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I'm Christina, and I'm 27. I tend to be brutally honest when I give advice or an opinion. I don't tell people what they want to hear but rather what they need to hear. They don't always appreciate it at first, but I usually get a thank you in the end.


I have 15 tattoos, and 8 piercings. I'm married and just gave birth to a baby boy in May. I'm currently a SAHM so you can find me taking care of my son and binge-watching television while he naps.

advice

see i like this guys and i have for a very long time, well me and him have kissed and done stuff, but i dotn know if hes using me or not. i mean hes kinda got another girl and he hasnt said anything about gettin rid of her so i think he might be using me but he tells me all this stuff about how he has feelings for me and how hes falling for me and stuff, adn he even told me he loved me. i mean weve had sex, but i dont know if i want to continue having sex or doing stuff with him (sexually) until the other girl is gone, becuase i feel kinda bad for doing stuff when i know the other girl doesnt know about me and i dont wanna feel like awhore. But, i also really really REALLY really like him!!! a LOT!! and i dont wanna lose what we actually do have=] im really confused and i would love some advice. Please HELP ME!!

If there's another girl on the side, he's using you. Get rid of him.

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ok u know the guy i dumped for tallon he was just using me !!! and before i dumped him he was hanging out with this girl ignoring me and he said he loved me and now i miss tallon im sooo mad and when i dumped him the girl he was hanging out with they went out after i dumped him and she dumped her bf again for him!

Tell him that you made a mistake & you still love him. You should've never dumped your boyfriend in the first place, because now look. It came up & bit you in the ass when you least expected it. That's what you get.

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does anyone know where i can get the picture of the image they put at the begining of "read my mind" by the killers
-the part where they show all of tokyo from the sky

I can't say it enough.
GOOGLE.
GOOGLE.
GOOGLE.
GOOGLE.
GOOGLE.

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what kinds of things can a nitendo ds do? i know games but what else? i wanna get one but im not sure yet.. what kind of games do u recommend? thanx

Wait, I have the best answer ever:

Use google.

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someone posted "you fail at life" as a youtube comment to a video of my funny math teacher dancing. its really dumb of them because it really was funny and hes a cool teacher.. most people dont think negatively of him, really.. well kids for that matter, lol. how can i respond to this? should i say "no you fail" or "you know what? your mom" or anything else that will tell this kid off? lol thanks

Don't sink to their level because it makes you just as dumb. Just don't retaliate at all & leave it alone.

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ok so i was wondering what would you reccommend a razr or another pic phone? i have altell if that counts. pros and cons please and thankyou!

I have the black razr, and it's an okay phone, but sometimes when you press a button, it takes a while for what you want to pop up. It's sorta fast with the internet connection & whatnot. The pictures are an okay quality when it's on a certain lighting. I like it though. It's good enough for me. I would ask them what the phone is like before you buy it. If they have it on display & the phone is turned on, check it out first so you can make a decision on which one you want. =)

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What are you supposed to do after a guy kisses you? Do you just sit there and don't say anything?

Smile, or kiss him back. =)

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is it true she is dead?

Yeah, unfortunately she did. R.I.P.

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ok i have a formal dance in 3 weeks. I went to stores to try on dresses but because my boob's are kind of small every dress i tried on looked BAD !! and they all looked good on my friends =( is there any certain stores or places i can find a dress that will fit me ?? HELP

Try DEB or Macy's. They've got some cute dresses that might fit you.

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I'm going to one of my best friends birthday party this Saturday. I'm planning on just giving her money but I would also like some other things to give her.

My question is what other little things could I bring her? Ballons, card.. that kind of stuff? Ideas.. please & thank you. :]

Buy her a funny card & make her a mix cd of songs you know she doesn't have. Bake her the cookies she loves most, or buy her some cute accessories from Claire's. =)

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So, not this weekend, but next weekend is the almighty shredfest. It's a local show with a bunch of local bands, and they're all really good. It's in Panama City which is about 45 minutes from where I live. My mom doesn't like me going out there. Last time I did, I ended up lying and doing a bunch of bad stuff. It's been a few months since then. But, anyways, back to shredfest. See, that weekend my parents are going out of town for mardi gras. I was gonna go, but then I remembered its the weekend of shredfest. My mom said I can stay at a friend's house that weekend. But, I was'nt even planning on telling her about shredfest. I was gonna just say I was going to the mall or something, thens pending the night at a friends. Now, I might be able to spend the night at my friend Kylie's, but her parents are strict, and I'm afraid my mom will talk to them, and they'll tell her about shredfest. I don't know if I should take my chances, and ask her, or if I should lie, and just risk it.

If you really wanna go, I'd risk it.

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alright this might be lnog but here it goes..
so ive known this guy, call him Jack since 4th grade
well we started going out voer the summer
and i honestly fell in love.
like i cannot even describe in words how it felt when i was around him.
abut anways..
we went on adn off for a few months

then along came kyle,
whom im with now
and jack is with molly


thw thing is..
i really still love jack
and he said he'd always love me
but i dont know what to do?


help plz

Time heals everything.

If you still really love Jack though, I would break up with Kyle. It's unfair to him that you're in love with someone else WHILE you're with him.

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ok well i am kind of embarrassed saying this but i do not get pimples very often but when i do they are BIG and NOTICABLE. all i have to use now is clearasil and i have been using it for a week now and the pimple STILL hasnt gone away !! what can i use what can i do !! helppppp !!

Get some proactive.

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Love at 16...?
What do you guys think? Is it possible? Or is it just a bunch of teen emotions?

It could be teen emotions. But you know when you love someone.

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okay, it's thursday. i'm having a huge party on friday, which is tommorow. I woke up this morning with an EXCRUCIATING sore throat.

is there any hope for me? how do i get rid of it and fast?

Eat lots of coughdrops.

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I have been in a relationship this guy for about 9 months. For now he dosent like to use condoms and i dont either. To be honest we only used condoms a couple of times. I just dont like using condoms,however I am on the depo shot, even though we dont use condoms he nutted in me is it still possible that i can get pregnant. I do think he has low sperm count because his sperm is not completely white, its a little clear/white looking but not white, and he doesnt have any kids. However this other dude that i was messing with before he has a baby and his cum is white, so how come his cum is white and my boyfriends cum is clear looking does that mean he cant have children, because i dont have any childen right now. I am a college student, but i want kids in the future probably with him, but i dont know if he can have kids. he has had alot of girlfriends and doesnt have any kids.

Do you want him to have kids by other females? I doubt it. Just because he hasn't had kids by any other girls doesn't mean he's not capable. Everyone's sperm is different. Anyways, the birth control you're on is 99% effective. If you're worried, take the morning after pill.

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okay well today on the bus my boyfriend, lets call him tim, well he was like "you can't even see your earrings cuz your hair is like waahhh" we have been going out for a week and a day and then my friend like help up his hand to "pound it" and like a did a hive five so he like pounded the high five i guess you would call it because i am just random like but anyway then tim was like "now thats just retarded" and that kinda made me mad i dont know. and he usually says i love you when we say by on the phone but he didnt today. do u think he is mad at me or was he just playing around on the bus or maybe he had a bad day? i dont know, please help!

thanks in advance!

Maybe he had a bad day or whatever. Or maybe his parent's were really up his ass about something. If he asked you to hang out on Saturday, I don't think he's mad at you. Anyways, ask him what's wrong, and if he says nothing, don't keep bugging him unless you think he's lying. But, I'd take his word for it. I just think he's had a bad day. Nothing to worry about. =)

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ok well lets put it this way i laugh alottt.. im one of them people that laughs at the randomest stuff, so pretty much everything. but it gets kinda embarrassing because whenever i laugh i tend to laugh really hard and my face turns SO red and i start "crying" even if i dont really intend to laugh hard or even if ive only been laughing a few seconds. people kinda tease me about it. not rlly "tease", but you know. any thing i can do to laugh less hard and less ..dramatic? lol

Why would you wanna laugh less hard & less dramatic? Laughing is the best gift, and the best cure. =) You should be happy. I'm pretty much the same way. I'm usually cracking up. I remember in 8th grade, I'd laugh at EVERYTHING. Every 7th block I'd have to be sent out because I'd cry or snort from laughing so hard. Haha, if people don't like your laugh, that's their problem. Keep laughing, keep smiling, live life & fuck what people think. =)

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ok so i like this girl in my spanish class. we occasionally talk and when we do we talk for a long time. she flirts with me through myspace and stuff. i talk to her on the phone from time to time but other than that we dont rele talk to each other much in spanish. she said she wants to take me to the mall this weekend so i plan on going. how can i impress her and try to ensure that she likes me. and when would be a good time to ask her out? please help. thanks. i rate high for advice

When you guys are at the mall, be silly & make her laugh alot. But don't be immature. Compliment her, and flirt with her. =) And when you think things are going good, ask her out.

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does anyone no what i could do to lose my legs but not my butt becasue everything i do to lose my legs i also lose my butt
HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Run.

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