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I joined this site when I was very young (hence the ridiculous username) but now I feel I'mn old enough to give out advice.Ask me anytime. I have had my fair shares of family issues, as well as good at solving relationship problems.
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well i am 13 and i hate my older brother. he always gets me in trouble and he never gets in trouble instead i do. my dad treats him like royality and me like the ugly duckling. what should i do i cant stand him anymore he even broke my new skateboard i got for christmas! should i fin another place to live
I have an older brother.I know what it feels like.But hey, you feel like he is annoying you,provoking you - if you ran away or something he has got the better of you.You have let him won!!You need to igonore what he does.Stay cool.The skatboard thing - its obvious he was upset - he would of liked it instead.Just tell him your cool with it and you dont mind.This then makes him see that your thinking posotive and changing your attitude.He'll think of it as respect.In doing this he'll give it to you back.And with your dad treating him like that - I think it is quite natural really, men love their sons - to discuss football and such.If your upset with your dad tell him how you feel!!Try hanging out with your dad, to learn more about him and vice versa!(and for him to learn about you).Then in doing this when trouble comes he'll understand you better and basically tell when your upset or when your telling the truth.I'm really sorry about your skatboard though.You need to take action!If yout upset and angry dont hurt yourself or run away.How about a online blog or something just to help you get it out in the open
http://www.blogger.com/start
You need to take action because your brother and dad won't!
Sadiexxx
I have a question about what to wear with skirts. I am very new to this. I haven't worn a skirt by choice before. I was thinkin of wearing one to school for the first time, because my boyfriend has only seen me in pants since we have been dating haha (11 months) and i have decided to wear a skirt for him. My question now is what kind've shoes would you wear, like i find it weird to wear boots with a skirt or running shoes with a skirt, could ya help me out? Also any other advice for wearing skirts. Wow, im very embarassed... haha
You could always wear leggings (thick ones) and then wear boots then you might change your mind about boots.!But I personally wear a skirt, leggings and flat dolly shoes or pumps.Dont wear trainers only converses!!!!Hope I helped.
my little sister Dana is turning 13 early next month and we don't know how to celebrate it but we want it to be special. she'd do a sleepover but our mom won't allow it. she's thinking of a party but she dosen't know what theme to use. what do you guys suggest? please help. thanks in advanced.
I did this and it was sooooooooo good - do a hawaiin themed!You can get so many things - grass skirts,inflatable trees.It is sooo fun - I even had a limbo stick!
Heres some site I used and found
http://www.sillyjokes.co.uk/search.php
Today for Christmas, I got $110 and I already had $80, so now I have $190. Well I was thinking of buying this Coach purse for myself: http://www.coach.com/content/product.aspx?product_no=3337&category_id=460 in the brass/khaki/camel color and I was wondering if its a waste of money for $138? Anyone who has it please tell me if it is worth buying and if it has good quality. Please dont say ask my parents to buy it for me or ask anyone else to buy it for me because they sure bought a lot of expensive things for me for Christmas. Thanks!
~Merry Christmas!
For the money no!It is gorge though!You could easily go out and find some the same in style!!
For cheaper and have money left over!
all my frineds make fun of me because my penis is too big, i am 14 and it is 9 inchies. Is i thought it was a good thing to have a penis. Is it?
Hey yes for a male it is great!"The bigger the better" - there's a motto!Hey they're probarbly embaressed and a bit jealous because compared to yours its a chipolata sausage - if you dont know what a chipolata sausage is here is a pic - http://static.flickr.com/46/138708476_4182cadcbe_m.jpg
Don't care what they think
You're
You
i have been looking everywhere for the black-and-white polka dotted coffee mug they always show on friends in the coffee house!
does anybody have ANY idea where i could find one like this?
Well I havnt seen the "friends" cup but I have searched and these are the ones I found!
http://www.edirectory.co.uk/pf/pages/mia.asp?recordid=4841955&cid=880&afid=88888
AND THE MATCHING TEAPOT
http://www.edirectory.co.uk/pf/pages/mia.asp?recordid=4733862&cid=880&afid=88888
OKay so i was on Myspace looking through my friends profiles when i was on this guys site and a SOng came up and really liked it
its about ".....a Wal-mart parking lot....."
PLZ HELP
chris cagle
View the video here
http://musicjesus.com/song_37619_Chris_Cagle-Walmart_Parking_Lot.html
and the lyrics
http://artists.letssingit.com/chris-cagle-wal-mart-parking-lot-qpwvfgl
Ok so my friend(15/f died, along with her dad and brother in a car crash. Her mom and older sister are the only ones who survived.
Alot of people on myspace and msn, ect... are writing a bunch of messages about her and to her family type thing. I was wondering if I should post a bullentin saying that everyone should write a message to them about her or w/e and then we should have someone give them to the mother. Is this a good idea or would it just hurt the family more? I just want to show support and what not so yea...what's the best thing to do?
Well maybe you could raise some money to go towards the funeral or maybe write something for the funeral or maybe write get everyoneto write a mini note and publish it in a small book , and then just put it by her ashes or whatever after.
can you make a smoothie with the only fruit being strawberries? (It is the only fruit right now in my kitchen and Im CRAVING a smoothie of some kind.) what else do I put in the blender? Ice? Milk?
Well I mainly love Fruit smoothies - no milk/ice/cream etc.To make the smoothie thick use banana.And you can always add fruit in like
-blueberries
-blackberries
-banana
-apple
-kiwi (for the zangy taste
-mango
-peach
-melon
-lime/lemon
Experiment!
I personally like strawberry,blueberries and banana - a very good combo
Here are some recipes and ideas people like you and me have come up with (the link is there to get the recipe) http://allrecipes.com/recipes/drinks/smoothies/main.aspx
Whats the different between lust and love? How do you know if youre just "lusting" someone?
Lust is having y physical feelings - like getting turned on,horny etc.Love is basically life!Strong feelings, romanric kissess - not "snogging" if you get what I mean.
so i was flirting w/ this guy last night online and i gave him my number and vice versa. and told him i MIGH text him if he was lucky (in a flirtacious way). well its the next night and i want to but wat should i say? it has to be flirty like along the lines that hes lucky i texted him and stuff but ask him also be something he can respond to
Always text him a question.
"Thinking of you.Wanna know what I'm thinking about you?"
"I had so many hot guys to text.And I chose you.I guess its your lucky day"
"Im so god dam sexy, you're lucky to know me eh?"
"You do know your lucky right?To have a girl lyk me (sexy me) to suddenley text a "lil" some like yourself"
"Guess who!!If you get it right, you could get lucky (though you are because I'm texting you)
Hope I helped
This is my 3rd and hopefully final sick question.
Okay, so Tuesday I left school around 9 because I felt sick. I didn't get sick but I started to feel much better around 11ish. Around 5ish I went to Target to pick up some ginger ale and to get some fresh air. Probably a bad move on my part. I got a stomach ache, but not a bad one. The following morning I felt sick, stayed home from school, got sick around 7:45 was fine by 8"30. Lost the sick feeling by 11ish again. I had one last thing to pick up so I went to target again but this time around 4. I returned home around 5. Ate some crackers and the queasy feeling came back. Why am I giving you these details? My question is - how come from waking up-11ish I feel like crap, but after that I start to feel fine. And I'm sure the reason I get queasy later is because I've gone out.
I don't think I'm contagious because I've been around people and none of them have gotten sick (then again, you never know). So right now I'm wondering, is there any reason why this may be happening. I know it's probably just your assumptions, but it's nice to know. I know that vomiting/fever/runny nose etc is going around and when my mom had it monday night-tuesday afternoon she had talked to her doctor and the doctor said to let it run its course. But I'm kind of weirded out that between 11-probably 4ish I feel fine but any other time I feel icky. Also that when I sleep I don't wake up until my sisters alarm clock goes off around 5:30.
So does anyone have any ideas why this is going on. Or is this something that only a doctor can answer. I'm looking for experiences or something, not necessarily why, but possibilities.
Also, I know I'll probably end up vomiting it up, but I'm REALLY thirsty. So I've been drinking some ginger ale and at this point I don't care if it comes back up. Is that a bad thing? And once the ginger ale is gone (I have about half a water bottle full) Is water the next best thing?
I know this is my 3rd question on the subject, but it's really starting to weird me out. Thanks to those who answer and who have answered the previous 2.
It kind of happened to me.What you need to do is NOT EAT AT ALL for twenty four hours , only drink water but you have to take a small sip every 10 mins.But if you keep puking it up after siping it every 10minz then drink every half an hour, but DONT EAT.I had a doctor visit and the directions Im telling you is what they told me.The things was I so ill that I caught up another bug, maybe that is exactly what has happened with you
ok, so there's this guy at my school that i like. he recently told me he liked me in an e-mail. so we talked and he asked me out and i said yes. but he doesnt want anybody to know he likes me because he is black and i am white. what should i do?
Maybe you should Tell him not to care what others think and if he cant accept that your two different colours and so he has to "hide" you like bits under a rug then you cant be with him.he needs to grow up.So what that your different colours!he needs to get his act together.
alright i really need a little advice here.
thank-you in advance.
Alright well my bestfriend came out and told me that hes liked me for two years. i was very shocked because i would have never guessed. he gave me a list of reasons why he liked me
-im not like other girls
-im cool
-easy to talk to
-good looking
-the only girl that hes liked that has actually paid attention to him
ionno there was a few other things too but i forget. Its all very cute, but there is one problem.... i dont like him back in the way and i told him that i dont want to ruin our friendship if were to date because i value it a lot. and he seemed to get it. Now we talk and its not awkward but he brings up the fact that he likes me. hes always bringing up the fact that he dealt with holding in his emotions for two years and that since i dont want to go out with him he can do it for however longer he has feeling for me. so its all good.... EXCEPT that now im hearing rumours that hes going to ask me out.. and i dont know what to say this time. please help
thanks
how do you know it is going to ruin your friendship.Just give him a chance and say to him..listen, though I want to give this a try, please understand if it dosnt work out that I really want us to still be the best of friends.And for him to come out after 2yrs and then (talking about FUTURE) and for you'd then to break his heart, isnt exactly nice and to know his best ever mate was the one who hurt him - who has he to turn to?
I'm a 14/f and I dont have a best friend. I mean I have friends.... but they're not that close. Like a lot of people I know, are going to the mall with their best friends, and since i dont have a best friend, i'd only have a chance to go to the mall with my mom... ughh and I soo totally dont want to do that.
Well, my point is that in school, we have about 20 minutes before school to do anything we want. And well I am hanging out with my "friends" and they don't really include me... so if they're having a conversation, and I ask a question, they wont answer me and just ignore me. I always feel so alone. I know you might say "just have you're family be your best friends" but I REALLY dont want to have my family be my best friends. I want someone that's my age, and who I can have sleepovers with, and go to the mall with, and just hang out with... but none of my friends don't like me that much. It's like this world doesn't even know I exist.
So my question is How can I stand out to people and try to make friends? Is there any tricks to making a best friend? What should I do about these so called "friends"? Keep talking to them? Ignore them?
I mean, if I start talking to them, they'll just change their mood into like an annoying mood. Suuuure they'll talk to me, but its about something really stupid like "what was the homework assignment for monday?"
Sometimes, if one of my friends, doesn't have anyone to talk to at the time, they'll come to me and start talking to me, but it's not the talking you think it is... its probably more like bragging. Like one of them likes to dance, and if she doesn't have anybody to talk to, she'll come up to me and say "oh my gosh, I can't remember my tap dance sequence... Oh yeah it goes ____" and then she'll like dance infront of me, and like show off.
I don't know what's wrong with me, it's like i'm a back-up friend to everybody... I feel so alone and my subject said "what happens to a lonely person in life?" well... what happens? Will I turn out to be some person who doesn't have a purpose in life?
How can I fix this? I'm SOOOO CONFUSED!!!!!!!!
HELP ME!
It's time.Time to make some new mates.There must be someone you say hi to but never got the chance.Well here is your chance.Your friends...are sick of you and need a break.i hate to be harsh but someone needs to do it.Sorry.Anyways, so ask thatgirl/boy if you'd like to catch up or go shopping or something.
I need advice on what to do, so my best friend Ashley was nice to me since 7th grade. Ashley has another friend named Megan. Well Megan and Ashley don't have any school classes together, and they are really close.
It's like this, One day I asked Ashley if she was doing anything, and maybe we could go to the mall, and she just makes up some silly excuse like "I have homework to do, and I have to clean the house" when its a FRIDAY NIGHT!!! And then I ask ashley if she wants to come home with me on my school bus, and she says she can't, and then I find out that she is able to rid Megan's bus. UGH!
Ashley just sometimes really bugs me, but other times it seems like we get along. Like we laugh at things we say, or do. (not laugh at each other, but laugh in a fun way) but our friendship is so weird, Ashley and I have absolutely nothing in commen. We are both athletic, but we have completely opposite intrests, like food, sports, hobbies.
Well I'm always seeing Ashley and Megan together, and It seems like Ashley is being annoyed around me. I think I have a habit of interrupting people, talking too much, asking too many questions, talking too quietly. What i'm asking is If Ashley is a good friend, and does it seem like she's annoyed around me? and how can I get rid of my habits, to make friends easier and not be so annoying to people.
Do I even sound annoying to you?
It's happened to me and it has happened to a load of girls,you trying really hard to save the realtionship, but you have to let go.You don't sound annoying to me.Maybe its megan thats been turning ashley away from you but dont despise megan.Don't bother grovelling to ash, if she is a good friend she'll come back to you.Right now hang with others and if you see her say hi.Your just breaking apart and maybe its a good thing, it helps ash realise who she wants to be mates with and whats going wrong.It happened to me and i decided to break away, and when I see her I say hi and I'm happier because I can hang with peole who treat me better and Im not spending my time trying to get someone to like me when its not going to work
hey i was thinking of going christmas shopping tomorroww and i was thinking of buying a perfume for my self =] Do you have perfume ideas that would attract guyss =] and would make me smell good?? THANK YOU!
Beautiful - by estee lauder
Fanstasy - britney spears
k so my gf and i were jumping off of our roof on 2 our tramp (imature i know) so she jumps and lands then her shirt flew up giving me a full view of her tits she does not know this but i wish she would where a bra 2 avoid this situation again but i dont know how 2 tell her i mean she is 13 for gods sake.
Ok so your saw them,but if she is wearing a top and she actually has tits and they are growing and she dosnt have a bra, be random and buy her one for xmas or put one under her pillow!
okay so, i really like this girl, weve been frinds for a long time, and i asked her out, she said no, but as time progressed, she strted to like me, but u see the thing is she wont go out with me cuz of her mom or her religion (its one of those) so my question is is ther a way we can go out with each other?(we dont want to lie to hermom, and shees really into her religion) by the way shhes a jehovahs witness so if there are any jw's able to give and indide point of view, it wud help ALOT. thanks
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To start im 13 and im a girl.
Ok well I was really good friends with this guy. We will call him C. So he was like my best friend, then I started to like him a little. so after i startedto like him I was determinded I was not going to go out with him cause it would ruin our friendship. But he was always playing with my hair and flirting with me then one day he wrote me a really sweet note about how he had always like me because Im nice and Im easy to talk to and stuff like that. The next day when we were on thanks giving break he asked me out over text message so I said yes.
Then later it was so weird going out with my bestfriend that i dumped him after only a week by writing him a note. It made him mad that I didnt say it to his face even though he asked me out by text msg. Well I moved on and forgot about him, but it has been a month since we broke up and he is still writing things about me on his myspace about how he only went out with me to make someone jealous and how im annoying. He wont talk to me anymore either.
what does this mean? what should i do?
He is acting this way because he can't face rejection, cant face the fact that a "a girl" broke with a boy and in boy world it should always be the otherway round.he still feels something for you he just can't deal with the fact your friendship had gone as well.But what you need to do is stick your chin high in the air.Forget what he saying and if anyone asks what's going on you tell them!You tell them you broke up with him and he can't handle the break up and whatnot.Don't be bothered by his myspace and stuff.You've moved on.And if you like someone go for it and even write on his myspace to get over it.And text him tell him your sorry annd you want to be friends, because he will read the text I know he will but dont go grovelling if he still dosnt talk to you, he wasnt that friend you had in the first place, forget him.