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I'm thinking of just ending my life.


Question Posted Saturday July 31 2004, 1:00 pm

I need help..fast. My dad told me last night that he hates me and he doesnt care if he ever sees me again..but then now my parents wont let me go anywhere! I want to go with my aunt for a couple days because she invited me there so I could get out of here. But they just wont let me leave! I've been crying forever, I'm thinking about running away..but then..mostly I'm thinking of just ending my life. I've cut before..4 times..and I've taken a knife to my throat and almost cut..but now I'm seriously just thinking of ending it all. Anyone..just please help me!

I have aim if you want to talk on there..MaDaBoUtMaTt07


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Additional info, added Saturday July 31 2004, 6:56 pm:
thanks guys..yeah my dad took me out shopping..200$ worth..whatever i wanted..hes trying to make up for it..he told me he loves me to death..he just wishes i would show him love back or something like that..they wouldnt let me go to my aunts...but im going soon..he doesnt abuse me or my mom..but sometimes he does to my brother....

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slopunkrocker answered Sunday August 1 2004, 12:45 am:
dont do it. as much as ur dad says he hates u he loves you ten times more. if ur parents wont let u go ne where then you need to call child services and get help no one should live thru that. It sux and I know it's hard becuz sumthin simalar happened to me. just dont try and kill urself life will get better sum day. no matter how hopeless it looks. Try and write down your feelings. make it into a poem or song. it helps. I swear. hope i helped

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TucanFullOfHoles answered Saturday July 31 2004, 10:38 pm:
Alright, DO NOT KILL YOURSELF! Thats not an opption.

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ballerina04 answered Saturday July 31 2004, 6:47 pm:
don't kill yourself. you have so much to live for!! don't run away though, that's not gonna solve your problems either. would it be possible for your aunt to talk to your parents???? then they might let you go there. but please. do not hurt or kill yourself! it's not gonna help. There are going to be so many people who will miss you. If you need anything else, IM me (cant t0uchxth1s) or send me a message. I'm here to help!!!!

lyl, Kristen

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PuReLuVeR143 answered Saturday July 31 2004, 5:10 pm:
i know uve heard this like 100 times be4, and im not gunna sit here and lecture u cause im sure thast what every1 else does..but dont end ur life. this shit at home is guna end, if not now, but when ur 18 u can do WHATEVER U WANT!!! u can LIVE UR LIFE!!! u can move go to school far away, anything u want...u can be happy. IM me on aim- Pureluver143
~kristin

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l_l_ChRiStInA_l_l answered Saturday July 31 2004, 4:45 pm:
Ending your life isnt the answer. Your going through a lot...i think you should give your aunt a call when your parents arent around and talk to her about what they are doing to you and have her come and get you. Maybe your aunt can settle this with your mom and dad and you can stay with her. If this becomes really bad, take action and talk to someone about it, maybe you can start living with your aunt. If your aunt cares about you i know shell do the right thing.--Hope i helped, Christina

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*MaCky* answered Saturday July 31 2004, 3:54 pm:
killing ur self is not the answer!! tell your parents flat out that if you don't get out off the house real soon your going to blow a gasget tell them it will be good for all of you if you go to your aunts house for a few days. if they still don't let u tell ur aunt to come pick u up when there at work or late at night.lying to ur parents isn't ask bad as killing ur slef!!!
rate me !!
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*ashlee* answered Saturday July 31 2004, 3:41 pm:
naw..theres no reason to end ur life. i dunno how old u are but since ur still living at home i take it ur not old enuff to move out. so if u can be patient enough to wait until u can legally move out, then just wait and when the time rolls aroud..pack ur shit and the fuc out. what does ur mother say about this? maybe u should try talking to ur parents..tell them how they make you feel. if they dont understand then try getting them to let u moe with a friend of family member. i dont think its a good idea to run away tho especially if ur not going to a friends or something. because if ur on ur own u could end up gettin raped or murderd or who knos what. besides if u run away and ur parents tell the police they can put u in juvy or sumthing..unless u have a good story for it i think..like ur parents beat you or something. but im not totally sure so dont hold me to it. just dont hurt urself anymore and dont end it cause its really not worth it..dont let them win. im sure they love you they just got probs..and trust me i kno how u feel. i hope things get better for you good luck

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twizzler2 answered Saturday July 31 2004, 3:27 pm:
This is a really hard position your in. Just because your Dad hates u doenst meant everyone else does. You really shouldn't cut-because there are plenty of chances in this world. You should get your mind off this and do something you enjoy. Call you Aunt and tell her what is going on..talk to your friends and see if they can help you. Hope the advice works. Please dont cut

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imsexyx0x0x answered Saturday July 31 2004, 3:24 pm:
omg to tell you the truth i know exactly what you mean.. my mother and step father hate me and i wanted to go live with my dad.. and get outta here and let me tell you ! keep tyring hold on! ya know what run to your aunts stay there tell the cops your never going back! and i promise you they will never ever make you! and the only way to win is scream kick cry do wahtever you need to! to get outta that house.. living in a bad situation like that causes drama.. ive cut to but now im with my dad and doing fine.. so just keep trying!!!! thanks

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hellraiser answered Saturday July 31 2004, 3:10 pm:
hey don't kill yourself, maybe u should talk to someone. i've been in the same situation i have depression and have tried many times, it's not worth it. just find a way to express yourself. for me i write songs. don't end it yet..please

if u need to talk and wanna im me my aim is
hellraiser2609

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