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friendship broken?
I need advice on what to do, so my best friend Ashley was nice to me since 7th grade. Ashley has another friend named Megan. Well Megan and Ashley don't have any school classes together, and they are really close.
It's like this, One day I asked Ashley if she was doing anything, and maybe we could go to the mall, and she just makes up some silly excuse like "I have homework to do, and I have to clean the house" when its a FRIDAY NIGHT!!! And then I ask ashley if she wants to come home with me on my school bus, and she says she can't, and then I find out that she is able to rid Megan's bus. UGH!
Ashley just sometimes really bugs me, but other times it seems like we get along. Like we laugh at things we say, or do. (not laugh at each other, but laugh in a fun way) but our friendship is so weird, Ashley and I have absolutely nothing in commen. We are both athletic, but we have completely opposite intrests, like food, sports, hobbies.
Well I'm always seeing Ashley and Megan together, and It seems like Ashley is being annoyed around me. I think I have a habit of interrupting people, talking too much, asking too many questions, talking too quietly. What i'm asking is If Ashley is a good friend, and does it seem like she's annoyed around me? and how can I get rid of my habits, to make friends easier and not be so annoying to people.
Do I even sound annoying to you?
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It's happened to me and it has happened to a load of girls,you trying really hard to save the realtionship, but you have to let go.You don't sound annoying to me.Maybe its megan thats been turning ashley away from you but dont despise megan.Don't bother grovelling to ash, if she is a good friend she'll come back to you.Right now hang with others and if you see her say hi.Your just breaking apart and maybe its a good thing, it helps ash realise who she wants to be mates with and whats going wrong.It happened to me and i decided to break away, and when I see her I say hi and I'm happier because I can hang with peole who treat me better and Im not spending my time trying to get someone to like me when its not going to work
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I don't think you sound annoying, I think you sound like a friend who doesn't want her friendship to break apart =]
I think you need to realize that since Ashley and Megan don't have any classes together, they want to spend some time together. Still, that isn't any excuse for them to exclude you. Are you friends at all with Megan? Maybe you should talk to her some time, and see if you have any common interests. Then, you will be friends with both of them, and you'd have a better chance of getting invited to do stuff with them. Also, you could invite both of them to do something.
If the friendship with Megan doesn't work out, you need to talk to Ashley about this. Tell her that you are sad that she doesn't spend any time with you anymore. There's a good chance she doesn't even realize she's being exclusionary. If you have any more questions, feel free to drop them in my inbox. Hope this helped!
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Just call ashley and tell her how u fill
let her know whats inside tell her (cry)
or if that doesnt work make a new friend but u can still be ashley's friend
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wait wait ur blaming you'r blaming your self? It sounds like you need to just ask why. Tell her anything she says will NOT count agenst her. You want to hear it strait forward. It porbibly isn't you its probibly her covering something up. dont hate it till you've tried it.
hope it helped
nathan
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