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Okay, this guy really likes me and stuff like that. i am starting to like him to, but he isn't the cutest guy ever, what should I do?? (link)
Forget about him if he's not the cutest guy out there. You're just protecting your genes, that's noble. Let the ugly people die out in hopes of an attractive tomorrow. Down with ugly people!


I have a problem I did somthing i shouldent have my mom told me never But i was curios so I looked a porno online should i tell her i looked at it or just leave it as is? (link)
That's pretty funny. Go ahead, tell her. At least you didn't "do" anything, right? She'll appreciate your honesty and go easier on you if she ever finds porn on the computer. Try to at least sound like you regret ever doing it though. It sounds like you and your mother share a close bond since your even considering telling her. So tell her, she'll appreciate finding out this way as opposed to the alternative. Your dead if the alternative occurs.


what is halitosis? (link)
bad breath.


i waz going out with this grl but then i went on vacatin. when i got back i got my freind to break up with her n the day after she called my friends when i waz there and i started callin her names liek i said she waz ugly n anoying n stuff like taht. i herd she cried for like a week or so. so now skool is back and i seen her and she got soo much hotter!!! i wana ask her out but i dont think she wud say yes cuz what i did 2 her so wut am i suposed 2 do !!?? (link)
I've heard many cases where guys do this to girls, but not girls doing this to girls. You are a girl, right? At least that's what your column and all the other questions you asked about said. What happened to the guy you asked so many questions about? Well, if she has any self respect, she wouldn't go out with you. Especially since your only into looks. Unless, of course, this is completely made up.


OK...i went to "browse columnists" and i couldnt find myself!Is there something i need to know so that i can find myself cause i rly want to see how im doing!thnx 4 answerin if u can!xoxo (link)
I found your column, go under more options for a more narrow search. The first list is the list of people who has most recently given advice.


I had to enter your name under the "Name starts with" option. If you give an answer to someone's question right now, your name should be at the top of the list for most the recently updated category. Since I've answered your question mine should be near the top as proof.


wow your advice was really great to me. I dotnt wanna kill myself but it did get worse. Yesterday was my moms b-day and she cried tears of HATE . he ought her the cake he liked called her terrible names and they dont even talk now. My friends parents just went through this and there divorced.....

What am I gonna do?

oh my dad says nly certain people csn come over the friends Im bysexula w/
so I can tell him what I do..
I always hae to lie.
what am I gonna do???

help!!!!!!! (link)
Your father definitely seems unstable, and I think the healthiest thing for you and your mother to do right now is get as far away from him as possible.

I know talking to your mother about this might seem like the last thing in the world you want to do, it may be the best, if not only, solution. It's very possible the reason she's staying with him is for your benefit, so if she's aware of the entire picture she'll be able to see how much better off both of you would be without him.

It may seem terrible because you two wouldn't have as much money, maybe not even a steady income (Depends on what your mother's financial situation if you two left him), but think about how great it would be to live without your father's harrassment, verbal abuse, etc. There's always ways of getting help financially (Food stamps, job possibilities, etc). Contact me again if I'm misinterpreting something or you need more help.


Besides identifiable sexual attraction, how can one tell the difference between a crush and great love for a friend? If a friend really wants physical contact with another friend, but not necessarily sex, what is that?
Please answer. I really will rate. (link)
I think, contrary to apparent popular belief, if you just want to be close without sex it isn't lust. I think it's intimate love, sometimes hard to find. An intimate love is basically the type of love you feel for someone without the extremely strong feelings you'd have with someone you're dating. It's someone you can talk to about anything, and be absolutely comfortable with.

A crush, to me, is basically lust. It's just overwhelming feelings you feel for someone, most of the time the feelings are sudden and you hardly know the person. It hardly goes past physical attraction. Maybe the difference between a crush and a love for a friend is how well you know the person.


Ok heres my story....
On the third day of 6th grade My friends and I were standing in our group outside at recess, My friend Rachel had just broken up with this kid Kevin that she had been dating, then Rachel dared me to go up to kevin and tell him that his hair was wacked, so I did. The bad thing about it is I started to like thsi kid. The next day I went to the movies with him cuz we were going out now. We went to go see "Brother Bear" And out of nowhere he kissed me (my first kiss, and his too) I thought it was sooooooo gross like barfworthy gross cuz he was like the fattest kid in the grade! But then I went home and thought about it for a while and realized that I actually liked it, but then a few days later he dumped me...and that goes on for a while. One day I went to the movies...not kknowing he was gonna be there, and then we madeout (my first makeout)After that, kevin started talking to my cousin online, who by the way lives in Maine, and he told her that he had feelings for me that were like way more then a friend. So once again we went out. This time was way more serious...see My friend Sarah was involed with his friend Jeffro, and jeffro lived near sarah so we all decided to meet kevin and jeffro at jeffors house. We would switch on and off between the couch and Jeffros bedroom. It wsa me and Kevin's turn on the couch and I got ontop of him and we were makeingout(keep in mind I am only 12) Then we stoped and he was staring at me and he told me that he loved me and that he wished this day would never end, we started makeingout again and then Jeffros mom walked in. We didn't get in trouble though. Two days after that Kevin broke up with me and I had to go to the hospital cuz I was soo devistated. Its now 2 months later and kevin claims to hate me...but after all we've been through I can't seem to let go...someone please help me!
signed....
Broken Hearted (link)
Does he have a reason to back up him new opinion of you? If so, what are they? There seems to be several gaps in this. Anyway, keep in mind your only 12, you'll meet other guys. You probably only feel this strong because he was your first real boyfriend. Stop associating or talking about Kevin, and try talking to other guys.


I asked a question and submitted it and it said go back and select a category so did my question work?

ill rate
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No, it did not.


I am sick of guys treating me badly or not being right for me. I'm going back to school soon and I want to meet someone new who makes me laugh etc, what qualities do guys look for in a girl and how should I go about meeting people? (link)
Very masculine features, ignorance, and she can't be funny or show any emotion what-so-ever. Oh yeah, and she has to be really, really hairy.


Hi , okay when i wake up and i brush my teeth , after i get a HORRIBLE stomach ache ! it really sucks because it ruins my day ! is it normal? am i doing something wrong when i brush my teeth? PLEESE HELP ! I RATE 5 ! (link)
It could be so many things I don't even know where to start. If it bothers you this much, go see a doctor. I had an occasional stomach ache and they had to do several tests to find out what it was. They gave me this long list of things that it could have been, and it was nothing on the list, so it's hard telling. It could be a reaction your body's having from the paste, it could be something else. Try switching brands of tooth paste if you think that's the problem.


OMG!! U R HoTT!! Da HoTTest CaSsOwArY Evar!!! (link)
Awww Thankies Ur sweet SD


Well im 13..and i stil havent kissed a guy yet. All my friends have done so much more with a guy and i feel so stupid cuz i havent even kissed a guy yet. But I have a boyfriend now and im ready to do it..but the problem is how?

I rate good :) (link)
Don't ask the repeat questions that have been deleted before.


I'm moving pretty soon, and I really want to have a "theme" for my new room. I get whatever I want, and I don't know what would look good, my interests:

1. Anime and manga (Japanese stuff) That's my favorite, I really want a Japanese style room.

2. Nature.

3. Dark stuff, i.e. kind of punkish.

4. American Eagle, and Aeropostale. I know you can't really make that into a theme, but y'know.

5. California! =D

Thanks? (link)
Well, you can find Japanese stuff anywhere nowadays. If you got money, try buying bamboo trees. 3 and 4 will never make sense together.


umm if my boy friend likes me but then he dumped me for a gay...! why is that??? (link)
What!? Are you saying your boyfriend is gay, he dumped you, and you don't know why? It's because he's gay. It happens a lot.


hey i am like a punk kid. and i really dont like preps very much. but my mom is like anti-punk and loves preps. and she is really into the "preppy" clothes and attitude and all that good stuff. lol. ok well thats NOT me but how do i tell her without her freaking out. i mean i want to get my tongue pierced and my ears pierced a lot. but my mom is just not understanding for my personality. people tell me "Be yourself who cares what others think" but how can you be yourself when your mother is making you another. how do i try to show my mom that i am not like her? (link)
What's with kids and labels these days? I always thought it wasn't about what you wore, it was about who you were. Your mother probably won't change her mind, but you could try to negotiate with her. If she lets you get your tongue pierced, you will do this and that. If this doesn't work, you'll have to wait until you're old enough to do it without her permission.


Hey everyone.. well i need some advice here.. see my b/f is going away for 3/4 for labor day weekend, and i want to get him like a going away present, nothin too, i can't think of the word but you know, just something simple yet cute. i was thinking about getting a small box, not too small though, and decorating it, like maybe cutting out letters from magazines and make it say "i love you" or something. then in the box i want to put like hershey kisses in there and maybe a cute picture of me. then i wanna write like a little love note to put in the box as well. in the note i wanna say something along the lines of "this is since i can't be with you, since u can't have any kisses from me, or you won't be able to see me" but you know more detail, i wanna make it be almost a page long to make him feel special. and then at the end i'll use "xoxo hugs nd kisses" and stuff.. i haven't thought about everything i'm gonna put in the letter yet though. but anyways.. so i guess my question is, do you like my idea? (got it from somewer else though) or wut else can i do or put in the letter? also i was thinking about getting one of those big hershey kisses instead of a whole bunch of little ones but i'm not sure yet, which do you think would be better? oh also.. frame or no frame for the picture? i just wanna make him feel special, loved, ect.. i wanna let him know how much he means to me and how much i love him and am going to miss him over these days.. so any ideas would help me, thanks in advance and if you want rated ask. sorry if it's long Lol, bye. (link)
To be honest, this is a fine idea and all, but he's probably going to like it no matter what it is. He's probably going to like it simply because it's from you. a frame might be over-doing it a little bit, he's only going to be gone for a few days. Instead of choosing between little kisses and a big kiss, why don't you place a big kiss in the middle and surround it with little ones. Unless of course you think this would be overdoing it too. Give it too him right before he leaves, so you can just tell him to open it on the way. This way it won't be as melted.


Ive been going out with this one boy for about 2 months. and i like him a lot but we havent kissed! and i do not make the first move. how can i make him kiss me?

14/f (link)
Try making up your mind on how old you are. You date a guy for two months and don't even kiss him, yet you spontaneously have sex with your brother, who has gotten you pregnant. I'm suprised he hasn't dumped you yet.


I really need help i gave head *on my own free will* to my brother! what should i do bc now hes touching me and stuff. what should i say to him to make him stop. (link)
Stop asking questions about you and your brother's sex life!


is wakling just (or close) as good for you as running? like can i loose weight from walking 20 minutes a day or does it have to be running? thanks i rate!! (link)
You can lose weight walking if that's what you're asking.




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