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cheating
me 15 boyfriend 17
ok..well i cheated on my boyfreind twice..n he says he loves me alot n i belive him n i really care for him alot...i jst don't know y i did it! but i talked to him tonite about it n he said if i ever cheated on him hed dumb me...so it was jst a plan out emotional convo...n i told him he shouldn't love me cuz i think i might mess up n cheat on him...cuz thats wat happened w/ the last guy that meant alot to me...well i'm scared that i'm goind to cheat on him n i don't want that to happen...but then i don't want to lose him cuz i really love him alot...wat should i do?
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you should tell him that you hvae cheated and that you still want to be with him to work things out. When you are thinking about cheating on him the next time like you say then just think about how bad you hurt him or will hurt him. and think f how you said you dont want to lose him. if you care for him as much as you put out to then you wont have no worries saying no to the other person you are cheating on him with.
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you should tell him that you cheated, but that you still want to be with him
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The guys your cheating on him with, do they really mean anything to you? When your with another guy just think about what your boyfriend would think if he was watching you. If you cared for your boyfriend as much as you say, which seems like alot then you wouldnt cheat on him.
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First of all, I'd like to congratulate you on being honest about cheating, it's takes a big person to do somthing like that. But now to the bad news. That's not coo, you know that if it was vice-versa you'd have a fit, and would prolly wanna dump him....so you need to let him know what your doing, and let him decide for himself what he wants to do, and if your lucky enough, he could possibly take you back. Hope this somewhat helps! God Bless, Beebyes!
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It sounds like maybe you're afraid of either commitment or afraid of things getting serious.Like,when things start to get real serious in your relationships you get scared and run.But it's not fair to get into relationships when you know that there's a good chance you'll stray.Maybe you'd be better off to stay single for a while,and see how you feel after some time of being a single girl.You're still so young and you've got lots of chances and experiences ahead of you.But if you think that you really love this guy and you wanna make it work then you need to decide in both your heart and your mind that he's the only one you want.I think that's the problem now,your heart and mind aren't 100% into this relationship.It doesn't mean there's anything wrong with you,you're just young and not ready to settle down yet!!And that's normal!! I'm sorry this wasn't much help!Best wishes! :)
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ok if u love him a lot and u dont wanna lose u.. and if a guy trys to kiss you.. and u do it back.. and then it means u dont really have true feelings for ur man sorry.. 2 sayz.. but if a guy does a move to ya.. and u do nothing.. so yeah that means.. u truely love ur bf.. i hope dat i helped aight! LoVe NiCoLe!!!
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you need to let yourself kno that if he means soo much to you any other guy shouldnt matter only the one you love...he should be your only guy so juss try and focus on him and when you get "tempted" just try and remind yourself that you love him too much to hurt him..
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just dont do anything you wouldnt want him to do!!! that helps me a lot! (Me-15 Boyfriend- almost 19) try it. *Bethers*
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