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my cat is getting really sick i took my cat to the vet and everything what should i do to stop her from suffering please help...
i will rate high just somebody help...

Umm, listen to what the vet has to say. Ask the vet this question. How would we know what your cats suffering from? You never told us.
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My best friend and i got into a fight. a really bad fight. one when we don't talk to each other for a month. my mom knos about the problem. now my x best calls and apologizes. we have gotten into so many fights i can't even count. so i told her we would talk a bout it in the morning. i don't want my mom to think we are friends because she don't like her. i don't like her. but i don't want to be mean or be enemies wat should i do?????????

Dont even TRY to make things better if you hate her !!! My friend had problmes with a girl like that im middle school. She would get mad at my friend for things like playing with a friend of hers just because shes her "best friend". Well if you do decide to make it better than you're making a big mistake. You'll miss out on fun times. Instead, you'll be worrying about getting in other silly fights. I suggest you tell her "sorry you're great and all but i think its better when we are not friends because we wont get into dumb fights."
M a k e T h e R i g h t C h o i c e !
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my boyfriend says everything to me that i am his everything to me and that he loves me and no body else and how much he cares hor me! and he is in love with me. But there his his ex.. his first love and he swears that he dont like her that way any more and he is not going to break up with me for her and he promises on our relationship! i dont know what to believe though i told him i believed him and then i told him that i dodnt believe and that i was confused and i didnt know how to react! but i mean he tells me everything they say to each other and when she calls!

BELIEVE HIM !! It sounds like he loves you to much to do ANYTHING with his ex.
GOODLUCK

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can someone give me a sentene with the word BEDLAM in it?

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After everyone left the party it was a bedlem.
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ok this is really stupid but i 4got what the north south west and east things are called.. can someone please tell me. i will rate.

If you're talking about northeast southwest -ish directions, those are called cardinal directions.
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Hey well umm me and my x boyfriend bobby went out for about 3 months. and then we broke up. Now he lives somewhere else and he is commin back down to visit his dad and stuff and he wants to see me. but everytime we have seen eachother after weve broke upp we always end up makin out. I really love him but i dont want to get hurt. i am finally kinda movin on.. do u think i should juss not see him or see him and try not to make out idk juss please help me

I think you should see him. I understand that you dont want to make out but you could try to prevent that from happening. For example tell yourself that if you do you'll have to try to move on again, and again. Think about other guys that you'd want to hook up with. If your ex makes a move push him back and tell him you think its time to move on and stay friends.
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hEY! well im 14.f & i want some halloween costume ideas. I want sexy but not overlly slutty. But cute & unique. Last year i was a naughty school girl & this year i want something differnt.
Any ideas?
Thanks!

A i have a few cuted ideas !!
*Model/Swinsuit model (depending on the weather)
*Playboy Bunny
*French Maid
*Gangster (lol)
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OMG. your so gorgous.
How do you do your makeup? lol & what kind of lip gloss are you wearing? im not stalker. lol Im just wondering so i can get some makeup ideas.
Thanks!

Lol !!! Thanks!!! Well im wearing wet n wild pink lipgloss, a light shade of pink eye shadow at the corner of my eye, eye liner, and mascara.
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Hey!
I was wondering..
Does anyone know if I can order juicy couture clothing off the internet and get it on sale?
If anyone knows can you give me the website?
Thanks!

Heres one i could find < http://www.adasa.com/brand/asp/MnfID/48/CtgID/1119/af/page.htm its on sale... but its still expensive.
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ok well, i'm only 13 right, and i've been thinkin about sex,...alot, i'm still a virgin and everything but it's like a random thought that clouds my mind! it's so weird, and i dont even know what this means or anything,....

Its perfectly normal. Once you hit puberty you get horny and think about sex often.
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hey. i have a friend who told me that someone likes me, but she wont tell me who it is. my friend is a sophmore [like me] and her name is megan but im not sure if her name is spelled with an H or not. well she told me that the girl who likes me has an H in her first name [im not sure if she does], is in none of my classes [she isnt], and is a sophmore [she is]. should i assume its her, and how do i find out for sure who it is??

ps. i already asked other people to ask her for me and she wont tell anyone else either.

I dont think it's true. Sorry, thats all i got.
Your story confused me!!!!
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ok im 13, about 145 pounds and im 5'7"
im not fat but i want a flatter stomach
what can help to make my stomach flatter FAST!?

Do about 40-60 crunches a night for a little while. Dont do much more or than you will be wasting your time by losing weight instead of trying to get a flater stomach.
GOODLUCK
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Peace.

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This one is for the girls to anser
What can i do to get my baby love me more or what can i get her what do gilrs like there boyfriends 2 do for them???????? some one plz help me fast

Hey !!! Well you could always give her roses or even write her a poem. Girls like that alot !!! Compliment her more often, and put your arms around her. Anything really thats sweet. You could even buy her a bracelet that has the date you guys went out first carved onto it!!!
GOODLUCK
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Peace.

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k for halloween i'm being a cowgirl. i have a cowboy hat and stuff but i'm just not sure how i should wear my hair. it's not very long.. it just touches the top of my shoulders when it's straight. i was wondering if i should put it in pigtails or if i should just leave it down? what would go with the 'cowgirl' theme more? thanks

pigtails are VERY cowgirlish!!!GOODLUCK
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Peace.
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Dear Advicenators,

I'm a 13 year old girl who is turning 14 in January. My hieght is appromiatley 5'3" and I weigh 103 lbs. I feel fat and ugly and I am determined to loose 5-10 lbs. in the next month or two. What do I need to do? I feel so gross, and when I'm flirting w/ my cush and he offers to give me piggy back rides I always have to turn him down bc/ i think i'll break him. How do I loose weight fast, and not to much exercising because exercise=muscle, which is heavier then fat. I want to build my stomach and my butt and thighs so they are extremely tight and fit. I want to have the perfect body, what diet can I go on, or simple quick exercises that only loose fat and build ur stomach fat, no muscle! Thank-you. I'll rate

Well you're not fat at all!!! I went to www.am-i-fat.com and typed in your height and weight. It says you are marginally thin, eat more, and with your height 5'3 120 pounds would be perfect. Since your opinion might be different im still going to help you. Here are some excercises you can do (each one for 30 minutes) Dancing, Basketball (make sure your playing a game not by yourself or you wont get enough excercise), Bike Riding, Bowling (i know it sounds weird but your building up your upper body strength), Housework, Lacrosse, Jogging, and snow shoveling. These are somegood exercises to do for apporximately 30 minutes. You could also do crunches, and pushups. I do about 100 each a night. You could start out with 50 eahc night, and go up higher. And dont forget healthy eating !! For breakfast you could eat something like cereal. For lunch something like a sandwich and fruit, and for fruit and some vegetables.

GOODLUCK
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All right,my sister is 18 and her hair is EXTEAMLY thin,its so delecate,and fine.I feel so bad becuase its so thin you can see her scalp in some areas when its wet.No hair cut will work for her.She has died her hair many times.I can tell shes trying to make it have body,but it doesnt work.I know she is going to try anything to make it look good.When its dry,its thin,and frizzy.I just feel so bad me and my mom talked to her doctor,they did some tests and everything was fine she isnt looseing any vitamins,does anyone know how we can fix this problem and what to do,and hair growing products or maybe even anything she can take to get thicker hair? and i mean...really thicker hair??

I would feel bad for her too !!! She can get extensions, but i dont think anything else will work !!!
GOOD LUCK
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I masterbate alot how can i chill out on doin it cause i do it alot

Dont think about sex... lol
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GOOD LUCK WITH THAT
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Hi, I have this friend, lets call her Taylor. Well, Taylor is really annoying. We went to the fair last night. ( 4 peoples ) We I wanted to spend time with a friend I rarely see. Taylor got really mad. I don't really know why though. Well, I try to cheer people up when the get mad at me telling jokes, buying them junk, ect. Well we have had many fights. I don't really like Taylor that much anymore. I am trying to break away from he but whenever I try she pulls me in closer. I am getting tired of this. It is like she is living off me. Also she has zero respect for anybody, her mom, me, rules, friends, even little chilren. I don't know what to do anymore. I think my PMS is getting to me. I don't really know.

- Breaking Away

Tell her exactly what you told me!! Tell her you need a little break. She might get mad but it'll be worth it !!

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im 17 and im a gurl! well me and my boyfriend have been together for alittle over 2 months..and i really love him and he loves me. I want to be intimate with him but im not sure if im ready. he is the most caring boyfriend and he is so sweet and he said he'll wait until im ready. well im not sure if i should wait longer or not like what should i do? im a virgin so should i save myself for someone i kno i will be with for along time or think i will be with forever? what should i do?
~not sure~

I think you should wait a while because its only been 2 months.
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