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i somewhat hate this guy but still get upset over him. why?
my old crush would always talk to me, walk to class with me, stare at me,but into conversations that i had w/ other friends, tease me, do things to get me mad because he liked when i was mad, and would just walk with me. then one day he stoped all the things he used to do and before this i thought he liked me and other people did too. so after that i tried to get him talking to me again and things back to normal. but nothing happens so today i just lost my temper about it because i was upset that he didnt talk to me anymore and stuff and i was kicking his locker and telling myself that i hated him so much and that i dont wanna be near him, talk to him ect. but i some what do but then why do i get so upset about it. it just gets me so mad and angry because i just dont understand it. i never did anything to him. and i still dont know what his problem is.but so i dont know what to do. i just have so much anger in me about it. i ignore him, walk away from him, avoid him ect. also today after spanish class i dont really like talking to him because he doesnt talk to me anymore but i thought yeah it wont hurt if you say something to him andi said it and he really didnt do anything so i said THATS IT!! IM DONE IM SICK OF TRYING. ITS A WASTE OF MY TIME!! and ever since then ive been really upset. so help me understand whats wrong. honestly im kinda confused.
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Sounds like he's trying to get over you. thats exactly what this guy did to me. he acted the same way and people thought he liked me, and then outta the blue he stopped everything, acted like i didnt exist, and gave me the cold shoulder. the thing was i never liked him like that anyway. haha so all i can say is just try to talk to him. you could give him some time then talk to him later if you wanted, but talkins the only thing you can do. if it works then great, if not, then hes a jerk. ha.
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hey, well this is what i think happened. he liked you for so long and you didnt do anything back. you might have flirted a little but nothing past that. when he finally got over you [which is now since he isnt bothering with you anymore] you decided that you like him. basically what im trying to say is you want what you cant have. you could have had this boy in a heartbeat before and now that he doesnt want you anymore you want him.
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You should talk to him. He might answer all of your questions in your mind. Maybe he did like you and didn't want to tell you and he wanted you to make the first move and he would just keep trying to get you to notice him and then he just gave up and stopped trying. That might be it but just talk to him.
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