about

advice

foshizzle my nizzle ok so i like dis girl and she likes dis other guy and i have liked her since like THE LAST ICEAGE ok AND I REALLY LIKE her ok and i wanted to know some tips on impressing a girl gotcha and i'm assuming you have good answers cause i don't come here just for nothing

well i'm a girl so let her know you like her. find out if she likes you. if she does get to know her better and talk to her. girls love it when guys they like give them attention. when you feel like you have a strong bond then ask her out. you dont have to wear hella bling and be another balla to impress her. just be yourself(unless you dress/act like steve urkel).

good luck

[view]

I wnet out with this guy for a year and a day to be exact then i broke up with him because hes much older than i and i like this kid in my grade.. How long before i should date agian?
i was thinkin 4 months?

--13/f--

there shouldn't be an exact time for when you should date again. if you like this kid and he likes you then you should go out with him. you don't have to wait 4 months cause that's a long time and feelings could go. personally i would date whenever a guy i liked asked me out even if i just broke up with my boyfriend. but you should at least wait a couple of days after the break up.


good luck.

[view]

hii. i think i am fat i weigh 141 and i dont like the way i look so im thinking about becoming anerixic for just a few weeks to shed some pounds. But i heard it can be dangerous

you cant beomce anorexic for a few weeks because after the few weeks it will become permanent and you can get really sick. just try exercising and eating right. this may take a while for you to lose the amount of weight you want but its so much safer and you'd father be chubby then be dead.


good luck
make the right choice
x0 0x

[view]

ok well I was the one who broke up with my bf, and its been three days and hes ready to ask out another girl! we went out for a month and a half! i mean im only 13/f but still... does anyone else think its weird? i mean im really hurt... what should i do?

hey i had the same problem but it wasnt 3 days later it was the same day! and now he wants to get back with me. so maybe hes just trying to get over you by going out with someone else or trying to make you jealous. if he really didn't have feelings for you he would have broke up with you first.

GooD LuCkk
x0 0x

[view]

Whats the difference between 'making love' and having sex?? thanks..

making love is when you're having sex with someone you love and care about and it's meaningful. having sex is like just having sex


.

[view]

im 13 and a girl and this year i actually feel ready for sex. is that normal at this age? is there something wrong with me? i know a guy that is willing to have sex with me, should i have sex? if i do should i tell my parents?
**sexy_gal_1992**

hey girl
yes its normal for you to feel ready for sex but i think you're too young. when you're older you'll realize that is was a mistake because you're just caught up in your hormones. if you do decide to have sex you have to tell your parents. there's always a chance of you getting pregnant or std's.


hOpE i HelPed
nd good luck
x0 0x

[view]

In my Math class(7th period;last period), I sit in a table of 5 people(including me). There's only 2 girls (including me..) and 3 guys. I usually talk to the guys. But anyways. In the math classroom the teachers have phones that the school can get it touch with the teachers and stuff since the school is so big. But somehow i got the number and me and then 2 guys just call the phone and let it ring and as soon as he answers, we hang up! Lol =). And this is during class,too.With our cell phones. I know its stupid and immature but its soo funny because our teacher just gets soo mad.
I told my sister this and she started laughing. But then shes saying how i should stop because my number can come in the bill because the school gets a bill and they could call up the number(my number) and if they find out its a student then i could get in trouble. Can i really? And will blocking my number be any different? Those are the only 2 questions i have. So thanks!

well if your number does show up they wouldnt know it you unless you answer and say your name and there has to be more than one girl with your name. blocking your number will help because they cant find blocked numbers. good luck!!!

[view]

okk my friend likes this guy. `nd i know for a fact he doesnt like her. me `nd him hung out the other night `nd she called me. `nd shes like oh hes wit u let me talk to him .. so she was talkin `nd stuff .. `nd he got off `nd he was all like "why did u make me talk to her shes so fuckin annoying", then he was goin on about that for a while.
`nd i kinda like him too .. but my friend would get mad at me but he doenst like her .. `nd shes like the kinda girl who juss gets over guys really quick .. but i dont know what to do .. b/c he doesnt like her .. `nd theres chance he might like me .. i juss dont know

omg i have the same problem. if he likes you nd you like him back just go for it, like you sed she gets over guys quickly so she wouldnt be that upset. if he doesn't like her then there's nothing you can do to change that, just do what you want because even if she stops talking to you it wont be for long.


hOpE i HeLpEd
x0....0x

[view]

What do you guys think is the appropriate age and/or grade to start wearing mini skirts? Also, do tall girls with long legs look good in mini skirts? Thanks!

i think maybe 12 is a good age to start wearin mini skirts. nad yes tall girls with long legs look good in mini skirts cuz models are tall and have long legs so yeah

[view]

A guy came into my work the other day wearing a shirt that said "FUCO - For Us Crackers Only." I have a good friend that wears FUBU all the time, so it made me laugh, but I was too busy to ask him where he got it. Now I really want one for my husband, but I can't find it. I tried Google, but I didn't have any luck. Has anyone seen a shirt like this anywhere?

fubu is a brand name. so you can check department stores.

or go to www.fubu.com



good luck

[view]

I need links to websites where you can shop online.
If they ship internationally then that's fantastic but if not, post them anyway.

I'm in the middle of making a list of online stores to make things quicker for myself and other people and I need more sites.
Any sites you can think off, you don't have to check where they ship, I do all that.

They can be
Accesories (Purses, jewelery, etc), Clothing, Shoes, Plus Sizes (yes, plus sizes has it's own category but only because someone requested it) and beauty products (including hair cair, make-up, etc)

My current link count issss:
Accesories: 11
Clothing: 68
Plus Sizes: 6
Shoes: 9
Beauty Products: 11

gojane.com
hotfash.com
drjays.com
babyphat.conm


i use these when i write stories online and want to show what the characters are wearing.

so good luck
please rate

[view]

what does prude mean?

it means you're afraid to do anything with the oppossite sex. like kiss and have sex

hope i helped
rate please

[view]

My friend is throwing a party and invited my crush. The thing is my friend said that I have to tell my crush by the end of the party that I like him or she will. I know I have to tell him I just don't want to deal with the potential heartbreak right now. Should I talk to my friend and hopefully convince her not to do it or just tell my crush? Oh and if I tell him his ex is probably gonna be close by since she's invited too... I rate high for good advice! Thanks!

hmm well if you dont want to tell him and you want to know if he likes you back you can get one of your friends to ask him if he likes you and if he says yes then you can go and start flirting and stuff without saying you like him and see where it goes from there. good luck. please rate.

[view]

what are some really good, smudge proof, long lasting black eyeliners?

and what is a good mascara that you can layer and it gets like clumpy and cakey? i like that look.

and what are some tips for putting eyeliner on tje upper eyelid? i've never done it before.

and one more question, is liquid eyeliner really worth the hassle, and if so could you give me some good ones?

thanks. i rate 5's

PRESTIGE is a really good eyeliner that you can find at cvs. its waterproof. i dont know about the mascara. i put eyeliner on my upper eyelid so my advice is buy a really soft eyeliner like prestige and put a thin layer (dont make it thick because then it looks really bad.) at the top and some on the bottom eyelid because if you only put it at the top it looks weird. liquid eyeliner isnt worth the hassle, i dont use it because i cant use it, i always mess up and if you do know how to use it you cant open your eyes until it dries otherwise it will smudge.

good luck
please rate
peace

[view]

does anyone know any good kinds of eyeliner for like oily eyes because when i put on eyeliner, it usually comes off

ps no liquid eyeliner, not very expensive and an eyeliner that i can get basically anywhere! thanks

i use PRESTIGE. its water proof and its really good because the ones i use to use came off too. you can find this at cvs.

[view]

anyone with curly hair!.& has had it relaxed, what is a really good relaxer, that can make my hair straightest? i used something called optimum...? thats all i remember. and one of my friends said one called "pink" or something worked really good. but im not sure. help! ♥/

i get my hair relaxed at the salon i use to use the ones you can buy at the store and "pink" is really good. are u black? im not being racist because i am half black so i have almost the same hair so you can trust me lol.

good luck
please rate

[view]

ok I have a pool and i go swimming like everyday but my hair is getting very damaged from it. Like I take a shower but my hair just look damaged in a way I can't describe its just not silky. Its kind of like it looks scragly and unbrushed. I don't want to stop swimming.

Does anyone know any products or things I could do to make my hair healthy again. Please help I rate high!

i kind of have the same problem because i have been using relaxers since i was in second grade so my hair is very dry and stuff any way there is somthing called EMERGENCEE Strengthening Polymeric Reconstructor. it cost $30 from a salon. its very very good. you have to leave it in your hair for ten minutes. or another got thing is hair oil. i also use that and it makes my hair shiny and healthy. gOOd luck and please rate...!

[view]

ok this might be long but i really need advice
ok this summer i went to an over night camp for about 5 weeks and i hooked up with a guy that is 3 years older then me. we kissed and held hands and sometimes he would touch my breasts and my ass and put his hand down my pants But one night it went a little to far and we had sex then the next day he broke up with me then he left to go back to his home and i was still @ camp Then all the guys at camp were asking me outa nd stuff and it made me feel special but then this one guy asked me out lets call him bob. I really like bob alot so i went out with him and stuff then one thing led to another and stuff and we had sex and it was so good but that was my last week at camp so i went home me and all my friends always hung out @ this ark down the street from me and stuff And then ppl started asking me if i wanted to come over to their house for the night and this kid that hangs out with us letrs call him dan started to grab my but and my breasts then they all come over to my hosue and everyone left exept dan and he came one to me and started to un zip my pants and shit and i ened up giving a blowjob...then 2 nights ago i slept over my friends house because my parents were gone for a night and they didn't trust me so i was in the guestroom and i guess it was about 2am and her older brother came into my room only in his boxers and i was just in my see thru thong with no shirt on and he started dto kiss me and touch me and said take off my thong and i did *because her brother is hott) and then we had sex it was the best! and then the next morning he came into the shower with me and we had sex agian and then he told everyone and now im called a Slut but im not really Am I? and boys touch my ass and breast and try to put there hands down my pants but i don't know...if i am a slut pllz give me ways that i can not become a slut. Thanx

well you shouldnt have sex with boys that easily, i mean you should at least wait til you're going out a while because if you dont they will take advantage of you. good luck please rate.

[view]

i live in tampa florida and i am getting a limo for my birthday which is this coming weekend. my question is what are some fun places it could take us or some fun things to do? thanks!

hmm to the beach, mall, amusement park

HappY BDay

[view]

is it ok to shave next to your belly and your lower back?

i do and nothing happens. it actually takes longer to grow back and it looks like i didnt shave it.

[view]

<<< Previous Advice Column
Next Advice Column >>>
humorist-workshop
eXTReMe Tracker