an idiot, i'm just scared. (link)
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you definitely aren't pregnant. the only way to become pregnant is to have unprotected sex. semin can't live outside the body very long so there is no chance of getting pregnant from anywhere else. i know you may not want to, but you should tell your mom and go see a doctor. it is either just off track or something else.
:)hope i helped
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What age do you think is the best for having a first boyfriend? :)
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my first boyfriend was in 5th grade. it depends on if you like the person or not. i mean, my first relationship lasted 1 1/2 years. you can have a first boyfriend at any age :)
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I NEED HELP RESTORING MY LAPTOP! i've tried things, but it never seems to work. it has a trojan virus, and its screwing my computer up! please help
any advice would be greatly appreciated! (link)
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well, if you have windows, then it should have come with system restore cds. mine came with 3. i usually have to restore my computer once every 3 months because of viruses. but, i have the latest windows and all you do is have your laptop off, turn it on and put the cd in right away then it should start and tell you when to switch to what cd. if that doesnt work, then put the first disc in and shut your computer off. then start it back up and it should work, then follow the directions.
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me and my bf made a bet about who could stay up the longest, and if he lost, he had to go some where with me, and if I lost, i have to kiss him. WE called it a tie, but we still have to go through with it. What should I do? (link)
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its your choice to do it or not. he cant make you. but if i were you i would. even if you don't like him, a little practice never hurt anyone =P
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im not sure but i think i know someone who suffers from bulimia. i really want to know. i have confronted this person about it but they just deny it. i told them facts about doing this and how bad it is for thier health but i still think they do it. is there a way to tell if they do it without confronting them and if so is there a way i can help
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the signs of eating disorders are:
1. cutting food into really small peices but not eating it
2. avoiding meals, or wanting to eat alone
3. obsession with anything having to do with weight
4. trying to surpress hunger by smoking
5. sees themself as being overweight when they aren't
6. severe weight loss over short periods of time
7. taking non-perscribed medications, or weight pills
8. eating excessive amounts of food, or hoarding it
9. only eating foods low in calories or stuff like that, they check the label all the time
10. always feel the need to excercise
those are top ten warning signs. i found it on a website :) hope your friend is okay
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I usually sleep really well, but last night I didn't fall asleep until 2 o clock in the morning. I don't know why. I think it might've been because I was talking to this one guy and I really didn't want ot sign off and go to bed but I had too. So i was thinking about him and stuff and I couldn't sleep.
Does anyone have anything that might help me sleep?
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do you like him? i know that when i talk to the guy i like i dont want it to end. and i end up going to bed way later than i could stand. maybe you should start talking to him earlier and that way you can talk to him longer and go to bed earlier. otherwise take so sleeping pills. not alot though, be careful too. my friend had a bad reaction with them. like she would try to open her eyes and she seriously like couldnt in the middle of the night when she wanted to go get a drink or something and she like, couldnt get up. so be careful if your going to use and kind of drug to fall asleep
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Ok i know it sounds totally weird because im so young (15 very soon) but my boyfriend wants to propose to me for my bday. Hes 17 and i know wont be able to get married for ages and so does he. I think hes still going to propose though. What should I do? We've been going out for 10 months. thanks xx
(Im female by the way...) (link)
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if i were you i wouldn't rush into anything. you two are young still and you haven't even been going out for a whole year. make sure he wasnt joking about getting married. he probably wasn't if you feel that he probably will by the way he said it, it isn't something to joke about. but if he's the kind of person that would do something like that..
i dont doubt the fact that you two are in love but he is almost out of highschool. you still have a few more years. but you have to take in the fact that you may meet someone you love a bajillion times more when you go to college or in your senior year. i'm not sure marriage would be the best thing to do at your age and for the time you've been going out
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