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What there to say about me? I'm 27 and a graduate of UCSD. Throughout my life most of my close friends have been girls so I have a unique perspective on relationships and sex. I know a lot about computers as well as random stuff in general. Feel free to ask me anything and I'll answer it to the best of my knowledge.
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I have to do a school project on a controversial/ethical subject and I wanted to choose something other than the death penalty or abortion. I have chosen to do underage drinking. As part of research for the project we have been asked to gather different points of view about the topic and I decided Advicenators would be an ideal place to get some of these opinions/experiences.

If you could take a few minutes to answer these questions/give any additional infomation then it would be very much appreciated.

Did you drink when you were underage? (I know that the legal age varies in different countries, so just go with whatever the legal age is where you are). If so, how often? Where and how did you obtain the alcohol? I'm focussing a large section of the paper on the use of fake ID/asking older friends etc to buy alcohol for you, so if you have any experiences with that, then please let me know in as much detail as possible.

Thank you. (link)
I drank occasionally when I was underage. Nothing serious. Mostly wine and such at family dinners. An occasional party here and there.


if you continue to have sex after the man cums, so his penis is softer. will the condom let his cum slip out? or will it stay on tight. (link)
well, if you some how manage to keep doing it when he is soft, which would be pretty damn hard (no pun intended) the condom is liable to slip off entirely. so its a bad idea.



I know Vanessa Hudgens took a nude pic that got around the internet, but is she gonna be in HSM3? I hear she's not. (link)
accodring to
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Vanessa_Hudgens
she should still be in it.


would it be weird if you go to a dance with your cousin?? iam just wondering because i really want to know if it would be..but it would be in a friendly way..no attachment or else that would be weird to like your family member...gross..so if u think it is weird can you tell me!!! (link)
in most high schools, you probably wouldnt be able to live it down. you could just not tell people its your cousin, say neighbor or something.


do you think 5'8" 100 pound and a cup is sexy?? what about waves vs. straight hair (link)
No. You are unhealthyly skinny.


alright. so i just got a henna tatoo on my ancle. its a small one, not HUGE. but idk how to take care of it, do i have to do anything special with it? nething will be helpful thanks so much. (link)
uhhhh I'm pretty sure brie down there is talking about regular tattoos. anyways you don't have to do anything special for it. don't scrub there when you shower, but beyond that nothing. mine lasted about two weeks.


on some of people's myspace pics there's a caption that says sum1 owns that pic wat does that mean
Example: go to this site
http://i39.photobucket.com/albums/e151/hip9314/untitled-1.jpg
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it doesnt mean they own that pic, it just means they own. in this context, its basically a synonym for "rules"


So i have a 2 year contract with cingular whichis now AT&T. I'm 1 year into it and I REALLY hate my phone...my dad picked it out. I found one that I want it's refurbished on the internet here it is:

http://www.wireless.att.com/cell-phone-service/packages/packages-details.jsp?q_package=sku980050


thats the phone. I looked at the new ones and took tkhe phone tour and stuff, I really want it. Im going to pay for it with my own money but I want to know if it will be $200.00 by the time I pay the activation fee and break my contract with my current phone.


so my question is:
About how much do you think my phone will be by the time I break my contract (remember I'm one year into the 2 year contract) and pay the activation fee?

Don't count in the plan package because I'm not sure which one I want yet my dad is going to help me figure that out.

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The contract ties you to service, it doesnt tie you to the phone. You wont have to even activate it. You can just take the sim card out of your phone, and pop it into that one, and you will be all set. No activation fee, no termination fee. You just dont get the discount you would normaly get when getting a new phone.


Does anyone know some good songs that has to do with a guy you like but he likes another girl? If you do let me know, thanks. (link)
girlfriend by avril lavigne should suit you nicely.


i heard the song called pearl necklace by zz top. and i liked it but didnt quite know what it meant. i started singing it the other day in front of my mom && she got snobby && asked if i knew. but i just agreed.what does it mean. i do know it`s sex related. (link)
http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=pearl+necklace



When I feel annoyed or/and pissing I give out short answers to my friend and family when they ask a question, I snap at them, I will have a frown on my face and curse at anything under my breath. But Lara laughs and teases when I am annoyed and pissed. I don’t take it seriously because she said she loves doing that to me and I know she is joking and she always get hyper too but I want to know why does she giggle at me?


FROM:I need a 2nd opinion
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Some people are just better at handling angry people than others are.


Ok my little sister needs to start shaving her legs, but she refuses because she's afraid of the razor cutting her and stuff. Is there anything I can say to her that will convince her to start shaving? She won't wax or use nair either. Thanks for any help you can give, I'd really appreciate it. (link)
try shaving in front of her, that should show her that there is nothing to be afraid of. then offer to help her the first few times.


is there ways you can earn on the net? like selling e-books for example?
if so what are the website links? (link)
yes there are sites here and there. the problem is, 98% of them are scams. its usually not worth the risk. ebay is your best bet.


I became depressed and never liked myself because of who I am I want to run away from every one to keep them away from my depression. But I couldn’t hold it in, I told them what was wrong and they said I should tell Lara how I feel. I deny it for 7 years to not tell her but it got to the point that I was about to blow! So I told Lara that I am bi sexual and I am in love with her. Lara was in shocked but stayed there by my side to listen to me. She respected me and will try to help me as much as she can.

After I told Lara how I felt 10 months ago I went to a party and met this guy, nothing happen but I told Lara about it. She then got mad, she said she was not sure to be happy for me or pissed. I didn’t understand what she meant.

I told her that I am moving on and you are not making it easy on me. And she said she was jealous because she didn’t want to drift apart from our friendship and was afraid that we won’t be close anymore. She told me that she was jealous of my last two boyfriends in the year of high school. I told Lara that the reason why I went out with them is because I want to get over her and move on. And that’s why I want to move away to rethink my thoughts. She ask me why I liked her and I said i don’t know how it happened but it did. but i am attracted by smarts, mysterious and adventures personality and that’s what you are.
but i really can’t explain it, its hard to put into words.
I even ask her if she wanted a boyfriend and she said “no not really”.
I got mad at Lara because it sounded like she like me back and I didn’t want her to (even thou I do wish it)
Because I don’t think I can be good in a relationship because of me not believing in myself.
I told Lara that but she didn’t respond to it.

Everything is slowly getting together and right now I am letting things settle.
But I am wondering…

Did she like me back more than a friend or was she afraid of losing our friendship?
And
What does she mean “we won’t be close anymore”?
(The only thing of close I can think of is that she leans on me and holds me sometimes for no reason)
and
When she said she was jealous of my last two boyfriends did that mean she like me then in our high school year or she wanted a boyfriend?


and i got the chat room talk we had about it (2nd part) if you like to read it let me know. its long.

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Wow, thats really a lot more complicated than I expected. Best guess I can venture is, she does kind of like you, but is strugling with her sexuality.


I need a second opinion about this situation I am having. If you are gay, lesbian, bisexual, or it doesn’t matter if you are straight. I would gladly tell you my problem (it’s a bit long.) Send me a reply and I will send u my question. thank you.

f/20/Bi (link)
I'm straight, but I have quite a few gay/bi friends. Maybe I can help?


Hello guys. I was wanting to know how someone can whore me on myspace. I really want more friends on there. I've tried changing my default pic a lot, or just putting a new survey on, but I never get more. Is there anything in particular that I should change that would attract someone to my profile? I do have my profile set to where anyone can send me messages or view my profile. Sometimes I get messages from random people, but it's never a lot. If someone can, please let me know how my sister can whore me. And any other information you wanna give. Thank you so much. Sorry this question is so stupid. (link)
join lots of groups, bots go into groups, and add all the members pretty often. itll be crappy porn advertisement friends, but hey itll be friends. you can also talk to people in groups and then add them.


Would any of you happen to know how to trick or convince two straight male men to make out? It is for a good cause I promise. (link)
offer them money.


in about september 06-march 07 i was with this kid i REALLY liked a lot. he broke up with me in march because i did a lot of bad shit to him which i totaly regret. i cried over him almost everynight.. and i knew that we would never get back together ever again. my ex really did hate me and i knew it. i still liked him a lot up until about julyish..then i started to like this other guy [but i still had my ex in the back of my mind] i went on vacation and when i got back the guy who i liked asked me out and we are now going out..however i kept having dreams about my ex and i wanted to talk to him to just have closure. i had a gut feeling he still had feelings for me but no one would believe me..i decided to text my ex who i hadnt talked to since march. [ we had a few hey,hey,whats up, nm u, nm conversations every now and then but not a real one] i said to him can i tell you something and he said yes and i said okay well ive definately changed a lot since we were together..and i just want to let you know that becuase i pretty much want to apologize for anything stupid i've done and i hope we can be cool now yada yada..and hes said yeah i really disliked you for a while but its cool now but i like realllyy did like you thoguh before all that shit happened.and i said yeah same i realllllyy did like you a lot..and after i did too for a while but its all good..and he said whats a while and i said welll i liked you a few months after we were officially done and then i just had a thing for you. and he said realllyy reallly did you really like me blah blah and i said yeah.. you have no idea.. and then suddenly he goes so i hear your going out with [my bf now] and i know he was considering going back out with me but then he remembered i had a bf. i said yeah and he said thats cool im talking to him now and i said cool and he said yeah. its friggen awesome..and he startyed to act all moody. i had a feeling it was becuase i did actually have a boyfreind now and he did still have feelings for me.. sorry this is so long im almost done :]]] haha bottom line..i still really love my ex and i woke up this morning thinking about my ex and not my bf..i like my bf but i love my ex. i know if i break up with my bf my ex will go back out with me. but my bf is a reallllllyyy great guy who doesnt deserve that. please help me i realllyyy have no idea what to do. i need serious help becuase my friends dont know what to say either. thank you so much xoxo (link)
if you really want to be with your current boy, then you have to break all ties with your ex. Otherwise, you won't get over him, and that won't be fair for any of you. If you don't want to leave your feelings for your ex, then go date him.


wut if its like 32k and i dont hav an income. any idea of about how much it could be>? (link)
32k is really close to the borderline, but generarly, the fafsa is fair, and leaves you with enough to be able to pay for college.



ok i met this guy and he has a hare lip and it doesn't bother me at all i see through it. but my mom said that if you really didn't care you wouldn't notice it. I still notice it but it doesn't bother me. Is my mom right?? (link)
nope, she isnt. its easy to notice stuff and not be bothered by it.




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