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my dad has myspace blocked on netgear... and my boyfriends ex just wrote me, i wanna read it,liiike now. and i don't know how to get past it. does anyone else know any sites or anything to get past it??? please and thank you.

i dont know any sites but why not go to a enternet cafe!

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ok my friend likes these 2 guys can she CANT pick who to choose so would u please help me. 1 man is evan- whos 2 years younger, hes a cutie and he asked her out twice and she denined him and wishes she didnt and ever since then she loved him for like a year but hes in florida now but hes coming back in middle of july. the only thing is she hasnt seen him in a year and she doesnt kno if he likes her. ok next guy is kevin- who just met her and hes in LOVE with her and obsessed. he cares about her alot and hes a year older. hes a cutie and they just started hanging out. shes torn between both of them and i doesnt know what to do. please help! any advice!? ill love you forever

you have one question you must answer yourself like..

- who do you see most?

it is important that you are close by to them so you won't be missing out in a chance to see him.

you say this evan guy is younger than you .. by 2 YEARS!! well i think it would be better going out with someone wither the same age or a year or 2 older.. but this kevin guy whose older seems alot more caring.

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There is this quy from work who without any doupt in my mind is attracted to me and has deep feelings for me. The problem is he hasn't asked me out. Sometimes i get the feeling that he does really like me as more than a friend but other times he acts more like just a friend. Some days he's very attentive and caring and other days he's indifferent. By his body language, eye contact, and the way his friend from work treats me i know he's crazy about me. So why then hasn't he asked me out? Do you think he's waiting for me to make the first move?

maybe he knows that you know that he likes you
-- if you just got that--

he may be wanting you to ask him out ... he might see it the other way --as in everything you just explained may of been what he see's you doing to him so he does it back ...

i think he is waiting for you to make the first move...

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i know this is a weird question to ask, but how do you know if a guy is using you?

like what are some signs to know?

guys/girls can answer, but i really would like some help! thanks! anything is appreciated!=)

umm yerr well he doesn't sound like he is cheating on you at all and he does know how to communicate he may be busy ... kk :)
i think you need to talk to him about it if you are worried and are unsure but make sure you say it smartly ok
thnx for your feedback

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I really like my best friend Jacey's boyfriend, Tom, So what do I do?

i think you should find a way to get over him .. other than that im not completely sure i will think it about it and get back to you ..

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ugh i have so much eyeliner and it wont juss stick to my eye....does anyone know a good brand of eyeliner?

you could maybe try liquid eyeliner as it works on anybody but you have to be careful is doesn't acutally touch your eye because liquid eyeliner is very delicate when you put it on..
i have used it before and you have to be careful how you use it!


good luck

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My friend sleeps around. Now people think I do. How do I fix my reputation and help my friend?

you could say to people --just because she "sleeps" around with people doesn't mean i do--

and if you are not happy about your friend sleeping around maybe you should say thats not right and it's just leading the boys on because they will start to like her and get a interest in her and she will nagged and she will be leading all these boys on and it's not fair!!

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My boyfriend wants to have sex. I don't want to lose him. What should I do?

you should maybe talk to him about it because your not ready for sex and you shouldn't have it just because he wants to and he should understand beucase other wise he wouldn't be a very good boyfriend to you and if he is going to break up with you for that you have to think...
does he want love or sex?

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i did an answer.. ive been bi sexual now for like 9 months .. i dated a girl for 7 months and now im with a new one.. but is this just a phase or not.. hoe do i know.. does anyone know.. can anyone help.. please.. thanks!!!

if it was a phase it probably would be over by now..if it were a phase you probably would of recognised it by now !

it's the matter of questions if you want to be bi or not..

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im a 17 year old female and im dating this girl and i really liked her .. i have for a long time.. i asked her out twice but ashe turned me down.. now she asked me out na di said yes.. it has been two weeks sice we started dating but i hate talkin on the phone with her.. caus eit gets so boring you know.. but i love hanging with her and holding her im my arms.. why do i get bored on the phone?

you probably get bord talking on the phone because you would rather talk in person and interact with her so you can actully express yourselfs and get into a deep conversation instead of just talking on phone ....

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About how much are hair extensions?
and which are better, like the peices of ones or the ones that go around your whole head?
thanksss

i'm not sure how much they are i think it varies to what you get but ...i think it might be easier if you get the one that goes around your head.

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alcohol?
why do so many people drink it. i've tried it && i hate it alot. do people just not like it and drink it anyways or do they actually like it?
jusst wonderrring :) thankss for readingg

people like it ...
for me ..i HATE wine but i will drink other types of alcahol...
when people start to drink alcahol it is when they are mature enough to drink it sensibily ...like some people just drink and get wasted just to look cool and tell there friends about..

but it is totally normal for kids to like alcohol even if there not aloud to buy it in stores!

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My best friend (D) told me not to long ago that she had sex when she was 12, now shes 14. I was shocked and disgusted too, because people always thought she was a whore. My other best friend told me that D told her that it happened more than once. Once in the bed, once in the shower, once on the beach, and once somewhere else, and a couple other times. This was all with her boyfriend (M). M died last year, and he was only 13. Anyway, she didn't tell me it happened all those times,because she knew I'd be even more disapointed I guess. When D told me about the first time, I told her I had lost respect for her. I think she is a whore. One time in class we were counting all the guys she dated, and I was naming random names and she would be like Yup. The total was 17. D turned 14 a few months ago. Would you agree that D is a whore? Also, would it be wrong to stop talking to her, because of that.

yess she may be a whore i mean having sex at 12??? that is a bit too young to be having sex...
but not talking to her is a bit much .. i have many friends that have had sex at 12 or 13 and im not TOO happy about it ...but i just forget i never heard it and get on with life... we can't get mad over our friends mistakes because it's none of our buisness what she does with her love life..

you can be concerned about the really bad things she does in her life ...

but her LOVE LIFE is hers and no can interfear with that ..

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i can't take life. i honestly can't. every morning when i wake up i'll try to think of something good that might happen today, but the truth is it's just another damn day. where i'm still my miserable and lonely self. everything in life is too disappointing. I don't have friends or a boyfriend, well i used to have a "friend" but she always tried really hard to make me feel worse about myself. Just now she even asked my "why?" when after she said that guys stare at her 24/7 and I told her they do the same to me. She's such a hurtful bitch.

Every time i have a date set up w/ someone who is interested in me, HE BREAKS THE FREAKING DATE. So all my relationships end before they really begin. See it's just my luck.


I want to commit suicide but I can't because I'm afraid of the pain.

Please don't say anything like "Oh everyone feels this way sometimes." because i feel this way ALL the time. all the god damn time.


people ignore/exclude me whenever they can. i don't even do anything bad/mean.


and also please don't say "oh honey everything's gonna be okay things will get better!"


because i've already heard that too much.


therapists/counselors don't help me. i've seen too many of them. can i be put to sleep or something? like a dog? is that possible?


what can i do to take life? i just want to die so badly. don't say anything like "oh just pray about everything and it'll be okay." I'm not a christian and i never will be again. i'm agnostic because it's the only true religion.

it's not like i've had any horrible tragedies or anything, but i still am just as miserable as anyone who has had them!


god i want to die. help.

ok...i think you should join a club of som sort so that you can interact with people and make friends with people. People will start to notice you if you get out there atalk to people and join clubs and things like that. One way of meeting a new boyfriend is joining a club or just going down to the beach and talk to some one where there is only you and a couple of other random people .. ok .... you need to find something to join ..!!

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14/girl

I am going out with this guy and one of my closest friends just told me he cheated on me. I talked to him about it and he admitted to it, but he keeps trying to make excuses for it, and it was with this girl who he hooked up with before we were going out. He said it was over, but obviously its not. He also only apologized once, which makes me think he does not regret it. I really have no clue what to do about this, and any advice is really greatly appreciated.

hey there...
ok so your boyfriend has cheated on you .. that is wrong and no girl likes it when that happenes.
he has apologized once ....thats very poor if he wants you back and he'z not trying hard. i suggest you don;t bother with him because its a chance he WILL cheat on you again and hurt your feelings again.

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Hi! So I just got a new comp and I wanted to know everyone's opinion of limewire or kazaa or share files with others...do they come with viruses? What are your experiences with that? Should I download it..and if so, which one?

hey
i have hd limewire for a long time and it doesn't come with any viruses or anything i suggest you download limewire.

www.limewire.com
--download from here

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alright well theres this one guy and hes always saying stuff like well: i was singing shake that by eminem(one of my favs)and i got to the part where it goes "go ahead shake ure butt!" and he goes you can shake ure butt for me and then i just laughed and hes like "i love lap dances" and then i was like "oh really?" and then hes like "hmm but you would probably want something in return" and i was like "what do you have on ure mind?" and hes like "ohh youll see" then he winked: is he being serious? joking around?
im really confused!

ok guys tend to do this alot ...
they ask for something then they think youll want something in return ....
he's not looking fora relleationship he's just looking fora one night stand!

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15-f: well ive been dating a guy for 4 months and my parents are divorced...My mom says that i cannot hangout with him outside of school unless he comes over and "has dinner with us" an she meets his parents as well. My dad told me that unless he's "putting a ring on my finger" then he doesnt have to meet him like the way my mom wants to. soo thats the only way i see him is on my dad's day's..and im not with him that much. I guess my question here is should u continue seeing him at my dads, or should he finally meet my mom...[ps]my mom and i dont get along at all.

i think he should finally meet your mum..
just have a dinner time where you sit down and talk about yourselfs and then you can to his house for dinner but get you mum to drop you off so his mum and your mum can talk and she may aprove and this will get her off your case about meeting him....

this happened to me but my parents werent divorced ...but only let him meet your mum if you know its going to be long term releationship.

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there is a family i want to baby sit for so i put a flyer in their mailbox but they never responded so should i put a flyer in their mailbox for a mommy's helper.

yes you can but you don't want to irratate them into the job. they might have job interviews up.

why not go to there house and ask ?
see what they say .. give it ago

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(15/f)
I have this friend, let's call him "Denis". We've been really good friends for quite some time. People are of divided opinion about us; a third of them think we're brother and sister, another third thinks that we're a cute couple, and the last third wants to kill me for being close to him(sadly, he has a fanclub, which he remains oblivious to).
I've come to realize, about a year or so ago, that I love him. And, I think the feeling could be reciprocated. People have told him to "Stop flirting with (me), and answer my question", causing him to shut up, and if I didn't know better, I would say he was blushing. And sometimes he stares me in the eyes for a long time, goes to say something, but stops before he does. He's a really sweet guy.
The thing is, his parents are divorced. And recently he found out that he is going to move in with his dad. His dad lives on the other side of the country. Three timezones away. I'm at a loss of what to do. Should I tell him how I feel and hope for the best. Risking breaking our friendship if he doesn't feel the same way. Or should I just keep quiet, and just hope that I'll eventually get over him? Key word: eventually.

I appreciate all advice, and thank you in advance.
Sorry about the length, thank you for your time.

hi there..
you have many questions in one problem.

you ask should i tell him how i feel?
- yes you should

is it going to make things awkard?
- you guys are really close and it may be obvious he likes you to .. it will not ruin your releationship ..because he should understand that you like him as u probably spend alot of time together anyway and you know each other from the inside out ..

but as you said he is moving to the other side of the country ...soo yess of course tell him but think about if you would date him as in "is there any poiint?" ...you need to think hard about if there is any point going out with him if he is on the other side of the country.

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