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unprotected sex on birthcontrol
I have been in a relationship this guy for about 9 months. For now he dosent like to use condoms and i dont either. To be honest we only used condoms a couple of times. I just dont like using condoms,however I am on the depo shot, even though we dont use condoms he nutted in me is it still possible that i can get pregnant. I do think he has low sperm count because his sperm is not completely white, its a little clear/white looking but not white, and he doesnt have any kids. However this other dude that i was messing with before he has a baby and his cum is white, so how come his cum is white and my boyfriends cum is clear looking does that mean he cant have children, because i dont have any childen right now. I am a college student, but i want kids in the future probably with him, but i dont know if he can have kids. he has had alot of girlfriends and doesnt have any kids.
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I'm not sure how effective the shot is... But I have to say that I don't believe any type of birth control is 100% effective. I say that because I have several friends that have gotten pregnant while on one type of birth control or another. In my opinion, if you really want to be safe... Use two forms of birth control. A condom would probably be the most effective and easiest.
And... I know this wasn't part of your question... But someone pointed out that birth control doesn't protect you from STD's. If you aren't using anything to protect you from STD's, have both of you been tested? Or... Have you have you at least had a conversation about your sexual history and any illnesses?
As for his sperm count... My father was told he was sterile. Um... Yeah. He wasn't. Otherwise, I wouldn't be sitting here infront of my computer right now. So... Just remember that no matter how low is sperm count is... It only takes one getting past your defenses.
As for the possiblity of reproducing in the future... I wouldn't break up with this guy right now over something like that. Give yourself some time, find out if you really want to spend the rest of your life with this guy first, and go from there. Because... Let's say you two decided to get married in the future, and that you wanted to have children. Even if his sperm count is very low... There are still steps you can take to get pregnant, technological advances that will help you get pregnant, and options if you can't. A good question to ask yourselves might be... How do you feel about adoption? There are plenty of kids out there that need parents...
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Okay. I'm also on the shot and my boyfriend and I also do not use condoms. However, I recommend that you get tested for STD's. The shot is VERY effective so I wouldn't worry TOO much. Everyone's cum is different. It might not necessarily mean that he cannot have kids. Just make sure you get your shot on the day you are supposed to and please get an STD test.
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Do you want him to have kids by other females? I doubt it. Just because he hasn't had kids by any other girls doesn't mean he's not capable. Everyone's sperm is different. Anyways, the birth control you're on is 99% effective. If you're worried, take the morning after pill.
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The Depo Provera shot is greater than 99% effective, but that's only if you follow the doctor's instructions and get it on time every time. It doesn't protect you against sexually transmitted diseases, however, and if your man has had a lot of girlfriends, I would suggest that you use condoms. If you won't do that, at least both of you should get tested for STDs. You should not have sex with him at all without a condom unless you are sure that he is 100% exclusive with you. It's not because I'm a prude - it's because STDs can be hidden for years while they make you infertile and predispose you to cancer. You can damage your health in the long-term without feeling any symptoms in the short-term. The other question you had is about his sperm. Sperm color does not indicate a man's fertility. I found this easily on Google:
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Good luck.
Sabine
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