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I want him so bad......
I really like this guy D. He has a bestfriend, M, which is a girl and I likes him and he told me that he has a little feelings for her, which I don't believer I think he likes her alot. Well D is a big flirt and all the time with me, also he is bery nice. I really want to get with him, I gave him a note telling him how I feel about him, and he lost it. SO what do you think I should do? Tell him straight up, or give him another note, or what?
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First off, he has told you that he has feelings for some one else. (It happens to be his best friend, which is a big mistake, but that is his mistake to make.) That was a kind, but very subtle way of turning you down.
Second, you poured your heart into a note, and this guy lost it? I doubt seriously that he did. Yet another kind, yet very subtle way of saying "sorry, not interested." He didn't want to hurt or embarrass you by saying, that he read it, so it magically disappeared.
So yah, he seems to be a very nice guy. A very nice guy who happens to enjoy flirting. (Just because one flirts, doesn't mean one wants to date who one flirts with.)
What do I think you should do?
Wait. If he is right for you, he'll come to you. He already knows you like him, you've done everything but tattoo it to your forehead.
Give it time. His heart lies with another, you can't change that any more than you can change the past.
If you keep pursuing him, you will eventually drive him away by seeming too desperate. You will also get your feelings hurt when the words "sorry, not interested" come from his mouth.
Drop it for now. He knows you are an option for him, and that's all he needs to know at this point in time. It will come to be if it's meant to be.
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you should either go right up to him when he is alone and talk to him casually bring up the topic about yo uliking him and see if he will g oout with you or atleast get to know you better. once yo uget to know him yo umight find out that he really isnt who you thought he was and might not even want to go out with him anymore. No matter what happens remember there will be alot more chances and alot of times that you will like people. there are alot of men in the world waiting to meet you and if this one doesnt owrk out then there will be other chances.
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Okay I say tell him straight up. If you are shy it might be hard but it might be worth taking the risk. If you are going to give him another note make sure he dosn't lose it this time. But I'd prefer telling him in person. If he dosn't like you for some reason don't chase after him he wouldn't be worth it if he dosn't see whats good about you.
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Don't tell him straight up. It will make him think you're desperate. Be mysterious, make him want more of what you have! Don't try to act better than the other girl because then he might see it as a turn off especially if they're already just friends. Just talk to him a little more, that's how it all starts out. Act natural though. But remember there's nothing you can do to make him change his feelings about her. But if he only likes you as a friend right now, you could change that by hanging out more. Just whatever you do, be yourself! Don't act like her because he likes her. That's probably a turn-off to him, good luck! I hope things work out. Hope I helped
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