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Q: i'm trying to plan a party with one of my friends
what kind of stuff would be fun besides a scavenger hunt in wal mart?

like crafts or something thats cool?
for like freshman in high school...? haha thanks
i wood say blast some music and have a PARTY!!! its not a real party unless theres DANCING!!!!! or play spin the bottle, truth or dare, or get a piniata! (sp) and fill it up w/ candy and have ur friends try 2 kill it
if ya need anythin else lemme no

Q: I am an active girl. I run and weightlift every other day for school. Since then I lost alot of weight, that has turned to muscle. It would look so much better if I was a little thicker. I like thick thighs and thick waists.

Does anyone know a good way to gain weight in those regions without stopping my routine?

Thank you in advance [:
dude bein skinnys a good thing! but fine is you eat enuf calories to balence out what your burning, then you wood gain weight. try dognuts. and anything deep fryed. bcz those wood probably help you gain weight. but actually, eating healthy foods like carbs (bread, rice, pasts etc.) will help you gain weight in a healthy way.

Q: I've ordered Friends 1 - 10 0n dvd which hasn't come yet and i've just been reading the reviews on a website.
Someone has said that there's an extra episode on one of the dvd's that was never aired on TV and that it's rated 15.

Is that true? No one else has mentioned it.

Thank you x
that sounds kind of fishy. why would they make an epesode and never air it? thats kinda dumb isnt it?and usually, they would advertise the new DVD as having a new epesode that no ones ever seen. so i dont think thats true

Q: i have this friend lets call her "L" for now.All my friends and I think she is bi-sexual but i don't know what i should do.Basically on new years i invited her over to hang out and she kept touching, playing with my hair,tickling me,laying on me(so i moved and she did it again),jumping on me, and always looking other girls, and she is always checking out me and my other 2 friends saying oh my gosh! your butt is so small and stuff.So, i don't know do u think she is bisexual because she has a boyfriend so she cant be a lezbian.What should i do? Should i ask her? If I do though she will deffinetly take that offensively because she is like that.I have a boyfriend so i know i am not like her.
wat do you mean you cant be like her because you have a boyfriend? so does she! and anyways, your friend might be friendly. if she is bi, please dont call her on it. but if your uncomftorble then dont sleep over her house by yourself, and when she talks about your butt ask her not to, and that it makes you feel wierd. just dont bring up bisexuality (idk if thats even a word but i didnt no how to say it) in conversation because it might make her feel like you think that about her, wich would be awkward if shes straight!

Q: for the most part, i straighten my hair everyday. in the morning before i go to school it looks fine, but then by like 2nd period[which is like 9:15][i do my hair by 8] its starting to get wavy. it wont stay straight for a few hours. is there any way i can fix this? thanks in advance!
how hot is the iron? if its not hot it wont last. and if its not a good one it probably wont last. getting a really good iron could be worth it. also, im guessing you do it on clean hair, but make sure its not WET hair because that could definately damage it and make it not last. heres a website that has really good irons http://www.folica.com/Solia_Pink_Limi_d2161.html. also, there are irons for wet hair that could save time http://www.drugstore.com/qxp94832_334918_sespider/remington/wet_2_straight_model_s_8000i.htm its really cheap only like $27 but it dosent work as good as a normal iron. it might last, but it could make your hair look like straw if you have dryed out hair. good luck!
xo

Q: I'm 14/f and I'm a tomboyish girl. I mean I still wear girlyish clothes and shop and gossip and what not but I'm not the ones that are prude or wear pounds of make up or something.

I just get along with guys a lot more easily and I feel more comfortable aroudn them than girls because, well girls criticize and judge so much and ohhhmy the drama. I am also "perverted" not really. But when guys joke about the pen 15 club or LAO or stupid stuff like that or talking about someones doing someone or say stuff like go suck him or something like, I don't really care and I just laugh at it and join in with moronic comments like theirs. One guy and I have this little code for LAO, LOL, WTF, and YO with our hands and we just look at each other and do it out of random when we get bored in class. Hehe, but yeah, do guys think that girls like myself are weird or not or what? Do they feel comfortable around girls like me because it'd suck if they didnt...but tell me the brutal truth
i think theyre comftorble around you as one of the guys. they might noto be intrested in going out with you but if you dont see them in that way i bet they consider you another guy friend.
xo

Q: i want to make new friends, but i dont really know how to. You see, it's just kind of weird to go sit at a lunch table that you don't usually sit at, or start talking to people at school that you don't really know. So, my question is, how do you make new friends?
making new friends is easy! all you hve to do is go sit at a lunch table where there are only a few people there. only go if they dont look like the snobby kind of people. if theyre complete oposites from you (ex: ur a girly girl, they look like sportsy people) then dont go. walk over to an empty seat and ask if you can sit. introduce yourself, and show them you are friendly. keep conversation going, and dont be to pushy. also, dont be shy. confidant people are the funnest people to hang out with. after a while of this if you think you are becoming friends i would ask them if they want to hang out after school. but make sure not to rish it or they will think your pushy.
xo

Q: Haha and here's my 6th one. Yes I'm bored and I don't have a life. Okay, so this is the random one. Can anyone explain to me how to calculate your GPA and the whole class rankking thing?

I know that A-4 B-3 C-2 D-1 F-0 and if they're weight it's A-5 B-4 C-3 D-2 F-0. And they only count if they're high school courses. Well, what do you add and divide and blah blah? Like does the grade for each 9 weeks count or is the semester grades or the end of the year grade? Just step by step pleasE? haha.

And for class ranking, how do you know what number you are right now? I know you can go to the counslor and ask but is it possible to know what class ranking you are in 9th grade?
i got no clue, but ya serously sound like ya got no life
maybe go to da mall or sumtin?

Q: Why do guys lead girls on and then stop? Like just completely stop and act as if you guys were just friends and all that flirting never existed?
bcz guys r retarded. they flirt with ya till they find sum one hotter and then go flirt with them. guys are retarded in that way

Q: I'm re-doing my bedroom, with the colors of light blue and brown.
Anyone know where I can get good stuff to match?
Thanks!
PB teen. i used their catalog to re-do my hole room TWICE!!

Q: theres this boy and hes been going to my school for like 3 weeks and he is like a thug boy and my best friend really likes him but i do to and he is such a flirt with all of us.i just cant get him out of my mind. he hangs out with us all the time but he has a girlfriend. And just the other day he asked me out when he had a fight with his girlfriend...i said no but deep inside i was thinking yes! so if he asks me out again what should i say? also i dont wanna hurt my homies feelings
so go out with him!! if ur friends a good friend shell b happy 4u and if u like him go for him!!

he likes you a lot if he asked ya out twice!!!!!!!!!!!

Q: Im going to get my eyebrows waxed for the first time today...does it hurt?
hurts like hell!! after a while ya get used to it but the first time i was like bout to cry! now its like w/e and duzent hurt that bad

Q: (dont know if this is in the right category)

does anyone know any toothpaste or anything that will make teeth really white? thanks.
crest whitestrips. it only takes 10 days. every morning and every night ya wear them for like 30 mins. and it lasts!!

Q: I LOVE leg warmers like these from Hollister:

http://i10.tinypic.com/2d0gvp2.jpg

But I have no idea what to wear with them, besides Uggs! Are uggs basically the only thing that looks good with them? Every kind of shoe I think of look stupid to me, like heels or flip flops. Any ideas of how people wear leg warmers thats cute and IN STYLE? Id love pictures/stores. Thanks :]
rocket dog has serously adorable sneakers that look good w/ leg warmers!!

Q: Hi, for the longest time I have trying to get more volume in my hair. everything I try just falls flat in the first 10 mins. I use volume shampoo and conditioner. I have tried hairspray, I have tried teasing it. I have tried volumnizing spray and gel. I have also tried blow drying it upside down. Nothing seems to hold. Does anyone have any ideas of what I could try or do to get more volume? Any products or techniques that would help.
as soon as you get out of the shower, dont towel dry it or anyyrhing. put some pomade and mouse in it and braid it really tight. then spray it with hairspray and let it dry (or blow dry it). once you take it out, brush it with your fingers and spray it upside down. you could put some more pomade in it maybe. that should work


Q: Well I dumped my four month boyfriend
today and I'm fine. But the thing is I
did it through a text message because
he texted me telling me he loved me
and I didn't want to lie to him.

The problem was we never saw each
other so I wouldnt be able to do it
in person, he's ALWAYS busy.
Now I feel guilty because I know doing
it through a text is bad, should I call
him or something or just forget about it?
my bff dumped her bf through text. he got over it pretty quickly. id forget about it

Q: ok well ima a girl and a couple days ago i went to my aunts house and she has a son and he's my cousin.were both 14. well we kinda like each other alot and i guess we just set aside that we were cousins. well we ended up sleeping next to each other and he was touching me, like my boobs and butt and all that stuff. and well the next day we ended up making out like the whole day..and the thing is i liked it alot and i know it's wrong to like your cousin but i can't help it. why does it have to be so wrong? we both love each other and we have ever since we were little kids, we practically grew up together. i just don't know what to do, he kept asking me things like are you a virgin, do you wanna live with me when you grow up? and im just so confused on what to do, i don't want to end up having sex with my cousin, but then again, what if i do?, and what if i like it??! please help me. i need all the advice i can get.
uh, 4get it being morally wrong!! thing about wat wood it be like if he cheeted on you, ur ya broke up. ya wood still have 2 see him all the time, and how awkward wood that be?!? plz dont, bcz if ya ar 14 its probably not gonna last 4evr, and wen ya do break it off, its definately gonna be totally messed up

Q: In songs and on t.v i always hear "He dropped to his knees" or "i know she's gonna drop to my knees" what the hell does "dropping to his knees" mean?? I know it's sexual but thats about it. but what does dropping their knees have to do with sexual stuff?
idk, but u can look @ http://www.urbandictionary.com
it has all that stuff

Q: so i have this guyfriend. one day he told me he liked me, and i didn't know what to think because i have never though of him like that and i didn't really want to see him the next day cause i knew how awkward it would be because i didn't like him like that. well i saw him and everything was normal.. i started to like him little by little.. a couple months later my friend had a party well me and my guyfriend were kind of cuddling and from there on i realllly reallly liked him because he's really cute and sweet. well i know he still likes me because people are constantly asking him. but he also likes this girl who has a boyfriend she loves and has been dating forever. i put the moves on him a lot but he still hasn't asked me out. i tryed to move on and date someone but i always thought about him so we broke up. i don't know what to do i still like him. what can i do to make him ask me out?
if ya like him ya shood ask him out! not in front of every1 but ya cood call him and ask him out. it duzent always gotta be the guy. my friend asked out her bf, and they were 2gether for a reely reely long time. make sure ya dont do it online, bcz that way ya cant tell if its just a pity go out. if ya do it on the fone ya can hear his voice and tell if hes not reely into ya. if ur not scared ya cood always do it in person, wich wood be da best. good luk!!!

Q: okay, so me and this guy have been in an on and off relationship for about 2 years. this guy is really a jerk, and i regret him soo much [to make a lifetime story short lol]. so, this year, i met a guy, brad, and he told me that he liked me until he found out about this other guy [lets call him jake...the one i was talking about in the beggining], it turned him feelings for me off. he always tells me not to like him anymore, adn that hes not a nice person, adn that i could do a lot better. he also said that he does kinda like me, and that he might like me in the future if i forget about JAKE. brad is a really nice guy, and we always flirt. he also sometimes seems to be annoyed by me. me and JAKE just got into another fight, but this time we are COMPLETELY OVER....COMPLETELY.! but i told that to brad a few times before, and hes getting sick of it. i try not to talk about it to him, but he sometimes brings it up. what should i do?
jake is so mean to you! you can never ever get back with him ever! just remember how horiable he is. Brad sounds like a nice guy who wouldent steal you from another guy, and he probably thinks that theres no point in being with you if your going to get back with jake. you need to show him that its realy over, for ever. you might have to wait a while so that brad dosent think hes your rebound. if you hang out wuth him fow a while hell see that you really like him, then ya guys can be 2gether.
if you need anything lemme know, im always here bcz i have web on my fone.

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FRIENDS ARE LIKE ELEVATOR BUTTONS. THEY CAN EITHER BRING YOU UP OR TAKE YOU DOWN. CHOOSE WISELY
A friend will let you borrow their umbrella but a best friend will take yours and scream "Run Loser Run!!!"
we are all angels
with one wing
and we can wonly fly
with the help of somone else
my friends are my wings

TRUE FRIENDS
THEY ARE HARD TO FIND
DIFFICULT TO LEAVE
AND IMPOSSIBLE TO FORGET!

you can pick your friends, and you can pick your nose! but you cant pick your friends nose

killers stab you in the head
Frenemies stab you in the back
boys stab you in the heart
but best friends dont carry knives

a best friend will never ever come to bail you out of jail so never use your one phone call on them
i tried that, but she wouldent pick up. when i got back to our jail cell, i asked her why she wouldent pick up her phone.

theres no thing as strangers. there are only friends we havent met yet



ill give you advice the best that i can
im only 13 so the advice i give you may not be the best
but ive made tons of mistakes so i can relate
and im obsessed with shopping so anything with clothes i can help
and im always here if you want to talk or hang out or anything
im giving you the truth straight up
i am a brutally honest person
Im also fun-loving and adorable
I consider myseld a happy person
I just happen to love black
Do not call me gothic or ill kill you

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