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i'm a 16 year old girl who has never done it or had even had a REAL boyfriend.
is this abnormal?
cause my friends are all off doing it and they think im such a nerd.
there is no certin age hun
you will know
because you will really love him and feel ready.
can u make perfume stay on longer
i dont think so
but when ever i put it on my skin it doesnt stay one.
maybe for about an hour at the most.
but if you put it in your hair and on your clothes it stays on all day
i know it sounds weird
but it works.
WARNING LONG I like black.I weir black nail polish and alot of black eyeliner.In a few days im dieing my bangs that hang in my eyes black to.Now i have had my hair pink,purple,green,blue,red and other colors at different times so people already think im weird also im emo and i get made fun of because i used to cut and i dont think people know but they might it was a big thing with screming and trowing things around (mostly by me) and so people no somthing happened and because im emo that what they think it is true but still.i think im ugly and i hate myself i get jelous easly realy easly also i think i might be bi.whats so bad about being emo being different.i no people are gonna hate me and think im weird but im not sure what my problem is anymore it was sposed to be about my hair but now i think i may have bigger problems.i dont eat until i start shaking alot. im a 13 female who feels alone and dosent wanna cut agian and whos going into 7th
i went thru the same thing.
but not the bi part.
its ok hun
you will make it thru
just be nice to everyone
dont change for anyone like i did.
i used to have blue,white,black,darkbrown hair and people found me scary.
but i kept it.
you are just trying to figure out who you are and who you want to be right now.
i think you should eat.
my bestfreind anna was anerexic and i stayed with her in the hospital and it was really scary.
she almost died.
but then i talked to her and the stuck toobs down her it was horrible.
ithink you should eat make some good good freinds.
i think short black hair is cute.
and your other hair sounded cute.
just dont care what other people think.
you just have to think to yourself..
hmm when i get into highschool my life begins
then you get a job then after highschool a career
yeah i think you get what im saying.
goodluck hun.
ok, me and my girlfriend have decided we want to have sex, the only probleam is i am not sure how i am going to get my hands on a condom, i am 13, and don't give me stuff saying im too young or anything cause we have made up are mind, im just not sure how i can get my hand on some condoms. can i just buy them? what? and also what kind should i get?
awe thats so cute.
theres no age limit hunny.
just go to a store
like
walgreens,fred myers those types of stores and just buy them
if your to scared to
bring someone with you and use a you scan.
Me and my boyfriend have been deeply in love for a year. All we've ever made it to is 2nd base. Yesterday I was talking to him and he asked if I was a virgin,I said I was and he did too. He then proceded to tell me that even if our relationship didn't work out in the long run he'd like to lose it to me. I had been thinking this for months. We both want to make love, not just have sex. The problem is we are NEVER alone. He still lives with his parents and the don't trust us to be alone. Neither does my mom... And if they left us alone he still has a little brother that follows him around every where. I need sugesstions, *sigh* I don't want a 2 minute quickie in the bathroom...
awe thats so cute you should both tell your parents that you are going to spend the night at your other freinds house
like
you tell yours your going to go have a girls night.
and he should tell his hes having a boys night.
then rent a hotel.
or bring a blanket and stuff outside (at night time) where no one can see you
like in a feild or something.
i hope you guys have fun!
Is it slutty to give your boyfriend a hand job and letting him finger you when you're only 13?
nope.
not if hes your boyfreind
but if hes not your boyfreind then yes a little bit.
I'll start by describing myself as I have been described by people:
I write amazing songs on guitar. I'm the best actor in my high school's theater company. According to many I'm the smartest kid they know. According to a similar number I'm extremely attractive. They claim that I'm also one of the nicest, easiest-going and can hold stupid and intellectual conversations with anyone equally well.
Okay. I'm not an egotistical selfless son of a bitch. These are things people have said to me. Here's something that bothers me: I have never had a girlfriend. I've never even been on a real date. Ever. I came close a few times, but then one girl decided to tell me yes when she really meant she didn't like me that way, and then another got as far as telling me what to tell her dad when I came to pick her up, but then changes her mind an hour later, because. No real specific reason, end of two or three weeks of getting to know eachother and whatever.
I keep trying. I generally don't like to approach girls like that unless I make eye contact and float a smile across once or twice and have one returned. Everyone else says that works, and then you go talk to them. I can't even make eye contact.
So, am I just an unlikely kid who should shut up and stop bitching and moaning, or is there some insight anyone might have here? I'm inclined to believe the first one, really.
SAME HERE
BUT I CANT GET A BOYFREIND!
oh my gosh.
i cant even make eyecontact with a guy.
its just weird
i think its just because girls expect so much more like for you to talk to them and make the first move and all that
but yeah.
i dont know.
Ever since summer started, it seems that all i do is sit around all day. I always call my friends, and ask if they want to hang out, but there always busy. I know for a fact, that some of my friends parents, do not like me, but its not fair that they keep my best friends from seeing me.
For instance, everytime i call my friend kirstie, she's always busy. I'll ask if she wants to hang out, but she says, "oh, my parents are already doing stuff with me today" or, "I already promised my mom i would hang out with her." And, she's always complaing about this girl, that is kinda...the emo one in our group, but it seems like she hangs out with her more than me. It really hurts, because she always says were best friends, but arn't best friends supossed to hang out?
I just really want to know, if maybe i should try to push more to hang out, or give up, or...i dont know, it just stinks cause i'm always alone.
Please help!
Ps. sorry its so long!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
~Melissa~
the same exact thing happend with me.
wow thats weird.
like when i call my supposibly bestfreind (her parents dont like me)shes always like..
i primised my dad i would hangout with him..
all though i call her later and shes at her other freinds house..
i found new freinds
and a new bestfreind.
i would get myspace then find a new one who lives in your area.
or just forget her and make her come to you
then next time she does
say
no i have to hangout with my mom
and see how she feels
and while your waiting
find new freinds.
go to youth group or something.
okay I really like this boy but, I can't describe what I feel for him... Is it love? or just a 13 year old's crush?
TY in advance Jeni Lots Of love
i beleive its love.
i honestly dont think age matters like people make it seem.
watch the notebook.
there only 17
and thats like three or four years older then us.
Hey,
Im 14 years old snf live in England and so can only get what is available there but I have a slightly freckly, grease/shine prone, pale-ish face and I want a foundation under £7 that :
1. looks matte
2. looks natural
3. sort of evens out skin tone and sort of covers freckles
4. Not a powder
5. doesn't look orange
6. Makes skin texture look smooth
Is there any that you could recommend?
Ive tried Maybelline Matte Mousse but the colours dont match my face exactly and sometimes I look orange with the palest colour on.
ty in advance luv Rachel xxx
Maybeline Dream Matte Mousse
maybeline shine free liquid foundation
(then get pale powder to put over)
you can find these at your local drug stores.
People make fun of me and my friends and call us "emo" just because we wear black.
They say stuff like hey emo go run home to your mommy! Its so annoying! What do I do?
lmao theres no such thing
just be like..
go shave your fucking mustache.
thats what i do
im 13 and i dont know if this is normal or not you see my penis kinda leans to the right but i dont know if its normal or not and if it is wont a gurl think its wierd
its normal
all the guys i have been with had it too
one guy was 16 and his was like that
dont worry about it
its fine hun.
a few nights ago i was with a friend and two older boys (3 years) weve hung out before, and this guy pressured me into haveing sex with him but i wouldnt. i dont like im or anything its just a hookup. the thing is im a virgin and hes not and then i was drunk a few nights ago and ended up doing something im starting to really regret. sex. i lost my virginity to someone i dont even like he made it seem like it wasnt a big deal and everyones had it so i just gave in. at first i was okay with it but now im starting to think.. what am i going to telll my next boyfriend? or my friends? i dont know if i should just forget about this whole thing and say im a virgin. im just getting upset and i dont know who to turn to and im not going to a councelor or anything. i guessi just need some moral support.. thank you
and no we did not use a condom, we were in a hot tub and he swore to me that he would pull out before, but we didnt even get that far into it i think. plus hs going off to college and hates kids. so im pretty sure im safe. please help thank you
awe i have the same exact problam.
i went to the doctor and if your 14 or over they cant tell anyone about it or its against the law.
its ok hunny dont worry about it
yes
the next boyfreind you get you should say your a virgin.
i did that
i believe your still a virgin until you dont want to be one.
buti strongly suggest you go see a doctor.
and i totally understand what your saying in this question
because like seriously i was at a party like a week ago and EVERYONE was having sex so i gave in and he didnt have a condom but it was in the shower.and he swore he would pul it out and stuff
sooo
im lucky im not
i went to the doctor
and yeah.
but good luck!
i hope your ok.
my boyfriend is wants to have sex, and, im cosidering it. im 15, am i old enuff? i know about being safe and all, and i dont need to be lecture about how its not right cause the bible says its rong, im not religiouse. i just dont know if im old enuff to be having sex.
aw there is so certin age you have to be..
if you love the boy and no YOU are ready then you are.
you will know.
so if you think you are then you are
your never too younge for love/sex.
one of my sisters bestfreinds met her boyfreind in 6th grade and they got married..
good luck!
This is weird, but Im TERRIFIED of sex. Im 14. But, I hate to think about which is weird because I masturbate all the time..but to think of something actually going in there is scary to me. Ive tried to put tampons in before and even that KILLS..I only get half way and I stop. Can anyone tell me if sex really hurts? On a scale of 1-10? Is there any pain sex compares to? Is it worth it?
awe i had the same problam like two weeks ago..
i was so afaid.
i had sex with my boyfreind and i didnt even get a tampon in and it didnt hurt
i thought it would be soo scary because everyone made it seem like it was but it wasnt at all.
and it hurt for like a secound but then it didnt at all.
well i was thinking today if matt came over to tell him i love him turns out he didnt ne way i iwas going to say that and i was nervous to b.c what if he didnt feel the same way and said nothing talk about emabarrasing and heart breaking. so hear is how the dream went last night.....
ok i had a dream last night. well im in the alter area and i look im getting married! and next to me was a fat kid rite and im like ok well then we are starting to get married and then i was like i cant do this!! so i run away i run into the person i really love. Matt his name is i wanted to ask him if he would marry me instead. i couldnt say it so i said come to my wedding he said ok. well i get ther he sits down i look at him then get married again then i push the fat kid away and then look at Matt he comes up and we get married...
what does this mean?
i thought it meant b.c i was scared to ask to mary him(scared to say i love you to him) then like i get married to him i told him about my dream and i was like hesitating to say i love you on the phone b.c i wanted to say it in front to be less awkward if he didnt say ne thing ik weird but... like i sorta told him and he was like so your trying to say you like me 100% and im like ya sorta but not in that way so i didnt really tell him so im still scared to tell him im seeing him thursday so read and see if im rite and what do i do?
your right.
i would do it..
i think he feel the same way i mean you had a dream my dreams like that always come true..i had one wherei was getting married because i was scared to tell my boyfreind i loved him anyways i had a dream like yours but not exactly then i told him it on the phone and hes like.. so.. you like me all the way? and im like yeah but thats not how i would say it then he came over and i told him i love him and he said he loved me too and kissed me so.. DO IT.
my one friend wants to help me with my imperfections..i mean she hasn't said it but i know she wants to.so should i be offended? or should i think its nice?
thats nice..
dont be affendedat all
i would be affended if my freind DIDNT want to help me.
my boyfriend and i had been going out since febuary 17, 2004 so a little over 2 years, everything was perfect we were madly inlove and it was so nice and great he helped me when i needed him and he would help me everything he was my prince charming!!! but anyway one night we were at a big party my good friend had this summer it was in june like june 10th around then, but anyway and there is this girl who loves my old bf i mean she would do anything in her power to try to break us up. she pulled out a bottle and demanded we play spin the bottle! i didnt want to because i figured she mad it so it would land on him and of course it did he told her he would only kiss me and thats it! and she jumped on him and started making out with him the worst part was he started making out with her back and i know because i saw his tongue involved. after my friend pulled the girl off of my bf he stared at me and i just started crying i usually dont cry but something made me want to cry!!! he came by me and hugged me and i pushed him to the ground he tried to apologize but i didnt want to hear it my best guy friend came over and hugged me and told me that he was a jerk and that everything was going to be ok. i didnt talk to my bf the rest of the night then next day i checked my email and there was 10 emails all with the same subject i dont like her is what they all said, so i told him i finally forgave him and things were good for about a week then he invited me over and i decided to go biiig mistake when he came to the door i noticed his friends b. and j. were there with there girlfriends who i knew and we were friends it was all good and everything was going great until his neighbor (who is the girl i hate who loves him) came over she and him flirted the whole time in front of me and then if it didnt get anyworse she started kissing him and touchin his tush again he just let her do it but this time i threw this soccerball on the ground at them while they were kissing and slammed the door on my way out. he chased after me and grabbed me \"babe i\'m sorry she just kisses so well i cant stop!\" i smacked him across the face and tried to get him to let go of me but he wouldnt \"im not cheating on you i love you and you know that\" he said \"do i\" i snapped back and kicked him in the nuts and walked off he told me he was sorry but i told him that we couldnt go out anymore and its been 3 days since i told him we couldnt go out now he wont stop calling me sending me emails practically stalking me telling me hes so sorry and loves me and wont do it anymore but i dont know i have to admitt i still love him but i dont want to be hurt anymore i really miss him but i dont like being treated like this please tell me what you think
NEVER DATE HIM AGAIN!
once a cheater always a cheater.
and use one of your guy freinds in front of him somewhere and start feriously makeing out with them.
i did it
it worked.
Mmmkay. How to begin...
So, my best friend is the guy in this situation. We've been friends for a few years, and I'm closer to him than anyone else, and he feels the same. We can, and do, talk about anything comfortably. But I have feelings for him that go beyond friendship. Sometimes I think he feels the same way. People often ask if we're going out. We tried the 'friends with benefits' thing for a while. Meaning we made out a lot, no commitment, but then he got a girlfriend. But really, beside the fact that we don't do anything that would count as cheating, our relationship hasn't changed at all.
But his girlfriend HATES me. When I hug him, she gives me dirty looks(but I hug everyone, it's not a weird thing). She ignores me when I try to make friends with her. Not to mention she's bad for him. He's always walking on eggshells around her, constantly afraid he's saying the wrong thing. She is extremely manipulative and has him a hundred percent whipped.
We always joke about how we're going to get married; we even have the names of our children planned. But the other day, Lucas said something about it that sounded dead serious. I remember his exact words: "You know how some old married couples are just so content? That's how we would be. We'd never fight. It would be perfect."
The other day something happened that really confused me. We were laying on my bed watching a movie(well, it isn't really MY bed. I recently had foot surgery so I'm crashing on the futon until I can climb the stairs to get to my room). I sat up for a second, I can't remember why, and he put his arms around me and pulled me down. I apologized because I thought I was blocking his view of the TV and that's why he moved me, but he said "No, I just want to hold you." So we were cuddling and he kissed me on the forehead. And there have also been other situations since he's been with her where we came close to doing something we shouldn't have been doing.
So the actual questions here are:
Should I tell him how I feel or wait until he's single again(I have a feeling it'll be soon with her jealousy)?
Should I talk to him about not getting intimate, or should I just stop it if the situation arises?
Any other advice you can offer about the situation would be helpful as well.
my freind has the same problam
omg.
yeah you should tell him how you feel right now.
or else he will never know.
and move on.
and you will never know what would have happend with you too.
but if you do
then he might feel the same and is just to afraid to tell you.
okay well this summer i decided im going to try and lose weight. so i decided if i eat right and jump on the trameline everyday i will lose some weight. (im babysitting this summer so ill be playing with little kids and obvisously be doing other exercises like running around with them and other things) my question is about how much weight do you think i could lose by september?
*please answer my question and ill rate 5's for at least trying and being honest too.
thanks! any other advice about losing weight is welcome too!
I HAVE DONE THAT BEFORE
omg it works
i lost 27 pounds in one month.
so you will probably do the same im guessing
and i didnt even jump on a trampoline!
so you will probably loose like 40 pounds in one month
eat subway
it helps too!