OK ive been going out with my bf for a week so far but I'm still kinda nervous around him cuz I like him so much. I want to surprise him and kiss him in like an empty hall tomorrow when we're walking together to show him that I really like him but I need like a game plan here lol can anyone help me out ? Thanks so much!
aww..how sweet. you should never be nervous around your boyfriend. just surprise him and kiss him! you would take a lot of stress off his shoulders prolly. it will be more comfortable for you AND him from now if you go first. maybe he is thinking about it too. just go ahead and do it. i kissed my boyfriend first and he loved it! lol good luck! *Bethers*
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me 15 boyfriend 17
ok..well i cheated on my boyfreind twice..n he says he loves me alot n i belive him n i really care for him alot...i jst don't know y i did it! but i talked to him tonite about it n he said if i ever cheated on him hed dumb me...so it was jst a plan out emotional convo...n i told him he shouldn't love me cuz i think i might mess up n cheat on him...cuz thats wat happened w/ the last guy that meant alot to me...well i'm scared that i'm goind to cheat on him n i don't want that to happen...but then i don't want to lose him cuz i really love him alot...wat should i do?
just dont do anything you wouldnt want him to do!!! that helps me a lot! (Me-15 Boyfriend- almost 19) try it. *Bethers*
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Just out of curiosity, what does "hooking up" mean to you? It seems to mean something different for everybody...
to me, hook up means dating, being together, going out..and all that other junk..*Bethers*
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I really like this guy lets call Him "gabe" well Ok I met him like 3 days ago well OK I met him like 6 weeks ago but we never really noticed eachother till now. well when I met him we were at a party type thing and He drove me and my friend home But he ended up staying over at her house with us and me and him were talking and stuff then all of a sudden we were holding hands next thing U know were making out and kissing and everything else at school he doesnt ignore Which is kewl U know he even kisses me and everyones like "oh you and Gabe are so cute together" Even though were not going out at all but Hes 18 and IM 14 is it wrong
omg. no that is totally not wrong. i was in fact 14 when me and my boyfriend started going out. he was 18 too. (im 15 now) i knew of him, but i really got to know him one weekend in town and the rest was history. we started hugging and everything like that too in the halls. he came over like everyday. and then one day just out of the blue,(after about 2 weeks of talking) he asked me to go outside with him for a minute. he said i know it hasnt been that long, but i really like you and want to be with you. i was so excited. so maybe the same will happen with you! good luck! Keep Me Updated! *Bethers*
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i need a homecoming date and all these girls wanna go with me but i dont no who to take. i like them all but none more then the other. i dont wanna make ne of them feel bad. wuts a good way to pick the right one?
spend some one on one time with them. just figure out who you would rather be with. i know it sounds hard, but u gotta do sumthin. just tell the other girls that they shouldve asked you earlier and you wouldve went with them. no sweat. they'll believe you. lol good luck. *Bethers*
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ok guyZ* I like this guy but I dont really know if he is like into me. He is always like sayin funny things and he is always around me. My friends think he likes me and at the football games he always tells me that I look "cute". and at homecomming he said I was really hott. Some think it's weird that we are going out some times because we are always givin each other piggy back rides and jumping on each other. Mostly I am just askin how do I find out if he likes me or what you think, and if he does what do I do to show him I like him but not obvious or n e thing. I really need help on this one so please just answer me and I rate high. Thanks a Ton!
*Me*
just flirt with him a lot. ask him to hang out one day after school or work or whatever. if he digs it, he may like you. you'll know. good luck! *Bethers*
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my parents don't like my boyfriend..because i went out with him before and he treated me pretty bad..but i really think he has changed but i don't know if my parents think that or not! what can i do to make them gain trust back in him? because if they don't trust him that means i don't get to see him as often?
i rate super high!
omg! i am in the exact SAME situation. my parents are NOT forgiving him. and i dont know, but they are just being stubborned about it! i have to sneak anround and see mine. good luck gurl. keep me updated! *Bethers*
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Hey guys....
I'm kind of really sad right now....Since my girl friend and I have been going out (8 months) she has promised me time after time that she doesn't pleasure/finger herself. In fact when I used to say Krysta I think you do she would get so mad and say shes not like that and she really doesn't.
Last night I was going through her email, and she had signed up for www.loveforum.net. The user name that was in that email was never activated so I didn't think about it again until I asked her why she signed up.
On first off she said she NEVER heard of the site and her brother probably did it, or maybe she did it awhile ago and forgot about it. I took that and accidently clicked on a link called 'Pleasure for girls' in the Sex Talk forum. The user name was PhillyChick847, which is what she goes by sometimes.
She was asking for advice on how to give herself pleasure, and hide it from me. She said she does it 3 times a week in the forum when she told me she NEVER has ever done it.
She denyed that she typed that and said there is more than one phillychick online, I took that! Then just for myself, I tried to login with my name as the password and it WORKED! After me telling her I would dump her on the spot if she didn't admitt it she admitted it.
She was so upset that she cut herself...I was really upset because I can't believe she would go behind my back and do this....its almost UNBELIEVEABLE. She told me she loved me sooo much and she was sorry...she said she just did it because it felt so good when I did it to her.
She still said she doesn't do it that often, but she can't explain why she typed that. Heres the link to the post: http://www.loveforum.net/showthread.php?t=3965
She made 3 posts and they ALL disturbed me ALOT.
I threw up like 4 times last night, I can't belive she would do this....I'm so upset...I mean maybe if she didn't lie to me it wouldn't be such a big deal. The thing that even disturbs me more is on the time stapms right after I walked her home from the bus stop she went in and did this...and shes really interested in finding more ways...I think the damage to my head is already done.
I still LOVE her so much but I don't know if I want to be with her....she can say shes not going to do it again but no one can stop once they do it, especially if she does it that much...I really do LOVE her but I don't know what to do...That really disturbed me ALOT! can everyone please help me?
Should I break up with her...please help guys...please....
Thanks in advance
Dave
she is just shy and ya know "secretive" about her sexuality. if i was you, i would def. not be mad at her! DONT DUMP HER! just talk things out with her and tell her you understand why she didnt want you to know. and for another thing, you should respect her privacy and not log into all her stuff! she might just be the one to dump you if your not careful. but good luck anyways. Keep Me Updated and i will check out the site. *Bethers*
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my best friend's mom hates me! last night she listened into our convo on the phone then ally (bff) called back and told me that we weren't allowed to be friends anymore then her mom told me that she listened and didn't appreciate what i said about her(i don't like her) and she hung up. i started crying really hard for like five minutes, then ally called back again and said that her mom said that she crossed theline by listening in and that we could be friends as long as i don't go over to ally's house. it makes me feel better, but i still can't get it out of my head. i still want to be friends with her, but i don't want to deal with her mom. what should i do??!?!?!?!?!?!?
the thing i would do is never talk about your best friends mom. how do you think that makes your best friend feel? umm..the 2nd thing i would do is go talk to her mom. i mean come on. who wants to be talked about. if i was her mom i wouldnt let you be friends with my kid either. sorry, but thats just immature to talk about other folks. especially when they are their PARENTS. go talk to her MoM! *Bethers*
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13/f
yesterday, i was talking to the guy i like on AIM, and i opened up to him imeadiatly.I had his screen name for monthes but felt afraid to IM him.Then out of the blue he IMs me.we talked like we knew each other for years.hes going out with a girl who doesnt even lik him, she just asked him out for fun.He said he wasnt sure about asking me out for 2 years,but when she asked him out he said yes.i think i made the mistake of not asking him out, or should i wait till we become better frineds? We have warmed up online but not in real life. im sorry this is so long. i rate high*
gurl if she dont like him, then ask him to hang out after school one day or on the weekends. she is prolly cheating on him and god knows what else! just dont worry about her. focus on the guy! keep me updated and good luck. *Bethers*
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okay, yesterday nyte i went skating with a hole gruop of friends , and this kidd adam started to talk to me abotu basketball and stuff.. .then i sat down and he asked if he could sit next to me so i said yes . . then i started sakting with my friends and he would foloew me . .then i would sit down and then my friend kerri would sit down next to me and he would tell her to get up and stuff. . so she got up . . then there were 5 cuople skates and i was like i will be sittin herr and stuff and adam said will u skate with me nicole and i was like umm why ? and he was like cuz and i said u have a gurlfriend and he was like cum on and i wa slike okay fine so we skated together holding hands. and while we were sitting he kept putting his arm around me and stuff and everyone tells me he really relaly likes me a lot and stuff then we went dancin and i was dancin and he kept cumin up behind me and dtrying to grind with me and stuff and he kept touching my ass and stuff. . . does he like me or is he jsut playing aroudn with me or just using me ?? help please dont dealte !!!!!!!
oh yea..he def. likes you! hes not even thinkin about his gurl. you should def. flirt back~ go get em! Keep Me Updated! *Bethers*
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one of my very good friends has liked my boyfriend since before him and we knew each other. She dated him and everything, but he doesn't like her anymore. AFter telling me i could date him, which i've wanted to for two years, she is obsessing over him and telling all of my friends that she loves him and can't stand seeing him with me. She is telling me that he is cheating on me but i don't know whether to believe her. All of my friends say i should date him because my friend likes three other guys too. What should i do? Help!!!
hunny, you should go with him. there is no sign that you and this "guy" will be together forever. if she likes him "SO" much as she says she does, she wouldnt like 3 other guys. so dont worry about your friend there. go with the guy! good luck! Keep Me Updated! *Bethers*
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I met a great guy. He is so sweet and made me smile everytime he said something...but there is always a catch isn't there!! A few days later he told me he liked this girl as if he had NO CLUE I liked him..sooo..what's the deal here? Should I just lay off and not talk to him now that he is with this girl?
he is prolly just telling you that to see how you react and see how jealous you would get. i think that if he knows you got mad, he would feel good because he knows you like him. just keep flirting! keep me updated *Bethers*
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Ok, I'm 14/f
And there is this guy at my church. He is soo funny and he's a really good Christian, which is very important for me, and he has an awesome personality and is very fun to be around. The only problem is, he is really small. He is like 1/2 a foot shorter than me and weighs about 30 lbs less. Beside all this, I really like him a lot because of the inside, which is really what counts, but I'm afraid of what my friends would say if we dated. Because well, I've been known for going for the good-looking guys. So what should I do?
well..my boyfriend is like 1 inch taller than me, so i "cannot" wear high heels.so i know how you feel there, but i aint worried about what anybody else thinks. sum say we are cute together, sum say i can do better, and sum say he can do better than me. everybody cannot be satisfied with who you are with, but its what you think and feel that counts. if you like him, go for it! have fun! Keep Me Updated! *Bethers*
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i like two guys. one guy im really good friends with. hes really smart and funny, and hes not really really popular. i mean i guess hes a little bit but not really. im not popular, but im not a loser. im just the average girl. the other guy i like is extremely popular. i could never get him though, so back to the other guy. i really want him to like me, and he doesnt like all the slutty girls. he thinks im really pretty and funny, but i want him to LIKE me. i weigh 135, im 5'3, brown hair with green eyes..any thing i could do to make him like me more? i rate!!
One Word: FLIRT! Keep Me Updated! *Bethers*
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My Bf is really shy around me..if I try to talk to him or something he just kind gives me a thumbs up..i don't know if he just to shy to say something back or hes just doesn't care..I like him alot!! What do I do?
honey. if he really likes/loves you he would be anything but shy! maybe u just have to be exciting with him? try to liven him up! *Bethers*
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my best friend and her BF recently broke up..she finnaly got another bf..but i don't think she likes him neather does anyone eles..he really likes her ..i don't want him to get hurt..i can't tell her that i don't think she likes him..because she would get really mad and i don't want that..what do i do?
-does she like him?
well, its her relationship and i would not interfere with them because you could mess up a lot of things. who knows? maybe she does like him, maybe she dont? just let her do this by herself so you wont screw up anything and you wont be blamed for anything that happens! *Bethers*
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ok me and my gf r goin on 3 months........thas my longest relationship and shes the first person ive eva said i love u to and.....she talks bout her ex bf ALOT it seems like every convo we have is bout him.....and then when we r around each other she neva wants to get close i have to sit next to her and kiss her and stuff like tha.......n e ways this had happened a couple times and i need sum opinions......should i break up w/ her or wait it out and see wut happens.....i dont know wut to do...i still love her but it hurts when she talks bout her ex and ive asked her to stop but she doesnt.....n e ones opinion helps.......thanx
i would ask her if she still had a thing for her ex. i would ask her who broke up with who. i would also say "look, your with me now, you dont need him anymore, you should be talking like that about me." and if she dont stop, i suggest that you just get over her. but i mean, i would try to talk it out with her..but if it dont work it just dont work. sorry.but good luck on makin her stop! Keep Me Updatded *Bethers*
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Okay, I'm a freshman and there's this junior in my spanish class. Well, I always catch him looking at me, like all the time. And he's REALLY cute. But he has a girlfriend, I'm just wondering.. but what do you think about this? His smile like melts me, and i'm just wondering if there's something there.
guys look at girls even if they have a boyfriend, he prolly has his eye on you. if you flirt with him, then he might just break up with his woman for you! never know! go get em! keep me updated! *Bethers*
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ok...well i have this kinda thing for piercings, i have my ears pierced of course, my belly button, my nose...well i took that out and i did have my eyebrow! well i really really want my tongue pierced! my mom wont let me get well 1 because im too young and also my brother had his done and it really messed up his teeth but anywayz i was just wondering if you knew how i should do it or w/e alrighty thanx!!
hey. i have my ears and my belly and i want my nose and my eyebrow done too. but ive ALWAYS wanted my tounge pierced, but my boyfriend hates them because he said that he knows what goes through every guys mind when they see a girl with their tounge pierced. he says that they think they are a dick sucker and a slut. he said he would get really pissed off at me if i did it. i told him that i wouldnt get one because he didnt want me too, but its all up to you, whether you get yours done or not. if it will make your mom mad, i would try to talk to her about it first. and then if she still dont want you too, then i dont know what to tell ya..lol..just make your own decision! good luck! Keep Me Updated *Bethers*
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