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What there to say about me? I'm 27 and a graduate of UCSD. Throughout my life most of my close friends have been girls so I have a unique perspective on relationships and sex. I know a lot about computers as well as random stuff in general. Feel free to ask me anything and I'll answer it to the best of my knowledge.
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1. My hot spot is on my neck. So if my partner kiss me or sucks on my neck, is it normal for me to get a little wet?

2. Also what is the right way to suck on a guy's neck? (link)
sure its normal

just start off with the way you like to have it done to you, and then go off of his responses.


Hi,

I need to make an energy converter for science by tommorow or I fail. (eg: potential energy to kinetic energy, or chemical energy to electric energy etc.) Can someone please help me?
It doesnt have to be a really detailed model or anything. I would prefer it to be just made out of something i have at home.

Thanks. (link)
bring in food, eat it, then do something funny. chemical into kinetic. its the best you can do on such short notice.


My boyfriend cheated on me during our relationship now he is trying to say that I gave him an STD. I haveonly been with him and had oral sex with another guy, and I don't think I have anything but where can I go and get checked? What all do they do and how much does it usually cost? (link)
You can go to your primary care doctor to ask. I believe planned parenthood also does it. The cost depends on your insurance plan. The thing is though, he might have given it to you, and I dont think its possible to determine when you got it.


My boyfriend and I are going to plan parenthood for birth control tomorrow and we were wondering what to expect. How exactly do you ask for it? Is it free? What do they do?
*we've looked at the website already so please don't just give me their link. (link)
Depending on your financial/parental sitution, it might be free, or you might have to pay a little, usually not full price. You simply go to the secretary and tell them what you need.


how do i use an account on aol that is really old? i guess its expired or something cause i can check email, but i could still use aim. i want that same username so how do i get it back? (link)
if you ever used AIM with the screenname, it SHOULD work. By AIM I mean actual AIM, not the thing thats built into AOL. If you havent, you can try importing the account anyways. There is an option for it when you sign up for an SN with AIM. Also, you could call AOL and see if they can do anything about it, they can usually recover an SN if you sign up for service again, and they do have some kind of free service now.


can i use fafsa grants to pay someone who lend me money for school? (link)
fafsa grants basically send the money directly to the school you are going to, so no. most scholarships you can however.


I took 3 pregnancy tests,1 about a week after the conception.
1 about a week and a half after it ,both we negative.
I thought it was too early,so I waited 25-26 days after conception.
The 3rd test came out negative as well.
I took the test in the middle of the day ,but i made sure i didnt drink much but when i urinated in the cup,i didnt us ALL of it ,i just did a little in the cup and the rest in the toilet.
I did the test correctly,but i wanted to know if it is accurate or atleast an opinion .
Also,one of my nipples is alot bigger than the other one,but it doesnt hurt anymore like it did after about a week of the conception.
I also have a messed up period,and i dont get it regulary every month so that option isnt helpful.
So,honestly do you think I waited long enough and that its accurate enough?
By the way ,im only 14.
Yes i know its very young,please no lectures just help :]
thank you!
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Well if this was the first time you had sex, that could be throwing off your hormones a bit. If you followed directions, I doubt all three are false negatives, you should be fine. Still, if you are really worried, go to planned parenthood and get ad octors test.


does anyone know if it is acually healthier to be a vegitarian? or if it is acually natural? im confused on the topic. (link)
well, i personally believe we were meant to eat both meat and vegetables. it is much easier to get all the nutrients you need that way. vegeterians are often unhealthy because it is difficult. however, those that are healthy, are typically much more healthy than meat eaters.


None of my family ever got a cell phone, yeah we're old fashioned. But I'm going to high school so my dad is getting us a cell phone.

I don't care about all the msn and stuff i just want a phone and maybe if I'm lucky, takes pictures and plays music.

Does anyone have tips since thsi is the first time we ever went shopping for a cell phone?

normal price ranges?

About the contracts and deals for paying, etc?

Thank you so much! (link)
most cell phone companies will give you a free cell phone when you sign up for a 2 year contract. in my experiance, the best company is cingular/att. there is currently a deal for a free camera phone. one that plays music would probably cost a bit. i get 450 anytime minutes and 5000 night and weekend for 39.99 a month.


any tips on bad breath? you wake up one morning and you have bad breath [yeah yeah i know, BRUSH YOU TEETH] but what if someone talks to you when you barely woke up.... omg what are you suppose to do you dont want them semmeliing your stink breath... so yeah


oh any when you webcam yourself is it only gonna show you the picture or its gonna be able to hear you like talk and picture or just picture and need to buy a mic? thanks


srry about thee 2q's im an a hurry (link)
mouthwash, tic tacs, mints, gum

it depends on the webcam, my old one didnt have a mic, and so the person couldnt hear me talk. my new one does.


would a guy be completely grossed out and turned off if he's hooking up with someone, and when he goes to finger her, she's super wet? haha is that normal? mmk thanks so much :] (link)
A stupid guy might be. A normal or better guy would take it as a compliment that the girl is so aroused by him. Its totally normal.


I need a non biasis answer. Is pot actually bad for you? I do not smoke, and I do not believe that I will ever. Someone close to me does and seeing that person high botheres me. To hear them talk about, be around it, or etc. bothers me. I think its wrong.. maybe I think its wrong because its against the law buuut I know its legal in other parts of the world.. so they wouldn't make it legal if it harmed you, would they? I just need some good advice on this... Am i overreacting when bothered about pot? (link)
Pot is less bad for you than a lot of perscription drugs that are legal. Its less bad than alcohol or cigarettes. The main bad thing it does is get you thrown in jail.


Solve for x. Find the angel measures for numbers 14 and 15.


< stands for angle

14. (link)
well in the first one, it looks like AOC is the big one, and it contains AOB and BOC, so AOC=AOB+BOC or 2x+11=x+3+4x-7

in the second one, BOD is the big angle


a month or two ago i asked people what their opinions were on my situation. it was whether i should keep hanging out with dave, the guy i am with. since it is illegal for us to see eachother, we arent really going out, but we like eachother. he lives in boston and i am 5 minutes away so i go there everyday to hangout/sleepover. he is moving back home tomorrow, an hour and a half away from me. i dont know what i am going to do. we want to still talk but we havent really figured anything dominant out. he says he would let me stay at his house (his familys home) on weekends but he doesnt know how is mom would feel about me being 17. im just kind of heart broken and its sad to say, but i wish i never had met him now because i dont know what im going to do when he leaves. any suggestions? thanks =( (link)
An hour and a half isnt that far away. You can still see each other often enough. You might have to deal with not being bale to see each other too often until you turn 18, but after that his mom shouldnt have any problem with it.


does anyone know approximately how much $ ill get from fafsa if my parents range from 25k-35k a year (link)
Well, the cutoff for where it goes down is at about 30k, so it really depends on which side of that you are on. If you are under 30k, your education should be mostly covered. it also depends on other factors, such as where you live, and how much income you yourself have.




The desk top of my PC has disappeared.
It is not hidden as I know how to hide and un-hide the desktop icons.
It has disappeared together with the star button. The monitor remains blank
When putting the PC on it opens automatically with “My Computer”.
Under the control panel menu the start button is not responding. (link)
ctrl alt delete
file
new task
type in explorer.exe
click ok

that should bring it back


I've been going out with my girlfriend for 4 months and i'm wondering when i can finger her (link)
when she tells you you can.


on facebook can someone who sent you a message tell whether you read it or not? (link)
no


Ive been with Verizon for a few years now. They have great service and their phones arent to bad. But they are very expensive and require you to purchase all this other crap in order to use certain parts of your phone. So, Im thinking of switching services but not quite sure who to go with. I used to work for a cell phone company so Ive done ALOT of research. And I know that service varies in different states. But I was curious as to what service everyone has, what phone they went with, and over all how satisfied you are with the phone and serivce? (link)
I have cingular. I am almost never without service. My family and I went up to lake tahoe for vacation. Large extended family, between all of us, we had most of the servicies covered. s print, tmobile, verizon, and cingular. my dad an i (the ones with cingular) were the only ones whose phones worked. and this was a few years ago, before cingular and att merged, essentially doubling their service. the prices are good, and rollover is nice for months you dont talk a lot.


Last year I got sixth place in regionals for the spelling bee, and I was really mad that you had to get at least 5th place in order to go to state.

This is my last year that I will be eligible to compete in the spelling bee.

Any ideas on how I can prepare better than I did last year?

(Last year I used espindle.com to practice, but I was also wondering if anyone had any word lists that I could input into my Espindle account to practice for next year's spelling bee.)

Thank You :)

-Mariah- (link)
Have you seen the movie akeela and the bee? Aside from actually spelling a whole bunch of words (words that I'd have no idea how to spell), they actually give a lot of studying techniques, as well as how to to decompose a word on stage if you get one you dont know.




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