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my ex and i love each otherr
okay, i'm in a really bad position right now, but if you have any advice, it'd be awesome. my ex-boyfriend and i went out over summer for almost four months, and then he broke up with me because he thought i was getting jealous too easily. well, i was pretty much okay with that because he said we'd go out again in a year or something. i moved on really fast, and it was obvious that he was getting really jealous. so after i started hanging out with this new guy, and we became an official couple, my ex found a new girl, too. all this time, i knew he was jealous of my new boyfriend, and i was a tiny bit jealous of his new girlfriend. but, i still thought about him all the time, cause there's no doubt in my mind, we were each other's first love. anyway, yesterday at school he told me he needed to tell me something. we're like friends now, i guess, but it'd be weird for him to need to tell me something that seemed as important as he made it sound. so last night i called him, and he basically spilled his heart to me about how he misses me a lot, and his new girlfriend isn't the same, and being with her makes him miss me more. my best friend talked to him this morning, and he was just telling her how he really wanted to be with me in stuff. one problem: i have a boyfriend that is really really in love with me who i've been dating for over a month, and he has a girlfriend who he's been dating for only a little over a week. she's crazy about him, too. so basically, we're both in a really sucky position, because we want to be with eachother, but we can't because of the people we're with, and we can't break it off, cause they'd both be like wtf? help, please??
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The two of you should not be living a lie. How would you like it if your boyfriend secretly would rather be with some other girl? Give them respect enough to be honest. A warning however...sometimes we only want what we can't have and some guys are in it only for the chase. Hopefully this is not the case. You don't want to go through a break up this the same person twice, so go slow. Jealousy. Okay, it is b.s. that only girls get jealous and guys will use this little "your too jealous" crap to break up with a girl they don't want to be exclusive with sometimes. Of course any guy will want what was once his to remain his....actually, I think guys can be more possesive than girls once the break up occurs, because guys are a little slow in realizing what they actually had. Girls are jealous earlier on, because we are quicker. So, never apologize for being jealous, just don't act stupid over stuff you can't control. Believe me, a guy wants you to be jealous, he just does not want to be controlled. Wish you the best.
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Okay if you rtuly like your ex more than you r current bf then I think the best thing to do is to tell him that you still miss your ex and he will probably understand. And your ex should tell his gf the same. Its gonna be hard to break it off to your bf but it would be better if he knew. Even if your bf likes you alot its gonna be hard on him but he will have to understand and move on.
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Well I think no matter how hard it for you and your ex to end things with the people you two are with, you two should end it before the situation get any worst. I mean its not fair to those two if you and your ex are still in love with each other. While his gf and your bf think that's he and you are crazy about them too. So you and your ex need to think it through first and see what's best for you guys. If you think you and him will work out, then I suggest you should break it off with your bf and your ex should break it off with his so you two can be together. This kind of thing happens a lot. When someone is still in love with their ex. It is also hard to forget your first love. I know its gonna be hard on your bf and his gf. But I think they deserve to know the truth. it hurts less if they hear it from you two rather than found out in the relationship that you've been thinking about your ex. That wouldn't be fair for them. You wouldn't want your bf to think about his ex while he's with you. So I think you and your ex should talk it through and if being together is what you guys really want then I think you two deserve to be together. Just don't lead the people you guys are with on.
good luck and I hope everything will work out for the best. =].
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Well I can most definately see where your lost,
I think if you really wanted to go back with your ex, you should keep in mind that he broke up with you. He left you, for honestly a REALLY stupid reason. Jealously should not be enough to break up true love, like honestly.
When my ex dumped me last summer, he did the same thing, he spilled his heart to me and told me how big of a mistake it was when he dumped me & how much he missed everything about me and how he would do anything to have me back etc.
You said you moved on really easily- maybe that was a good thing, & you also said you have a new boyfrined that is really really in love with you, how would you feel if you were your new boyfrined & he dumped you for his ex? I dont know your ex & your new boy so I obviously cant tell you whos better, but if it were me, Id stick with the new boy. I also have a new boyfriend now & hes more than I could ever ask for..
Whatever you chose to do I hope it all works out well!!
♥ xo
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