Hey guys,
Well heres the problem. My best friend of like forever, up and decides that smoking is more important than our friendship. it really hurts me to see her do it because i know the pain it caused her when her grandmother died of cancer just a few short years ago. She goes on about how she doesnt need a supervisor or someone telling her what to do, but i keep telling her that i only get on her back about it because i care. she doesnt seem to realize that im only trying to help. however, my help cant always be the answer. i am myself, an advice giver on this website, but sometimes you just need others' advice. if anyone has any advice, or anything at all i could say to my friend to help her, please let me know. im scared for her, and also for our friendship. please someone help me.
That is so horrible! Ok well maybe you can tell her that she was hurt when her grandma died of cancer and you dont want to have to go threw the same pain of losing a best friend. I dont really know how i can give you advice to what to say because i've never really been put into this situation and I dont know what i'd say but I guess you just need to let your friend know that she is making a bad decision. But at the same time I know this might be some bad advice but maybe you should just accept that fact that she wants to throw away her life with her cancer sticks. Just be comforting, and maybe you can talk to her mom or something about it. Good luck with this, sorry this advice wasnt the best :-/
-Holly-
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my friend has sticky fingers! shes always stealing stuff and telling me shell stop but im afraid she wont! i dont want to tell an adult cuz her parents are reeeaally strict! really the only reason she does it is cuz she has 7 brothers and sisters and she barely gets anything cuz her parents dont take her to the store barely at all! wut do i do! and dont tell me shes a bad friend cuz shes ALWAYS been there for me wen im in need!
Hmmm well I know a girl thats the same way minus the 7 brothers and sisters and what not. But like i told her shes gonna get caught and shes like no no i wont! And just a few weeks ago she got caught stealing by the secirity Guard at the mall and they called her parents. And so she will get caught sooner or later if you dont want to be the one to tell thats ok. Just dont go shopping with her cuz you'll get into trouble as well.
-Holly-
Sure that wasnt much help but yeah hope i helped somewhat
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My boyfriends birthday is coming up and ive got no clue what to get him. He plays lacrosse and basketball. We've been going out for a month and i need some ideas please help!!! It cant cost too much and i need ideas soon!
Hmm, I'm never good at getting guys something, but maybe buy him some new basketball shorts, or a DVD that he's been waiting to get... maybe a cd or two. Or you could be sweet and buy him some flowers and some candy and what not. Good luck with that
-Holly-
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Are tampons supposed to hurt? because i hate wearing pads, but tampons hurt sooo bad that i cant even walk some of the time and im a very heavy bleeder so i can wear the small tampons. also does your eating habits have to do with how heavy you bleed? like if i eat healthy food and fruit and stuff will it make me bleed lighter?
Maybe your not putting the tampon in right. Because it shouldnt be like that! and about eating healthy would make you bleed lighter, thats probably a question your going to have to ask your doctor or someone. Good luck with the whole tampon thing... Hope things get better
*-Holly-*
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mi best friend just told me that hes gay... and that is rally weird fir me.. i mean.. i should have known.. he is always the one who picks out mi clothes when where at the mall.. but i dont know how to deal with it.. im the only person hes told.. and i know he likes one of his friends.. should i tell his friend? should i act the same around him?
No no dont tell his friends that'd be really rude obviously he trusts you, Just act the same! Hes the same person, just told you one of his bigger secrets, I mean wouldnt you want him to act the same around you? Just be nice to him and be the same, and make sure you comfort him in any choices he has about telling people if hes gay or what not. Good luck and I hope everything stays the same.
-holly-
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* i've been going to the same school and i have alot of friends.. but im moving and going to a complete diff. school for high school~ so i dont know anybody there! and most of the people that are going to be a freshman at the high school im going to have gone from a middle school to the high school so they like know everybody.. I dont know how should i approach people i know when school starts up... and i deffinatly wana have friends to hang out with for lunch or something but i deffinatly want to get into the right group- im a preppy kinda grl~ not geeky * * sorry if that affends ne one.. so please help me on this~ thanks!
Just be yourself! And just approach people that seem nice and introduce yourself and tell them that your new and what not. Just be nice and what not. Good luck
-Holly-
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HI Im a 14 year old girl and i told a guy I liked him right before graduation. we aren't very good friends but a friend of mine told me "he didnt want to ruin the friendship" and im pretty sure that is just an easy term for the words "i don't like you" but then at the dance two days after my friend told me the news he wouldn't stop convienently running into me and kept walking up to me like he wanted to dance but then would just say something sweet and walk away then he asked me to dance and kissed my hand. Was he just being sweet? Do I have a chance with this guy in high school? Is there a chance that he is thinking about me? And if so in a good way?
Yeah it does seem like theres a big chance. you should tlak to him and ask him about the night at the dance. He might have something to say about it. Just go for it and put yourself out there and maybe he'll end up wanting to take it farther. Yeah I'm sure hes thinking about you and i'm sure its good, I dont think you have any worries right now hun! Good luck
-Holly-
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is it ok to date online
Ya know, I dont think its wrong but I dont think its 100% right. Because you never know if your talking to who they say they are ya know. You might be talking to like some stalker or whatever. But thats my opinon.
-Holly-
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i jus wannted 2 tell u this, it has been bugging me 4 awhile...about a year ago i met this guy online through a guy that i kno who lives in florida n i live in texas, newayz we like flirted a lot n we really liked each other a lot, n he asked me 4 a pic of me n i didnt have 1 so i was like hey shes pretty so i copied n pasted ur pic n emailed it 2 him saying it was me, i still like told him i was me its jus i sent him ur pic, not like i was tryin 2 be u n tell him i was alicia or nething, but newayz he found out that those pics were not me n i felt like so dumb n i regretted it so much, but i'm glad he found out b/c if i had really gotten close w/ him n he found out after we had known each other 4 a long time it would have really hurt him, it still hurt him but i'm jus glad he found out, it was not fair 2 him at all, but i jus wanted 2 apologize 4 doin that....it was not right
Barbiegurl is alicia! Barbiebaby or whatever isnt the real alicia!
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i have this friend, closely resemblance to Marshall Mathers, low life. A couple years back my friend opened his heart to my other friends mother. At that point in time we didnt know that she would be having an affair with a 13 year old. They even did sexual things in public places. Now that we have found out we ask him cause we are horn dogs. But should we be congraulating him, or cutting him down. I think its tight cause he hit that shit, but she is 20 years older then him. Which one is the sick bastard?
Dont be congradulating him thats really wrong! and you could so get her in trouble! But I guess you shouldnt be rude to him because of his mistake and what not.
-holly-
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in 7th grade a new kid jordan(he was in 9th grade) came to my skool he asked me out id say no summmer came and we didnt talk but we talked about each other (i heard he taked bout me alot)
wen skool came agian(8th grade for me 10th for him) he would ask me out but id always say no n id ignore if he said hi at every party i wouldnt talk to him but yet he still always tried ta get me to talk to him so on ther last day of skool i apologized i heard he was gunna give me a kiss but he never did later i found out he had been making out with this girl the whole last week of skool and he claimed he didnt like her it was jus for fun hell call my frend house n always ask for me but he wont call my house i really miss him and really want that kiss wat should do
I guess if he was kissing that other girl and your jealous its kind of your fault ya know cuz you let him go. Just start talking to him and calling him i'm sure he still likes you if he liked you that long. Good luck
-Holly-
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ok well I have got D boobs and I kinda like to show it a little bit (as in where fitted shirts) but like my mom is like makeing me wear baggy shirts and it's aweful I feel so ugly with the way she makes me dress. How do I get her to lighten up?
ok well just tell your mom that your not a little kid and that you should be able to wear almost anything you can, But dont be to flaunty about your large breast, it gives you a bad image. But you've got the goods you should be able to show it with some fitted shirts!
-Holly-
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Hey everyone, 15/m here and I wanted to get my ears pierced today, both of them. I asked my parents they said fine I could get it done. But right when I was about to be out the door my mom asks "which ear?" then I said both. And she gives me this look and asks "why?". She just goes and asks question after question after question after question and starts talking about what getting your ears pierced mean you're gay or some shit. Hello mom!!! That was last millenium, maybe if I wanted to get just my right ear pierced then that would mean I'm gay, but either way, I'm not, I had a g/f, she's seen her etc. Guys everywhere have both of their ears pierced, I see it in my school, I see it in the NBA, I see it in the NFL, in music videos. I don't know wtf is her prob with it being just my left or both. And I wanna get it done TODAY. What should I do?
PS- Sorry, but as you can tell I'm PISSED.
Just show her some music videos! Tell her that if people think your gay oh well you have a girlfriend. But just tell her and show her the music videos i dunno any more advice i could give you... good luck though
-Holly-
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Okay kinda personal..when making out, there is ALOT of saliva..should you swallow in the middle of making out? or take ah break? idk
x0x-dani
ya know thats actually a question i've never really thought of swallowing while making out i mean i'm sure I do, but I guess it just happens naturally, and yeah breath out your nose! Good luck hope i helped
-Holly-
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me n my boyfriend talk on the phone...a lot! It's not like he doesn't want to talk to me because he is the one who calls me (most of the time) but i mean we are talking 24/7!! He has even passed up going to the movies to talk to me cause he said he would be bored without me and without someone to hold on to. My problem is, I think we talk a little bit to much on the phone! i mean i stay up til around 3:00am talking to him then he has to go to work, and sometimes on his way to work we talk on his cell phone. I think i am not getting enough sleep, but i really love talking to him and he does too! what should i do???? (if it helps im 14/f n hes 15 august 10th)
just tell him be like "i'm really tired i havnt got enough sleep in a long time and i love talking to you but do you think we can get off the phone around midnight or something" if he truely likes you and what not I'm sure he'll understand and wants whats best for you! Good luck with that
-Holly-
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Is it true that eating junk food can cause pimples?
Yeah its true, your bodys weird like that and like all the crap in it and just cause break outs. Thats why you should eat right... most the time ;)
-Holly-
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Me and my little sister do not get along at all! like if she does one little thing i seem to get really mad at her and we end up getting into a bit fight, and the same way for her, if i do something wrong she yells at me too. she has her own room but im surprised if she has ever stepped foot into it lol, she says shes not going to sleep in there until there is cable hooked up, so basically she is in my room 24/7!!! she lays on the floor and watches tv and plays ps2 and leaves plates and cups all around my room n then my parents tell me to clean it up cause its my room but its her room too cuz she like LIVES in here! Please help!!!
Maybe you should like go into her room and play ps2 on her tv and sleep in there and leave stuff around, it is her room. She'll probably come in there sooner or later... Good luck with that! I know its hard I have an older sister as well... Just remember i'm sure she looks up to you a lot even though you guys do yell at each other and what not because i remember looking up to my sisters.
-Holly-
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I am really white, but i have freckles on my face so every time i go in the sun my frackles seem to get darker but not my skin! i want to go to a tanning salon but iono how much it is, and i heard you could get cancer. should i just put sunscreen on my face then the freckles wont get darker but then i wont get a tan on my face too, what do i do???
I dont know about the freckles but either way if you fake n' bake or lay in the sun you can get cancer.
-Holly-
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how young is too young to have sex
How young are you? To tell the truth I think like little girls that are like 11 12 or even 13 are even to young! Seriously those girls should still be thinking about barbies and the guys should be still thinking about GI Joes. I dont really think theres an age, but just wait until you think its the right person, and the right time.
GOOD LUCK
-Holly-
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Okay so I just walked in this store and this amazing guy stoped in front of me , we started to talk and I found out that he is only 16, and Im 15 , he asked me out on a date and I said I didn't really know , he toldme to think about it.
This Guy is totally Hot!!! , his name is Richard , should I give him a chance?/ Or should I tell him to go??? I just met this guy today.
PLZPLZPLZ HELP Jenipher ASAP
GO FOR IT! He might be mr. right!! Seriously thats awesome you met him. Talk to him on the phone and just get to know him better. thats so awesome and i hope everything works out
-Holly-
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