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You can't help who you like. But if he asks you out, you have to say no. i know you like him, but your friend does too, and she told you that before you even knew the guy. explain to him that for reasons you can't explain, things between the two of you cannot be anything more than friendship. that you are incredibly sorry, and you know how cliche it sounds, but it is absolutely not him. its hard to say no to a guy who you wish you'd be saying yes to, but you'll feel a lot better about yourself and your friendship when you do.

i think you hafta ask yourself a few questions
do you love him? you already answered that...you do.
have you been together long enough that you feel incredibly and completely comfterble with him?
do you have complete trust in him?
think about it, but in the end, the two most important things are love, trust and a really good understanding of each other.
if you need anything else at all..you know where i am.

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with the excitement of christmas and break, people are coming back to school full of new stories that they wanna tell everyone- if they ever were talking about your thong...they won't be anymore. : ) don't worry about it at all.

it sucks i know, but yes, timing makes a world of difference. i know this is gonna sound really cliche, but trust your instincts. and remember- just because the timing isn't right right now- it just means that the right timing is coming soon.

decide not to have a boyfriend for a little while. use the time to work on figuring out a little bit more about yourself. you probably don't like the guys after you start going out with them because you never really liked them in the first place- you liked the idea of having a boyfriend. figure out what you want, and when you feel ready to have a boyfriend again, make sure you give it time. don't rush into things. people say that it never works if your friends first, but usually its the best way. that way you'll be sure you like them enough to have them as your boyfriend. you'll be moving a little bit slower than your used to, but in the end it'll be worth it.

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oh my god i am so incredibly sorry. i don't think there is one certain way to "handle it" right now im sure your in shock, you feel angry, upset, depressed...anything your feeling is okay. don't be afraid to lean on your friends and family. i know it hurts, but look at pictures of you and krystal, talk about those hysterical times you had together. a great person once told me that you'll wanna blame someone, but that isn't the answer, and its not gonna help. for reasons that we wish we could explain, krystal left life earlier than expected. things will be no doubtedly different. but krystal is with you all the time now. watching out for you. and as much as you miss her, she loves you, i can promise you that, and you will always love her, no matter where she is. no matter what, she will never ever leave your heart. if you need someone to talk to, Im me at ReeSes029 or leave me a message. you're in my prayers.

No, its not wrong to like someone elses boyfriend, as long as you keep it to yourself. you can't control who you like, and its good that your not thinking about going and "stealing" him away from her. you obviously care a lot about your friend, so as long as your feelings are kept to yourself, you should be okay. as for not being happy because you don't have a boyfriend, the right guy will come at the right time and you'll be happy you waited for mr right instead of being with a million mr wrongs in order to make yourself feel better. have fun with your friends, do whatever you want on friday nights- live up the single life, which is very different but just as good as life with a boyfriend.

at most parties like this, especially if there are a bunch of people there, everyone will usually keep themselves occupied. make sure you have something to play music on, have your friends bring cds, put out food and let them know its okay to go outside. i had a huge party last february for my birthday, and people ended up having a great time just hanging out, listening to music, going outside, convincing my parents to let them go down our huge hill on an inflatable chair- they'll think of crazy and fun things to do. have fun : )

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of course your gonna see this guy in a different way than everyone else- hes your moms new boyfriend, enough said. don't let anyone call you crazy. as long as you've given this guy a chance, than you have been open minded. if your crying every night, and hurting inside, you obviously feel something about this guy that others don't. which is absolutely okay. just because they don't feel that way doesn't mean its no alright for you to. if your that unhappy, maybe moving to your dads for now is the right decision, at least for now. if you move in with your dad, make sure you go spend time at your moms frequently. maybe when your not living with her boyfriend, you'll see him in a different way.

stay away from him. listen to yourself. he became a friends with benefits when his friend broke up with you, left you for his old girlfriend, and comes back when thats over? there is something seriously wrong with that. i know the whole idea of hooking up with him again seems comforting, but its only gonna hurt you more later.

for right now, i really think you need to keep your distance until this guy gets his head straight and figures out what he wants to do. hes really not being fair to you, or his girlfriend. let him figure out what he wants- you may even realize that you really don't want to go out with a guy who will potentially cheat on you. you deserve so much better...a guy who thinks of you as his only one. hes out there, i promise.

absolutely back off. regardless of his feelings towards you, your best friend is not only with him, but has been with him for 9 months. a guy who has been with a girl for 9 months and is saying he likes her best friend doesn't exactly sound like the greatest guy to date anyway. would he like your best friend if you were with him? listen, i know it hurts, but shes your best friend. a guy is not worth what you guys have. let her make up her mind about him, and try to be happy for her. after all, shes your best friend. hes just one guy.

i know exactly how this situation feels...my advice? talk to one of his friends to see how he's feeling. If they can't get any information, it kind of depends on how you feel about it. if you want things to move more quickly, ask him about it yourself. sometimes its better to let things go slow like that- i "talked" to a guy for a long time and we ended up having an awesome relationship when we finally did go out. all i'm saying that is you really should make sure you know what you want out of the whole ordeal, and then work on finding out what he wants. if they match up, great. if not, then its probably better to find someone who moves at the same pace you do.

hey hunny...you are doing so much for your friend already by just being there for her. make SURE that she knows that she can talk to you if she wants, or if she just feels like crying than your ok with that too. try not to talk about your cousin- it brings back bad emotions for you, and sometimes when peoples loved ones get diagnosed with cancer, they kind of want to think about them, and not talk about someone else. try to keep her thinking positive, and if she seems down, write her a note that will make her smile, or tell her you'll go with her to see her sister if shes put in the hospital. as long as she knows that you love her and will be there for her, thats the greatest thing you can do.

for now, try to not act flirty towards him- i know sometimes being friendly to someone can be mistaken for flirting, but just watch what you say. you don't want to be accused of leading him on later. if he does ask you out, tell him that he is an amazing guy, who you, under any other circumstances would die to go out with, but
you like him way too much as a friend to wanna screw it up. the main idea is to compliment him and boost his confidence while at the same time, turning him down. leave one in my inbox or im me if u need anything else.. good luck : )

as i see a bunch of people have said...freetranslation.com, you just hafta be careful, because sometimes if it doesn't know the exact word, it'll just give you the english word right back. and never put full sentences in, because when it gives you the sentence back in french, it doesn't structure it right, and your teacher will be able to tell. im pretty far in french, so if u need something that you can't find, im me at dramaqueen0076 and i'll see if i can help : )xo

Hey...im risa, known to some as Reeses : )
I love the feeling of knowing that something i said helped someone when they were feeling confused, upset, or just in need of hearing someone elses point of view. i know it sounds corny, but im always here if you ever just need someone to tell you your not crazy. : )

Because maybe...your gonna be the one that saves me.

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