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13 going on 14 / f
Okay, some of yall read my problem last time.. its the same but, if you didn't hear about it.. its about this guy.. hes my bestfriend, we talk every night on the phone til morning, he tells me everything .. and guess what ? i fell for him.. i've liked him for a long time. i pray & i wish on stars that someday he'll be mine.. and im still not losing hope. Its pretty natural to fall for your bestfriend.. but the thing is that hes likes my bestfriend .. my "twinnie" shes my "twinnie" because we're so much alike & have so much in common. yes, thats right, he likes her .. and she knows that i liked him for a long time.. but then she started liking him, and she thought it would be wrong if they went out, because she knew i liked him.. but i put her happiness before mine, so i let her have him & that ill be happy for her. but then they're having some problems at the moment.. they're not going out though.. but i feel really hurt & basically cry ALMOST everyday T.T i hide my sadness from both of them, cause my twinnie knows about it.. but not him he'll like to know my secret but i cant tell him.. cause he knew i liked him before he js doesn't know i like him now. i love talking to him even though it hurts when he talks about my "twinnie" about how much he loves her and stuff, but it surprises me that he makes me happy. Sacrafices yannoe? i don't want to do anything to hurt my twinnie or him, but he keeps wanting me to tell him her secrets .. but i wont & he gets all sad & doesn't think i trust him, which makes me feel bad, please give me some advice on what to do & tell me how to get over him, cause its been hurting for a long time. and that i cant take it anymore, please.
<3 always, Mary C
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You were doing the right thing for your friend. If he likes her then you should just let them be, because you don't want to ruin what they have and so I think you should find another guy. What I usually say to people when they have this problem is to talk to other guys and get to know them and all and then you might catch yourself falling for one of them! It will be hard to get over him but try your hardest and it will be harder since you guys talk alot too so just try talking to other guys.
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first off, i'm sorry that your feeling this way. but if your 'twinnie' has no idea how bad your hurting, you really need to tell her. honestly, i don't think she should've went out with this guy in the first place, especially if she knew you liked him first. its good that she thought it was wrong to go out with him, but still.
anyways. if you REALLY want to get over him. let yourself be sad for awhile. cry for a few hours, or a week. you don't have to show anybody else your crying if you dont' want too. but it does help to feel sad about it. next, try moving on. sometimes, pretending your fine can help. because one day, you'll wake up one day and realize you ARE fine.
i probably didn't help much. but thats the best i could do.
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whoah that is a tough....but it's simular to mine except he isn't my best friend...yeha it hurts and i imagine it hurts you even worse but if she know s you like him then just explain to her in dept how you feel and then if she is okay with it and agrres to back of then make your move but if she doesn't just try to avoid him a few days and get your emotions in check then talk to him and see how you fell if you still feel the same step up to the plate and tell him
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