solidadvice4teens answered Wednesday August 22 2007, 9:38 pm: You haven't been dating her all that long. You might want to take things slower so she's comfortable with the thought of this. She might not be open to the idea of fingering or you seeing her genitals just yet.
You need to talk to her about doing some "new" things as part of your routine and see what she says about fingering. You can't just jump in to it as she might not respond well. Ask her what she is ready for.
leLovely answered Wednesday August 22 2007, 5:25 pm: You'll have to ask her to make sure. There's not really a set time for when she's ready to move it to the next level, every girl is different. If you don't want to ask her, maybe kind of going for it and if she stops you, then stop. [ leLovely's advice column | Ask leLovely A Question ]
thelaura answered Wednesday August 22 2007, 2:32 pm: When she's ready physically and mentally.
There's no set time for it to happen. You can talk to her.. unless she guides you on her own.. [ thelaura's advice column | Ask thelaura A Question ]
wisewoman98 answered Wednesday August 22 2007, 2:29 pm: talk to her. ask her if she thinks she is ready to move on with your relationship. if she says no then you have to respect her and wait until she is ready. [ wisewoman98's advice column | Ask wisewoman98 A Question ]
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