Me and my boyfriend have been deeply in love for a year. All we've ever made it to is 2nd base. Yesterday I was talking to him and he asked if I was a virgin,I said I was and he did too. He then proceded to tell me that even if our relationship didn't work out in the long run he'd like to lose it to me. I had been thinking this for months. We both want to make love, not just have sex. The problem is we are NEVER alone. He still lives with his parents and the don't trust us to be alone. Neither does my mom... And if they left us alone he still has a little brother that follows him around every where. I need sugesstions, *sigh* I don't want a 2 minute quickie in the bathroom...
loveydovey28 answered Saturday August 5 2006, 1:52 pm: You reminded me of how my husband and i were when we were just dating. We had the same problem. He had an older sister who wouldn't leave us alone for the life of her. We always would tell our parents we were going to a friends house and then he would pick me up or his friend would pick me up from the house i was supposed to be staying at, and we would get a hotel room or even just go to a friends house. I believe that everything happens for a reason, though, so if for some reason no matter how hard you try to make love, it doesn't work out- that just means its not time. Good luck.
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OHilovetravis answered Saturday August 5 2006, 1:40 am: Okay they don't trust yall alone in the house when they KNOW correct! So try gettin to tell his parents he is going to a friends house then he will call when he gets there IF you know they are all worried an shit, so then have him call a friend that he can trust an stuff then tell him to do this...
-call his friend once he gets to YOUR house
-while he is on the phone with his friend
-tell his friend to 3way his mom an give him the number
-then tell him to tell his mom hes at his friends house an he is just gona hangout there play video games usual boy stuff.
-then woop woop you beat the system lol.
-an yall can have privacy!
BlondBritBrit answered Saturday August 5 2006, 1:34 am: Wait until both of your parents are at work or out of the house for a long time. Then invite over your boyfriend. Your boyfriend will tell his parents that he went to his friends house.
LoveNJstyle answered Saturday August 5 2006, 1:32 am: well depending on how old you are... say after a dance or prom, tell the parents you are going to a party but rent a hotel room and go there instead. <3 [ LoveNJstyle's advice column | Ask LoveNJstyle A Question ]
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