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how can i get him to like me
im 15/f and i know this guy whos 16 or maybe 17, not sure, but i like him alot. like i cant stop staring at him, he's gorgeous, but he's really popular and im not sure if i have a chance. i have lunch and math class with him and we talk and laugh and joke around, so i would consider him a friend. he would buy me ice cream if i asked but thats besides the point. i really like him and i dont know if he ever noticed it or if he's just ignoring that i like him. he's just started a new relationship with this girl from the next town over, but its not really serious and i know my age isnt a problem, but i need some better ways to flirt with him that arent too bold, but will help him really get the hint that i like him, ALOT!!
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Well you can't get him to like you. But flirting with him like just a little but not to much. Like touch him and smile when you see him. He'll start getting the idea. Talk to him alot too. Make sure to have eye contact. If he really dosn't get the idea then tell him or give him a note. It might make things akward so just keep flirting for a bit till he gets the idea.
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Any girl who can tell me who the World Series champions of 1969 and 1986 are AND who the MVP's of those series were is tops in my book lol.
I've yet to meet one who can tell me who the MVP's were...can't be too picky :-P
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#1: Repeated contact...at least three separate verbal or non-verbal clues need to be given. Why? The first time he's going to look around and make sure it's really him that you are flirting with. The second, he knows it's him and he gets flushed and pleased. (At this point he'll probably walk by you and at least smile..he's checking you out a little more.) The third time you can express interest-by introducing yourself, or commenting on his tie, or waving from across the room. Now he knows you are open to meeting and it will be a cinch.
#2: Whisper...it always gets their attention. Ask them if you can tell them a secret...Then whisper in their ear: 'I just love your tie...can I buy it from you when you are done with it?'
#3: Don't sit with other women...men don't want you to reject them in front of an audience. If you do go out with a friend...separate every so often or take a breather from talking...men do not want to risk your disapproval by interrupting you. (You have already missed out on a lot of quality polite men who didn't want to interrupt.)
#4: Treat men gently...If someone you are not interested in approaches you and flirts ...be nice.... All the other men are watching to see what you do. If you laugh after he leaves or show visual disapproval, you are cutting your chances on anyone else approaching you. Try shaking his hand and saying something like: 'It was so nice of you to approach me...what's your name? Tom? Tom, I know how hard it is to meet people...I might have a girlfriend who would be interested in you.'
#5: IF he acts like a JERK! Be polite but firm. Hand him a copy of the men's version of 'Flirting with Greatness' and ask him to go practice on someone else. Firmly say that 'lines' with sexual overtones are not only not attractive to you but to most other women in the world.
#6: Use the Buddy system. Walk through a group of men and have someone watch to see who's checking you out.
#7: Become More Irresistible! Show a little leg....wear higher heels...the redder the lipstick the more available and noticeable you will be. Arch your back a little as you sit up tall and cross your legs high. Wear earrings that are interesting enough to make someone comment on them.
#8: Look over your shoulder...and smile at him. This asymmetrical position is always a signal you are interested.
#9: Give him a look all over from head to toe - nod with approval and then flash him your most winning smile.
#10: Remember that flirting is a way of connecting from the heart and acknowledging someone. Be generous! Have Fun!
Good luck!
-Jam
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