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does he want me to make the first move?
There is this quy from work who without any doupt in my mind is attracted to me and has deep feelings for me. The problem is he hasn't asked me out. Sometimes i get the feeling that he does really like me as more than a friend but other times he acts more like just a friend. Some days he's very attentive and caring and other days he's indifferent. By his body language, eye contact, and the way his friend from work treats me i know he's crazy about me. So why then hasn't he asked me out? Do you think he's waiting for me to make the first move?
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maybe he knows that you know that he likes you
-- if you just got that--
he may be wanting you to ask him out ... he might see it the other way --as in everything you just explained may of been what he see's you doing to him so he does it back ...
i think he is waiting for you to make the first move...
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He might be shy and may be a little nervous about making the first move. He might be scared of what you think if he asked you out and all that. But try asking him if he would go to lunch like the person below said because it really isn't a date. And if he doesn't take it from there it might not be worth it. But good luck with this guy and I hope everything goes well.
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There could be a whole host of reasons. Maybe he's shy. Maybe he has a girlfriend already and feels guilty about being attracted to you. Maybe he's waiting for some kind of "right moment." Maybe he just doesn't think it's smart to ask out someone from work.
I think if you want something to happen, you're going to need to rattle his cage a little. Try asking him to join you for lunch sometime. Lunch is good because it's not really a "date", but it gives you the chance to have a little one-on-one time with him.
If he doesn't ask you out then, he's probably not going to. And if he isn't sufficiently attracted to you to get over whatever's in his way and ask you out, it's probably not worth it.
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