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14/f
I like this guy that used to like me. He doesn't show any interest in me anymore. It really sucks, but now i think im just annoying to him , what do i do. in general
i just dont want to be annoying
HELP! (link)
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The best thing to do is talk to him. Ask him if he stills likes you and that you like him. And ask if you are annoying him. Just try to find a new guy too. Like talk to some other guys and get to know them, then you might start falling for one of them instead.
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Okay, 2 days ago I smoked pot for my second time ever and Im STILL coughing. My throat doesnt hurt or anything. But, I know smoking pot can lead to a common cough. Is it normal to still be coughing 2 days later. By the way, I dont have a cold so dont tell me its that. If it is normal, how long will it take on average to go away? (link)
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The best thing to do is to go to the doctor. They won't tell anyone if you ask them so you'll be alright. And also don't smoke at all you should have known that its gonna lead to something bad. Stop before you get it as a habit. Just stand up for yourself and stop before your life ends and its just smoking all day long. Your life is going to end sooner than you think. Life is to precious to throw away like that.
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ok, so theres this girl i like and it seems liek she likes me back, but im shy and all that stuff. well lastnight i went to a lock in at a bowlign alley and all night i couldnt get her off my mind. its starting to rip me apart inside. well i dotn really know if things would work out too well between us if we did start dating. i need help with what i should do. i appreciate advice. please help me. (link)
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I say go for her since you really like her! Don't be scared if it dosn't work out. Nothing will happen if you don't try right? She probably will like you if you be nice and polite and all. Talk about stuff and get to know each other. She might even be crushing on you right now too. Just try it out.
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im 15/f and i know this guy whos 16 or maybe 17, not sure, but i like him alot. like i cant stop staring at him, he's gorgeous, but he's really popular and im not sure if i have a chance. i have lunch and math class with him and we talk and laugh and joke around, so i would consider him a friend. he would buy me ice cream if i asked but thats besides the point. i really like him and i dont know if he ever noticed it or if he's just ignoring that i like him. he's just started a new relationship with this girl from the next town over, but its not really serious and i know my age isnt a problem, but i need some better ways to flirt with him that arent too bold, but will help him really get the hint that i like him, ALOT!! (link)
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Well you can't get him to like you. But flirting with him like just a little but not to much. Like touch him and smile when you see him. He'll start getting the idea. Talk to him alot too. Make sure to have eye contact. If he really dosn't get the idea then tell him or give him a note. It might make things akward so just keep flirting for a bit till he gets the idea.
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I dont know what to do, it's been months and i just can't forget him.OK i was going out with this guy for about 2 years, I loved him so much. But we have broke up and im sure he's waay over me. He has had like 7 girl friends already. Now he's with one he really seems to like and she is beautiful. Meanwhile I'm here 7months later still crying as if it was the first day we broke up. I have a new boyfriend. He treats me great and I like him alot but, I could never love him. I dont think i could love anyone else. I have tried so hard to get over my ex, to fall in love with my new boyfried, but i just cant. I cant take it. Im dieing. NO matter how happy i may spend the day at night it all comes down to thoughts of him. Its like im happy with my new boyfriend but theres something missing. I feel so incomplette without my ex. I need him, i really do. But he can have who ever he wants, why would he waste his time on me. I'm probably just not worth it. I'll never be happy. Please don't think I'm some emo girl I really do try to be happy. I work hard in school, I go out all the time, Im nice to everyone. But then when im alone i cry. I usually cry myself to sleep, or pray and pray to feel better until i just knock out. I cant live like this anymore. Please guys I know this was long. But please help I dont know what to do anymore. (link)
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Yeah I agree with ducktape n roses. If you want to get over him the best thing you can do is just stop thinking about him. I know it will be hard but just try to get to know your new bf. He might just be a great guy that you havn't got to find out yet. He might even be better than than your ex. And you still might not be in love with him you might just miss the memmories. If he isn't wanting you then he's not worth it. If this guy likes you then he might be the perfect one. Just give him a chance.
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My friend, (K) used to have a dog named, Misty. A while back she went to Tenesee. While she was there her dog got hit by a car at her house. She lived on a busy street so don't blame the driver that hit her because if he/she stopped they would have hurt or killed the person behind them. She died of inturnal bleeding. When she went back to school she cried so much she had to leave. I felt so bad for her. When she called me and told me I thought she was faking it, but it ended up she wasn't. She ripped up a picture of her and then tapped it back together. I felt sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo bad for her. I just want to tell her what other people said about it. So please write something to me so I can tell it to her. Please don't joke about this. Because it even made her dad cry.So write Back Please! (link)
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Oh I feel sorry. My dog died while I was on vacation so I was crying real bad too. I know how she feels.
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i cant really explain it,
but does anyone know how to do something to the bottom of your shirt so its like knotting it. like if youre wearing a big baggy shirt and you wanna make it up to your belly button for example, instead of knotting it, theres something else to can do.
if you find a website with pictures step by step, or if you can explain it that's be helpful!
thanks! (link)
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You grab the front of your shirt and twist it and tuck it in the top of your shirt
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I became a Christian two years ago, but I was baptized Catholic as an infant. I really get into the Christian faith more than the Catholic faith.
However I also heard that Catholic is very similar to Christian, except that Christian is more of a general faith than Catholic? I really don't know.. I mean I would hate to leave the Catholic faith. I am asking what is the difference between being Catholic and Christian? Would it matter if I was baptized Catholic and being more Christian? What am I supposed to do??
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I am a Christian. Christians worship Jesus and Catholics worship Mary and Jesus. I don't know much about what Catholis believe though. It wouldn't matter if you were baptized a Catholic and being more Christian though.
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(17/f)heyy alright well, okay theres this guy that really really liked me and i thought i liked him and we were like best friends and all, but then we took summer school together, and i met this other guy and i started going out with him without telling any of my other closest friend except for my bestest friend ever. and when the guy found out he was so upset. andd i ended up breaking up with the guy a week before school started again because he was a total jerk. but my bestsetset friend moved, to the other side of the country and now im all alone. even though things are cool between me and that guy,hes starting to like me again. the thing isss, i dont know what to do because i know if i go out with him ill be happy with him, its just...i dont know if i can see my self kissing himm or anything like that because weve always been good friends. and i think another reason is, is because all my other guy friends dont really get along with him and i dont want things to mess up between me and my friends since they already are kinda shaky. im so confused, and i have no one else to talk tooo...if you can please try to help me, itll be greatly appriciatedd. =( thankss. (link)
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Okay even if you guys are good friends I think you should try it out with him and see how it goes. And try to get close with another friend since your other friend moved and you can express whatever you want with them. If you think he likes you I suggest tell him how you feel and then you guys can try it out and see how well you guys go together!
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I have come to the conclusion that I am afraid of commitment, I think. I really like this guy right now, like a whole lot. I can only think about him like all the time. I like love school just so I can see him. It's crazy. I am scared though about when he asks me out. I like to usually just flirt and hang but maybe going out won't be so bad. Any advice on how to get over this fear? (link)
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I am in the same place as you! But just take the chance and then it will probabaly help you get over your fear. Like if he asks you out then say sure and it will help you get over your fear.
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i have a big giant crush on this boy name anthony well a first i thought of him as a good friend but someway i got attracted to him he bothers me in a fun way and rudley way he always makes me laugh and stares at me a lot of times so idont know if he likes me PLEASE HELP ME (link)
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I'm stuck there too. He stares ect, there is a chance that he might like you unless he is a big flirt. I say if you want to find out either talk to him or have it go through a friend. Like have your friend go up and ask him who he likes, if he likes you ect. Then you might find out.
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my old crush would always talk to me, walk to class with me, stare at me,but into conversations that i had w/ other friends, tease me, do things to get me mad because he liked when i was mad, and would just walk with me. then one day he stoped all the things he used to do and before this i thought he liked me and other people did too. so after that i tried to get him talking to me again and things back to normal. but nothing happens so today i just lost my temper about it because i was upset that he didnt talk to me anymore and stuff and i was kicking his locker and telling myself that i hated him so much and that i dont wanna be near him, talk to him ect. but i some what do but then why do i get so upset about it. it just gets me so mad and angry because i just dont understand it. i never did anything to him. and i still dont know what his problem is.but so i dont know what to do. i just have so much anger in me about it. i ignore him, walk away from him, avoid him ect. also today after spanish class i dont really like talking to him because he doesnt talk to me anymore but i thought yeah it wont hurt if you say something to him andi said it and he really didnt do anything so i said THATS IT!! IM DONE IM SICK OF TRYING. ITS A WASTE OF MY TIME!! and ever since then ive been really upset. so help me understand whats wrong. honestly im kinda confused. (link)
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You should talk to him. He might answer all of your questions in your mind. Maybe he did like you and didn't want to tell you and he wanted you to make the first move and he would just keep trying to get you to notice him and then he just gave up and stopped trying. That might be it but just talk to him.
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I really like this guy D. He has a bestfriend, M, which is a girl and I likes him and he told me that he has a little feelings for her, which I don't believer I think he likes her alot. Well D is a big flirt and all the time with me, also he is bery nice. I really want to get with him, I gave him a note telling him how I feel about him, and he lost it. SO what do you think I should do? Tell him straight up, or give him another note, or what? (link)
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Okay I say tell him straight up. If you are shy it might be hard but it might be worth taking the risk. If you are going to give him another note make sure he dosn't lose it this time. But I'd prefer telling him in person. If he dosn't like you for some reason don't chase after him he wouldn't be worth it if he dosn't see whats good about you.
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I get made fun of a lot because I have red hair so people call me firecrotch AND Im not very pretty. I look like a fish. Anyway, guys on my bus are always making fun of me..and I want to know what I say to them. Swearing isnt working - they just mock me and it just gives them a reaction. (link)
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Okay everybody is pretty in their own way. You are really lucky to have red hair not everybody has red hair. Everybody is different and those boys on the bus are just jerks don't listen to them. Eventually they'll stop if you ignore them. If you sit by someone on the bus that you talk to alot just keep talking to them and just ignore them. It will be hard to ignore people who are making fun of you. You can't stop them from making fun of you but maybe they'll stop but just forget about them and enjoy all the stuff thats good about you.
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hey! ok I have this boy at my school that I go out with and there is this other boy at my school that I really like and he likes me.. but I dont have the heart to tell my boyfriend that I like somone else! and I want my boyfriend to break up with me. so please help me! (link)
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The best thing to do is to tell him yourself that you just want to be friends. If you say it nice and gently then he will understand. It will be real hard to do but it will be better than him finding out and being hurt. You don't want to hurt him right? So talk to him and then everything will go alot easier.
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13 going on 14 / f
Okay, some of yall read my problem last time.. its the same but, if you didn't hear about it.. its about this guy.. hes my bestfriend, we talk every night on the phone til morning, he tells me everything .. and guess what ? i fell for him.. i've liked him for a long time. i pray & i wish on stars that someday he'll be mine.. and im still not losing hope. Its pretty natural to fall for your bestfriend.. but the thing is that hes likes my bestfriend .. my "twinnie" shes my "twinnie" because we're so much alike & have so much in common. yes, thats right, he likes her .. and she knows that i liked him for a long time.. but then she started liking him, and she thought it would be wrong if they went out, because she knew i liked him.. but i put her happiness before mine, so i let her have him & that ill be happy for her. but then they're having some problems at the moment.. they're not going out though.. but i feel really hurt & basically cry ALMOST everyday T.T i hide my sadness from both of them, cause my twinnie knows about it.. but not him he'll like to know my secret but i cant tell him.. cause he knew i liked him before he js doesn't know i like him now. i love talking to him even though it hurts when he talks about my "twinnie" about how much he loves her and stuff, but it surprises me that he makes me happy. Sacrafices yannoe? i don't want to do anything to hurt my twinnie or him, but he keeps wanting me to tell him her secrets .. but i wont & he gets all sad & doesn't think i trust him, which makes me feel bad, please give me some advice on what to do & tell me how to get over him, cause its been hurting for a long time. and that i cant take it anymore, please.
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You were doing the right thing for your friend. If he likes her then you should just let them be, because you don't want to ruin what they have and so I think you should find another guy. What I usually say to people when they have this problem is to talk to other guys and get to know them and all and then you might catch yourself falling for one of them! It will be hard to get over him but try your hardest and it will be harder since you guys talk alot too so just try talking to other guys.
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okay, i'm in a really bad position right now, but if you have any advice, it'd be awesome. my ex-boyfriend and i went out over summer for almost four months, and then he broke up with me because he thought i was getting jealous too easily. well, i was pretty much okay with that because he said we'd go out again in a year or something. i moved on really fast, and it was obvious that he was getting really jealous. so after i started hanging out with this new guy, and we became an official couple, my ex found a new girl, too. all this time, i knew he was jealous of my new boyfriend, and i was a tiny bit jealous of his new girlfriend. but, i still thought about him all the time, cause there's no doubt in my mind, we were each other's first love. anyway, yesterday at school he told me he needed to tell me something. we're like friends now, i guess, but it'd be weird for him to need to tell me something that seemed as important as he made it sound. so last night i called him, and he basically spilled his heart to me about how he misses me a lot, and his new girlfriend isn't the same, and being with her makes him miss me more. my best friend talked to him this morning, and he was just telling her how he really wanted to be with me in stuff. one problem: i have a boyfriend that is really really in love with me who i've been dating for over a month, and he has a girlfriend who he's been dating for only a little over a week. she's crazy about him, too. so basically, we're both in a really sucky position, because we want to be with eachother, but we can't because of the people we're with, and we can't break it off, cause they'd both be like wtf? help, please?? (link)
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Okay if you rtuly like your ex more than you r current bf then I think the best thing to do is to tell him that you still miss your ex and he will probably understand. And your ex should tell his gf the same. Its gonna be hard to break it off to your bf but it would be better if he knew. Even if your bf likes you alot its gonna be hard on him but he will have to understand and move on.
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Ok i have this sudden urge to talk to my ex boyfriend.Not really the plan of getting back with him but i dont know, i still love him but i want to know how his life is and im begginning to miss those long talks we use to have everynight.But i dont know if i should call,he has no reason to be mean to me but im afraid yet he will be.Should i call him? (link)
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You should call him if you want too and if you don't think he will be mean about it then just take the chance. If he is mean to you then you can just forget about him. But just talk to him as a friend and you might get the opprotunity to have a great friend.
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Im going to sum this up as much as i can.
Theres this boy, and i like him ALOT
Me and him never got into a fight or anything but we did stuff [if ya know what i mean] and people found out and rumors and junk went around
so he hated me
the other day he talked to me and said he didnt hate me
my friend asked him if he hated me and he said he did and he said hes always hated me
and hes acting like hes never had anything to do with me, when he has and he full well knows it
I like him alot and i dont know what to do
help plz?
15/f (link)
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Okay just try talking to him first and if he ignores you or something like that then I say forget him you don't need someone that says that they hate you and then another second say that they do. It will just keep confusing you. Just talk to him and see whats going on and if he keeps it up, remember that there are plenty more guys in this world and maybe even one is crushing on you right now. You can also talk to some guys and get to know them and you might catch yourself falling for one of them instead of liking someone who says they hate you.
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ok this boy i like is going to sit with me on the bus tomorrow. i am so nervous, what do i do? what do i say? i dont want there to be any kind of awkward silences. HELPPP MEEE. (link)
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Just ask him some questions but not like over and over again you know that would make him feel a little scared. Just be calm and it will make him feel calm too and you two will be just having a great time on the bus. Also be yourself and when you ask him a couple questions he might ask some too so you guys will be having a conversation than an ackward silence.
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