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My name is Kristen, and I'm seventeen years old.

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I am twelve years old, and this guy I used to hang with, was my 'friend'. But one day he held my hand, and ever sence, he been acting like my bf. But like, he real perverted, and if I tell him to stop acting all sexual, he be getting mad at me. And he keep asking me why and junk, but I just aint like that. Can you tell me how to keep him from sex, but not break up with him?

Confront him!! tell him you like him, but you aren't ready to have sex with him. If he keeps pushing you, break up with him. It's your body and pushing you means he has no respect for it. good luck!! send me something if you need more help!

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I used to always want to be 'cool', 'hot' 'ghetto'
junk like that. Now I am a 12 yr old punk girl, and I changed in less than a month. I started having home problems, and I started listening to rock. I cut my ankles, and make little pictures on my ankles with a knife. I tell myself it's just play, but somtimes I dont know. Really and truly sometimes I scare myself, I like being strange and literly insane. Is that a problem...

Please don't cut!!! Go talk to a counselor. Your school counselor can help you find one and tell your parents/guardian that you want to see one. They can help you and everything is confidential. Cutting isn't play... send me something if you need more help, i'm here to talk!!!

xoxo Kristen

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anybody read any books in the adult section that an older teenager would still enjoy and not be bored by? (i've read and enjoyed the pact by jodi picoult and sloppy firsts by megan mccafferty if that gives you any insight) thnks -- i'll rate u 5's if i like the books you suggest!

The Lovely Bones was really good. it was kind of heavy for me towards the beginning (girl raped, then murdered) but for an older teen it might be good. It's all about how they're trying to find the girls body, and the girl is watching the family and the killer from heaven. It's reallly sad, but i couldn't put it down.

xo Kristen

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Does ne1 know how to make razor burn go away... i have been shavin since i was leik 8 and i just started to get razor burn really bad on my legs everytitme i shave it started liek a month ago...and i use shaving cream, new razor and everything but idk ive tried everything and it hurts, burns and itches so0o0o bad!! i shave my arms and other places to but i dont get razor burn at all just my legs!! ive tried everything water, ice, dry shaving, shavin with every razor and shavin cream there is, razorless shavin, intution, hair conditionar, soap, shampoo, baby soap, everything... guys aftershave girls aftershave...everyhting... can ne1 help me on this... liek how to make it stop or wat to use leika razor or sumn!! PLEASE HELP IT HURTS!! ( only on my legs tho) thnk u!!

hmm.... make sure u really later up, don't push down too hard... i have sensitive skin and it used to get rashes because of the aloe strip things that are on the razor. don't use nair though, it's crap

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my boyfrend wants to do me but im not ready for it\\ and he said that if i won't do it with him he won't go out with me\\ please help ASAP

a guy is a major idiot if he breaks up with you because you won't have sex with him. this means he doesn't respect you and what you believe. dump him first. good luck. send me something if you need anything else

Kristen

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My best friend likes this one guy, but secretly I like him, and I think he likes me! I read in her diary, which she let me read, trhat she was mad for him! What can i do!

come up with some sort of a compromise.. maybe you should back off to be loyal to your best friend. just don't ruin your relationship over a guy!!!! you'll regret it. talk to me if you need something else!

ly Kristen

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ok im 13/f..i have a boyfriend that wants to do "stuff" like..he wants a h/j and stuff but im not really ready..hes expecting it though like tomorrow or something. PLEASE help :'(..idk what to do..

hun, don't do it if you aren't ready. tell him that you don't want to. if he keeps insisting, you might want to break up with him. a guy isn't any good if he makes u do something you don't want to do. best of luck!!! come talk to me if you need more help. i'm here for ya

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I need help..fast. My dad told me last night that he hates me and he doesnt care if he ever sees me again..but then now my parents wont let me go anywhere! I want to go with my aunt for a couple days because she invited me there so I could get out of here. But they just wont let me leave! I've been crying forever, I'm thinking about running away..but then..mostly I'm thinking of just ending my life. I've cut before..4 times..and I've taken a knife to my throat and almost cut..but now I'm seriously just thinking of ending it all. Anyone..just please help me!

I have aim if you want to talk on there..MaDaBoUtMaTt07

don't kill yourself. you have so much to live for!! don't run away though, that's not gonna solve your problems either. would it be possible for your aunt to talk to your parents???? then they might let you go there. but please. do not hurt or kill yourself! it's not gonna help. There are going to be so many people who will miss you. If you need anything else, IM me (cant t0uchxth1s) or send me a message. I'm here to help!!!!

lyl, Kristen

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LaTly i have been vary depressed like im not the old me...i used to be vary fun tew be around, loving life, and full of energy...and i think i mite be depresed because i cut and everything but i think my question is...wat is happening to me

sometimes stuff just happens. i agree with craziigurl, it might be hormones. tell your parents you want to talk to a counselor. everything you say will be confidential and it will help you feel better and get to the root of what's wrong. best wishes! send me something if you need more help!

xOx Kristen

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Hi, I'm 14 years old and my mom doesn't allow me to wear thongs!!!! So she makes me buy the regular kind or boy briefs, whatever. I used to own a whole bunch but I think she threw them away so now I only have one. And my question is that if a guy finds out that I don't wear thongs then they will think I'm not good enough, or sexy. And I don't think they should base it on that. But I feel really insecure and not good enough because I don't wear a thong. What should I do? How do I get over this? Thanks for your help!

if a guy judges you on what underwear you wear, he's not good for you. but u should get over it. wait a while before asking again and maybe something will happen. u don't need a thong to be sexy and a guy is scum if he's only with you because you wear one

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Hey, (14/f) I am friends with my exboyfriend. We talk a lot, and are pretty close. I am going to a different school this year so it's going to be really hard to see him and talk to him, but i really value our friendship. Whenever we talk though he alwayse brings up other girls, and how hott they all are. I know that I shouldn't get jelous since we are just friends now, but i do. So I can't deside weather he is making me feel jelous so i dont forget him, or if he is just talkin to me like a close friend.

-Really confused

maybe he feels comfortable enough with you, that he can talk about other girls with you. he might be testing you though, to see if you get jealous. try testing him and see what happens

xox Kristen

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hey, I was wondering if anybody has heard the song that plays at the end of '10 things i hate about you'? You know the one that goes: 'i need you to need me, i want you to want me, i love you to love me.' I need to know who sings it and what it's called, thanks.

look in the credits at the end of the movie, it'll say it there

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What is worse for you; throwing up or taking laxactives? I was just wondering which form of bulimia is worse on your body.

they're both bad. throwing up can make the stomach acid come up and that'll ruin your esophagus and your teeth and mouth. i'm not completely sure what laxatives do, but i definitely know it is not healthy. please, if you need anymore help, send me a message


xoox Kristen

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I am 15/f and I always end up liking younger guys. Usually guys that are 14. Is there anything wrong with that.. cause some of my friends think it's a lil weird.

i don't think there's anything wrong with it. if the two of you don't have a problem with it, thats all that matters. age is just a number. hope i helped! send me something if you need more help

xo Kristen

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Ok well tomorrow I'm leaving for Flordia. I hafta go on a 5 hour plane trip! Does anyone have any ideas for things to do?? I have my cd player (but ive already heard all my cds!!), a walk to remember book (my favorite :D), and a notebook. CAN ANYONE HELP ME??

i just went on a 12 hour ride to North Carolina so i should know. i got books on tape and CD from my library and i played snake and pairs on my mom's cell. let's see..... listen to CDs from friends, make up a story, sleep.... hope i helped

xo Kristen

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how can i confront my like best friend that i hate it when me and her r goin out sumwhere lyke the movies or what ever that she has to bring a friend?? plesse help

just tell her u want to hang out with just her and she doesnt need to bring a friend along. hope i helped

XOX- kristen

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I have this friend *Amy*, right? Well, before me and my boyfriend started going out she used to be obsessed with him. All she would ever talk about was him and she literally *stalked* him. Well, me and my boyfriend started going out and she backed off a little bit. She got a boyfriend and he just recently dumped her for another girl. Now she keeps trying to talk to my boyfriend on AIM, asks ME for his screen names, his email addresses, and where we're going for our dates. This is really starting to annoy me and I don't know what to do. How should I tell her how I feel without EXPLODING in her face?

maybe she feels like you are going to leave her. spend some time with her
Or
maybe she likes him again. tell her that he"s your boyfriend and you need some space

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my friends r mad at me and i do not know what to do they say i need to shut the F*** up but i have not talked to them and my other friends go online as my best friends name and sends me rude messages what should i do

confront them. nothing is gonna happen until someone does something about the situation

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my girlfriend wears some clothing that bothers me. she has a very nice body, and its cool that she is comfortable with showing it off... but it bugs me that she likes the attention from other guys and all. how do i let her know that some of the stuff she wears (low tank tops / shirts, short shorts, etc) bothers me without sounding too much like a jealous control freak?

you can tell her, but it might be offending or she just wont listen. u cant change what shes gonna wear . it makes u sound possesive

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i dont no recently during the summer all my friends like abandoned me.. i have like 2 rly good friends but we like never hang out i dno.. what should i do?? all my friends ditched mee..

invite everyone over for a big sleepover
go to the mall
go out for pizza
waterpark

basically, just get together with them!!! maybe u gotta make the first move

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