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mi best friend just told me that hes gay... and that is rally weird fir me.. i mean.. i should have known.. he is always the one who picks out mi clothes when where at the mall.. but i dont know how to deal with it.. im the only person hes told.. and i know he likes one of his friends.. should i tell his friend? should i act the same around him?
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No no dont tell his friends that'd be really rude obviously he trusts you, Just act the same! Hes the same person, just told you one of his bigger secrets, I mean wouldnt you want him to act the same around you? Just be nice to him and be the same, and make sure you comfort him in any choices he has about telling people if hes gay or what not. Good luck and I hope everything stays the same.
-holly-
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hey i dont think you should tell his friend ;; if he wanted them to know he would tell them ;; having a gay friend isnt so bad he can give you advice on different guys and you should act the same he is the same guy hes just now told you he is gay there is really no reason you should stop acting a certain way hope i helped ;; rate me ;;love always Katie Sumner
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i have alot of gay friend..im tellin u a lot i mean..u shouldn't tell his friends and u shouldnt act different around him..u should just go with the flow....its fun havin gay friends than havin a girl friend cuz ur girlfriend aare alwayz tro faced but gay friend keeps secrets and they give u advice....k..take care
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Wow, gayness. Well, act the same around him. Don't like just stop hanging with him just cause he's a homo! Come on, homos are okay!! i think....lol but just act the same around him ......... hehe
--katie--
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dont tell his friend.. if he wants him to know than thats his decision not yours.. but dont start acting diff around him either! i mean nothing has changed bout him besides now you know for a fact something you already suspected.. hes still the same guy whos been your best friend and itd prob hurt him a lot if you started treating him differently! im sure itll be hard to adjust at first to the fact of knowing hes gay but in time itll be normal to you and youll be glad you still have him as a best friend! hope i helped ya out!
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-*Tay
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Don't go off and tell his friend, let him tell his friend himself, its not your job to do it for him because he will tell his friend when he is ready. And yes still act the same around him. He is still the same person. Don't treat him differently because of his sexuality. You should treat him the same because he is your friend and it shouldnt matter what he is.
*Zoe*
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act the same as yall did before!He confided in you, it may be a little weird at first, but you will get used to it.Dont tell his friend.....
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If your truley his best friend you`ll accept the sexuality of him. He is experiancing something new and told you because he trusts you, it doesnt mean to freak out and get scared that he will start hitting on you because thats very unlikley. Just support him like a true friend =)
xO.Carrie
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No, you should never go behind his back to tell his friend. He told you that in private. He doesn't want anyone else to know or else he would have already told them. You should let him take it slow and come out in his own time.
Don't act any different than you would before you knew. It shouldn't make any difference to your friendship except now you have a secret between you two that could bring you closer.
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yes, he's still the same person.. why would you treat him differently?? hes still the same guy you hung out with before, you just now one more thing about him then you did before.. and you shouldn't tell his friends unless your best friend wants you to.. if he wants his friend to know then he'll tell him.. i wouldn't intervere with things you shouldnt. most likely your best friend would get mad.. theres a reason he told you.. you're his best friend and that means something to him.. you should be happy that he would trust you with something that big.. don't blow it by telling his friend!
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