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Question Posted Friday December 31 2004, 12:43 pm

well is it wrong to like someone elses boyfriend? Well, i have this friend who is one of my best friends and she has a boyfriend who i think is wicked hott..and i sometimes have dreams about him but not always. I mean this best friend is wicked nice and i love her to death& i would take a bullet for her..but she has boyfriends all the time & i never had one boyfriend..and i wanna be happy& shes always happy.and im never happy. i mean its not like im gonna go steal him away from her cause im not that kind of friend or girl. but i dont know what to do or think.. should i just forget about this and just keep liken the boy ive been liken for a long time now or what? need some help..

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*Kate* answered Friday December 31 2004, 4:47 pm:
I don't think it is wrong to like someone else's boyfriend. I used to like my best friend's boyfriend, and as long as you aren't gonna go steal him away it is fine, but ask your friend how she would feel if someone dated her ex. Then when it ends if she doesn't care go for it !
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PinkLady4863 answered Friday December 31 2004, 3:00 pm:
it's ok to dream about him or think he is hot, as long as you don't pursue it at all! if you are caught flirting, she will get mad and your excuse of happiness won't work. if they break up after a while maybe pursue it, but not now. your best friend loves him, so don't be a backstabber.

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CoKeIzZle answered Friday December 31 2004, 1:41 pm:
Hey Sweetie,ask her to hook you up with 1 of her boyfriends friend!Thats only if you like them of course! But i think you need to talk to her and tell her how you feel! Maybe she can get you a date with the guy you like for a long time since she doesn't really have a trouble with guys!hope i helped!XoXo Nicole~

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Reesespieces022 answered Friday December 31 2004, 1:34 pm:
No, its not wrong to like someone elses boyfriend, as long as you keep it to yourself. you can't control who you like, and its good that your not thinking about going and "stealing" him away from her. you obviously care a lot about your friend, so as long as your feelings are kept to yourself, you should be okay. as for not being happy because you don't have a boyfriend, the right guy will come at the right time and you'll be happy you waited for mr right instead of being with a million mr wrongs in order to make yourself feel better. have fun with your friends, do whatever you want on friday nights- live up the single life, which is very different but just as good as life with a boyfriend.

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advice~gurl answered Friday December 31 2004, 1:28 pm:
Sounds more like infatuation and/or crush if you ask me. I think that you are going a bit over board with it too. You just are attracted to him.
Its okay to "Like" someone elses BF just not to the point where you are telling everyone. Let your dreams stay dreams in other words. Oh-well she has boyfriends all the time and you don't. big deal, life goes on. Your not dieing. Do not and I mean do not go after him they breakup. You will then be asking advicenators what to do since you went out with your BFF ex. Trust me it won't be a pretty day.

You are pefectly happy with a BF. You don't need some guy to make you happy. That is just stupid thinking.
AG

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NEVERLETG00 answered Friday December 31 2004, 1:23 pm:
well i dont really think its right to like your best friends boyfriend, but if you like him you cant help it, maybe you could just wait to say anything to anyone about you likin him bc you dont wanna get into any fights about it. but wait until they break up since she has alot of bfs and who said that this one will ever last! haha, just wait and you can still like him. x0 Renee

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Sherry answered Friday December 31 2004, 1:17 pm:
To answer your question, no its not wrong to like someone elses boyfriend. You cant control your feelings. Also, your a good frtiend for not trying to steal him..and I think you should let it go and find someone else to like. Eventually your friend and the guy you like will break up so who knows. Just be patient..your time will come when you have a boyfriend!

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