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what if you hate your brother
well i am 13 and i hate my older brother. he always gets me in trouble and he never gets in trouble instead i do. my dad treats him like royality and me like the ugly duckling. what should i do i cant stand him anymore he even broke my new skateboard i got for christmas! should i fin another place to live
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I have an older brother.I know what it feels like.But hey, you feel like he is annoying you,provoking you - if you ran away or something he has got the better of you.You have let him won!!You need to igonore what he does.Stay cool.The skatboard thing - its obvious he was upset - he would of liked it instead.Just tell him your cool with it and you dont mind.This then makes him see that your thinking posotive and changing your attitude.He'll think of it as respect.In doing this he'll give it to you back.And with your dad treating him like that - I think it is quite natural really, men love their sons - to discuss football and such.If your upset with your dad tell him how you feel!!Try hanging out with your dad, to learn more about him and vice versa!(and for him to learn about you).Then in doing this when trouble comes he'll understand you better and basically tell when your upset or when your telling the truth.I'm really sorry about your skatboard though.You need to take action!If yout upset and angry dont hurt yourself or run away.How about a online blog or something just to help you get it out in the open
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You need to take action because your brother and dad won't!
Sadiexxx
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running away can only make things worse.
you can't just run away from your problems.
be strong, and stand up for yourself.
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hey, lol dont run away or do something stupid like that. its not going to solve anything. acutally it would probably make the problem worse. try having a family meeting. let them know how you feel and dont hold back. i hope all goes well.
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I know exactly where you're coming from! I have 6 younger brothers and sisters and I thought of running away plenty of times when I was your age! Unfortunately, running away never solves anything. There are sevral ways to approach this situation. Talk to your parents. Tell them how your brothers behavior makes you feel and also tell them how it maked you feel when they ignore his behavior, Also remember that fighting never maked things better. The Bible says, "Do unto other as you would have them to do unto you". So try being kind to your brother, even when he misbehaves. Over time, you may find that he will be more kind to you. Hope this helps.
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