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I know this isn't really asking for advice, but the last few days I was just thinking about this and wondering why the people here joined.

I guess it is just out of pure curiosity. I would have just posted this in the moderator forum or in the supporter discussion, but I'd rather see why everyone joined rather than just those who have been here for some time and such.

So, why did you join advicenators and why are you still here? What about the site made you want to stay?

I'll probably be one of the first people to answer this (I'm not going to answer it in the question).

S_C

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Hey:]
I joined almost 10 months ago. I remember this girl instant messaged me and I looked at her AIM profile and it said "Advicenators". It looked interesting- so I joined:] Haha! Same thing happened to me Kate.

I am still here because of the people who have been extremely nice to me- like Jack, Laura 1, Laura 2, Kate:], erinn, mike, matt, ygsgirl, yg, amy, ashley, etc.
The list goes on. I also liked the fact that this site let me use my experiences to help other people who may be stuck in a similar situation.

Yay Advicenators:]

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there's this song it goes like

"we all need somebody to leee-ann onn"

that's all i can remember; & i tried googling it but nothing worked. anybody have any information on it?

If you found it, please delete this question:]

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Last night I went to forever 21 with my friend & we got outfits for the first day of school. I guess you can say we have a sense of style, but the thing is the kids at my school don't. I decided to get a black shirt dress that has thick straps & goes a bit above my knees. I am going to wear jeans underneath [since it's a shirt dress] & a gray cardigan on top that goes to about my ribs. I was going to do my hair straight & long & then have a few front pieces pulled back in bobby pins. Does this sound cute or too much?? People always wear jeans & a tshirt, but I love fashion & I've seen this outfit before in magazines. I just don't want people thinking "wow what is she wearing??" when in reality a lot of girls do wear this. Any ideas/opinions?? Thanks!

That sounds adorable! I was planning on wearing something like this too. It may be cute too if you do loose curls, like Miley Cyrus or something, and then pin some back with the bobby pins.
For shoes, I would recommend flats:]

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Is the group "Paramore" a christian band? I have heard that they were and werent and on their CD Riot! one song sounds really like one but the rest dont seem so. I mean sometimes artist have one song on the CD that reprents their faith.

So are they? Just wondering. Thanks

hey,
the music they produce isnt christian music.
The song "Halleluja" may have confused you:].

But- no.

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I have my hair cut like the girl with the black hair (on the right) in this photo: http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=viewImage&friendID=160577511&albumID=939322&imageID=9452003

But I can get it to stick up like hers without a ton of hairspray which makes it look ratty and all the strands are stuck together. How can I make it nice and fluffy but still stick up like hers at the top?
Also, when I straighten my hair at the bottom it always goes back wavy again abot an hour after I've straightened it. It's disgusting. How can I fix this without permanently straightenening it? It's naturally wavy and I like to thin it out when it's straightened. I have layers in my hair like in that photo so it tends to become more volumous.

I would reallly reallly appreaciate anyone at all who can help me.

Thankyou
xx

Hey, the link you gave us was to a private profile- so we cannot see the picture.

Please edit your question with a new link:]

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what is a mothers helper and what dose it do??

They basically help mom's of little children with doing stuff. They usually play with the kids, and make them lunch while the mom is busy doing other stuff.

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Hi MY NAME IS TYASIA AND IM 13 YEARS OLD...I WEIGH 140 POUNDS BUT THE ONLY THING THAT SAVED ME IS THAT IM TALL ...MY HEIGHT IS 5'4 AND I NEED TO LOOSE WEIGHT BY SEPTEMBER 7TH!!!PLEASE TELL ME WHAT TO DO! I WANT TO LOOSE 10-15 POUNDS BY SEPTEMBER 7TH...IF I DONT GET HELP I WILL STARVE MYSELF! AND I DONT WANT TO DO IT BUT THATS HOW BAD I WANT TO LOOSE WEIGHT PLEASE HELP Me!!!

Do not starve yourself. If you do, and eat one thing- all the weight will just come back. Don't do it.

You can try to run everyday, and do crunches and pushups.
If you do at least 45 minutes of excercise everyday, you will be fine:]

Good luck!

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Hi,

I'm worried about my height. I'm not really WORRIED...im just confused.

ok, so both my mom AND dad are 5'8..ok? but i'm only 5'2. I dont know if this helps but I'm 14 & I got my period two weeks ago. My foot size is a 9..and thats about it.

haha, so do you think there's a chance of me growing?

thanks.

Thanks for the inbox!
Well- since you just got it, you are probably about to have a huge growth spurt. If your parents are that tall, I would predict that you will be 5'5'-5'6.
You will grow:]

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well im going to an outlet in a few days, and it has like american eagle, pac sun, and coach and stuff. i was wondering, are the clothes at outlets like crap and i shouldnt waste my time, or are they actually good? and are they regular price, or cheaper? and do they like have a good selection and all? i've obviously never been to one.

They are basically the same clothes you will find in stores, but on a major discount. I went to the Old Navy one, and got a pair of pants for 2 dollars:]

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i found a tick in my hair today, and i was sooooooooo freaked out. i am still, how can i prevent getting them? and how do they get in your hair? please dont tell me stuff that will freak me out, because thats the last thing i need :D thanks!!!

This happened to me when I was little- I cried my little eyes out- but it bit me.

Keep your hair in a ponytail when outdoors- and aviod wooded areas that have a lot of brush and leaves and trees.

Good luck!

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well this is really kinda a pointless question.. but i really want to remove advertizement at the top of my myspace page becuase it looks A LOT better with out it.. i have the code.. but then again there is a chance that my myspace could get deleted and i have a lot of friends and a lot of comments and picture comments.. so like what are the odds that my space will get deleted.. should i remove it or not.. because i want to remove it but i dont want my myspace to get deleted.

Well- it isn' very likely, but they have been looking at the pages more to crack down on this. It is kind of like this site- if you had a code(which there isnt one), and remove the ads- DN would attack you because it is losing the site money. I would not do it- just because there is that chance.

Good luck

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can u tell me how to make ur page like that on advicanators?

I dont understand- how do you want your page to look?

Please specify:]

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How did you manage to get 1000 so quickly?

Hey:]
I pressed the random question link and answered those all day. It isnt easy!

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How do you know if you're a summer, autumn, fall, or spring? In color tones.

Depends on your features- dark features= winter.

Lighter= summer

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If I do about 100 crunches a day do you think i'll have a flatter stomach by September? And ill also be drinking alot of water. But do you think my stomach will be flatter by the time school starts if I 100 or more crunches a night ? Thanks for the help!!

That might do something. You need a good diet too.

Keep drinking water, and no soda- good luck!

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I'm fifteen year old girl, and I really need some help.
I want to run away from home...I really do. My life...well, I don't want to tell everything...because...it's hard. BUt I think I can tell as much as I can. I have Chronic Lyme Disease, and so does my brother. My brother has had it way longer than I, and he isn't in a good place. He yells, he curses, screams at me and my parents. He even hurts me...like physical. He calls my mom names! And he treats her like s*it. He treats the whole family like this! He treats us as if we are his personal servants. My mom will be nice and get him stuff, and then my brother will yell that she doesn't do anything for him, and that all we do is yell at him and yadda yadda. I can't take it! He calls me names as well (Dumb f*ckin b*tch is one of the names) and it hurts me too much...all I hear is yelling and fighting anymore....and it hurts me, so much. And I try to help out so much here, but I can only do so much. BUt it seems like my parents want me to still help, even though my brother won't help at all. I think I'm about to go insane!I've read a mag about why girls want to run away...and I know I shouldn't, but I'm just getting to that point...where I dunno what else to do. I try to ignore my brother, and pretend that there is no fighting going on...but...a girl can only pretend so long. I do have a depression problem, but I am taking meds for that. I would talk to my friends about it...but none of them understand what is going on, because I act differently around them...because I want to pretend that I'm normal...atleast a bit normal. I want to scream...I wanna yell, but I can't. Since I have Lyme Disease, I can't do too much physical stuff because of my extreme joint and muscle pain...and more. I start hurting and aching even if I don't do anything, even if I just walk for a while. My parents will...like today, one of our dogs took off, and I'm trying to find something with her collar so that if she runs away, we press a button on it, and t shocks her, and she runs bakc. And we can't find it...I looked for a long time, and then I stopped because of my brother hurting me, and then...I just...started crying(which I can't cry much)and...then my mom called me and said that I should be helping and all that. And I yelled I was helping...and I just...I need help...please...help me. I know I can't run away because I have to take many meds to help fight the Lyme, but I'm at the point where I will run away soon...or something. And I did have a therapist, but I don't talk to her much anymore because my brother was getting better...but now?

Think of your family before yourself. Think of what they need- not you. It will not solve anything by running away- only make it worse.

Please dont=[

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15/f

OK so this may sound weird but I'm desperate. The problem is that neither me or my bf are very good kissers. Not to say that I don't love kissing him anyway, I just want it to work and be great but I've never had much experience nor has he. I've heard that practice makes perfect and hey, I'm willing but I was just wondering if there is anything else I can do like any techniques (for lack of a better word) or something that can help me or us become better. If you can, please help.

Just keep practicing. You will get better. Try kissing the back of your hand too:]

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16/f, I want to sing more than anything.
I'm not too good at it but.
Please don't just tell me I need to spend all this money to go to a place where they can teach me singing. I just want to be able to do it and I don't want my parents to know its kinda embarrassing.
Is there only certain people who can sing or can you train yourself? I can't read music either. Or is it possible that certain people can only sing certain songs?
Maybe I'm just not trying the right songs?
Thanks so much to everyone who can help me

The only thing you can do is practice.

Try singing different genres of music and see what best suites you.

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Song?

Hats need a beat
Like awake needs asleep
Like a pen needs a page
To be right you need a mistake

so much love- the rocket summer.

Good song:]

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Song?

Roses roses sold out

That is meg and dia roses.

Try google:]

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